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<p>要看对象，多帮往往适得其反！！</p> <p>下属要学会如何得到老板的信任,这一点对工作非常重要.</p><p>对于不是分内的事情,如果做了,会让被人抢了别人的风头从而吃力不讨好;如果不去做,会认为没有团队合作精神.在职场中,真实人言可畏呀,努力做好自己分内的事情,问心无愧就好.</p> 前提 自己分内事一定要做好！ 如果同事有需要，应该秉承十分事，你开个头，别人才能顺利接下去干。
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mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥">联系人：<?xml:namespace prefix = st1 ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" /><st1:PersonName w:st="on" productid="瞿">瞿</st1:PersonName>小姐</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; COLOR: black; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA" lang="EN-US"> <br/></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: black; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ˎ̥; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ̥">联系电话：</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: ˎ̥; COLOR: black; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA" lang="EN-US">021-51029369</span> <p>别人份内的事也是别人的事，你帮不帮他做就看他愿不愿意了，也许你想表现的热心，但其实很容易造成别人的误解，所以这种事情还是谨慎些好，不然最后帮了别人还破坏了同事关系就得不偿失了</p> <p>1、显示你的工作能力强，显示人家的无能。2、你可能很积极，但是你可能不团结。3、你想表现你的热心，但是别人眼里也许是你在作秀。</p>
<p>二樓總結得特符合我的實際，可能自已只是熱心，卻被別人誤解爲作秀、表現。讓別人有想法。還是要控制自已的熱心，學得自私一點，求助時才施以援手，比較好</p> <p>说狗什么事都没做那太冤枉它了，看家卫主事可谓不小、责任可谓不轻，各司其职则相安无事，驴的心态有问题所以被鞭打。</p>