Friend and Time

寡无欲

Today, I got one table, where you can find how to arrange your time, from my best fiend who have ever suggested that I should not take too much  time to establish and maintain good relationship with so many pepole, since it is no use helping me in the future. It is indeed a serious prolbem.

I was used to communicating or having a discussion with my friend. Evertime, after I argued with them, I always could get some dissimilar new opinions, which has a lot of benefits to me. However, it still has one problem, which is  we cannot distinguish which standpoint is better.

How to solve it? How to find a balance between your time and your relationship with friends?

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To this question, different people will have different opinions absolutely!
From my point of view, the more good friends the more pleasure I will have. But it might be a problem if I have 100 friends to communicate everyday, headache.
[em11] The lucky thing is I won't have this issue in the coming future. On my OICQ buddy list only has several people and one of them is myself.[em02]