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以下是引用寡无欲在4/2/2003 6:37:06 PM的发言:
鸟择檎而栖。 Next, I know how to do.
Actually, I am try to tell anyone studying English well is a very important and fundamental skill for our future career.
Everyone has different personal value system. My individual value system tell myself that I would rather making one good friend with excellent educational background and competence than making a great number of friends without any ideas.
My principle is called "elite resources policy". Actually, I have carried out my plan since I was a sophomore. I was active in the university because of my character. Firstly, I took part in dissimilar leagues to get to know all kinds of schoolmates in different majors. As you know, everybody had characters due to diverse families, childhoods, majors and interests, Next, I chose good friends with the same interest and pursuing goal from all my acquaitances. Then, I built friendly relationships with each other step by step.At last, we are good friends now. More importantly, I always belive, we should pay attention to the quality of our friends, not to the amount.In the past, Mr.Liu Bei became an empeor only because of his several best friends. Nowadays, Human resource net has an important role to play in one's career. A group is easier to reach sccess than a single.
寡无欲兄的精英交友政策,是值得我们借鉴的。但也是值得我们批判的。
这个世界不是仅仅由精英人物组成的,而导致每一项事物成功的,绝不是精英人才
精英人才只能提出高于普通的想法和作法,真正执行的是那些普通人。
而且很明显,寡兄的观点中明显的流露出对大众的轻视,从而也会导致忽视。
进而失去对大众的尊重。
无论是什么样的交友政策,失去对他人的尊重,将会使自己处于孤立的状态。
胡涂兄为什么受到大家的爱戴?因为他不仅无私奉献,更因为他尊重论坛里的每
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