[原创]割草的男孩——由一则故事所想到的
<br/><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; LINE-HEIGHT: 18.75pt; MARGIN-TOP: 23.4pt; TEXT-INDENT: 32pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-para-margin-top: 1.5gd; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0" class="MsoNormal" align="center"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 方正综艺_GBK; COLOR: #333399; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">割草的男孩——由一则故事所想到的<span lang="EN-US"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
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<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">一个替人割草的男孩出价<span lang="EN-US">5</span>美元，请他的朋友为他打电话给一位老太太。电话拔通后，男孩的朋友问道：<span lang="EN-US">“</span>您需不需要割草？<span lang="EN-US">” <o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 18pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-line-height-rule: exactly" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"> 老太太回答说：<span lang="EN-US">“</span>不需要了，我已经有了割草工。<span lang="EN-US">”<o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 18pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-line-height-rule: exactly" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"> 男孩的朋友又说：<span lang="EN-US">“</span>我会帮您拔掉花丛中的杂草。<span lang="EN-US">”<o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 18pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-line-height-rule: exactly" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"> 老太太回答：<span lang="EN-US">“</span>我的割草工已经做了。<span lang="EN-US">”<o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 18pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-line-height-rule: exactly" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"> 男孩的朋友再说：<span lang="EN-US">“</span>我会帮您把草与走道的四周割齐。<span lang="EN-US">”<o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 18pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-line-height-rule: exactly" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"> 老太太回答：<span lang="EN-US">“</span>我请的那个割草工也已经做了，他做得很好。谢谢你，我不需要新的割草工。<span lang="EN-US">”<o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 18pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-line-height-rule: exactly" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"> 男孩的朋友便挂了电话，接着不解地问割草的男孩说：<span lang="EN-US">“</span>你不是就在老太太那儿割草吗？为什么还要打这个电话？<span lang="EN-US">”<o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-line-height-rule: exactly" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">割草男孩说：<span lang="EN-US">“</span>我只是想知道老太太对我工作的评价。<span lang="EN-US">”<o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
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<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-line-height-rule: exactly" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">故事的寓意是：只有经常和自己客户沟通，你才有可能知道自己的长处与短处，才能够了解自己的处境。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">不仅是和客户方需要沟通，和老板、上级、同事也要勤于沟通，工作配合及合作才能得以顺利进行。比如在团队内部也需要沟通，在一个团队里，如果听不到一点异响，听不到一点反对意见，那是不正常的。水，在污泥塘里，不动不响，那是死的；在清江河里，汹涌奔腾，那是活的。沟通需要学习故事中的男孩一样主动，学习他发自内心的真诚，有效的沟通才能够创造效率。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">也许很多人因为设防、固执、懒惰、高傲、自闭等原因而不愿和人沟通，导致协作没有效率，相处不够融洽，从而缺少了本该有的和谐氛围。沟通是无处不在的，可是是语言上的，也可以是体态上的，在家里，我们要和爱人沟通、孩子沟能、父母沟通，才能更好地和家人相处，使婚姻更美满，家庭更幸福。不论我们走到哪里，只要有人的地方，就少不了沟通，良好的沟通是我们与别人打交道的保障。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">沟通是一种艺术，沟通更是一座桥梁，沟通是心灵的交流，沟通更是和谐的前提，家庭和睦需要它，朋友需要帮助时需要它，团队协作时更需要它，企业管理尤其离不开它。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">这个故事对管理者和被管理者来说无疑都是一种极大的启示，两者之间的有效沟通是任何管理艺术的精髓。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
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