标题: Time and friend [打印本页] 作者: 寡无欲 时间: 2003-8-21 07:09 标题: Time and friend Today, I got one table, where you can find how to arrange your time, from my best fiend who have ever suggested that I should not take too much time to establish and maintain good relationship with so many pepole, since it is no use helping me in the future. It is indeed a serious prolbem.
I was used to communicating or having a discussion with my friend. Evertime, after I argued with them, I always could get some dissimilar new opinions, which has a lot of benefits to me. However, it still has one problem, which is we cannot distinguish which standpoint is better.
How to solve it? How to find a balance between your time and your relationship with friends?作者: fhkkkk 时间: 2003-8-21 08:42
事君数，斯辱亦，朋友数，斯疏亦。
象我等俗人，只要与朋友一起便高兴，其余不顾。
不过以无欲兄的志向，倒需要适当平衡一下。作者: gohome 时间: 2003-8-21 09:33
很难，真正的朋友，用心就行。
如果出于某种目的，那么将朋友优化成为"客户关系管理"也未尝不可。作者: FAIRY1027 时间: 2003-8-21 10:08
时间和朋友，要看你自己如何去分配了。
仅供参考[em08]作者: littlebear 时间: 2003-8-21 16:43
I don't think there is anything should be considered.In fact if guawuyu is really such an ambitious man as who you are in the forum,your friends or most of your friends should be the same as you.Of course u can learn much from each other.Don't think just people who are evidently more excellent than u can teach u something,as long as u want to learn,everyone can teach u.Because everyone has his advantadge.
In fact in my mind,my friends are seperated into groups.Of course I have many friends.Someone I would talk to him about my ambition,someone I would tell him my fear.I treat someone as my brother,telling him my worry and my story between I and my boyfriend.And before some friends I act as an older sister,because they need me and I feel happy to be dependent on.My friends give me happyness and I give them too.We did not waste any time,just enjoying our life and our friendship and learn something.
In this world,everyone needs friends,in fact a frind in need is a friend indeed.True friend is got by your sincerity other than time or money.If you give him your heart,he will!