mortw 发表于 2006-7-16 14:31:42

很好的故事，有点老

管理员7 发表于 2006-7-16 14:50:41

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沙海之舟 发表于 2006-7-16 21:17:54

对我触动比较深的是钉子的故事，我也发觉，有些时候话语的杀伤力远远大于行动，被人的批评或者挖苦、嘲讽会在心里没藏很久，每次想起都会心痛。可是，从小到大，打过架的人确记不太清楚了，拳头的痛会消失的很快。

robertliu 发表于 2006-7-16 21:44:37

感谢, 感到的故事总不会让人觉得读多次是浪费.

上校 发表于 2006-7-17 00:28:12

收藏下来,提醒自己,也用来开导别人.谢谢!

cgl1980 发表于 2006-7-17 00:46:23

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renhuichen 发表于 2006-7-20 12:12:30

期待中...

renhuichen 发表于 2006-7-20 12:17:43

<font color="#ff00ff">话语的伤痛就像真实的伤痛一样令人无法承受</font>

TanQwanhon 发表于 2006-7-26 22:31:59

<p>话语的杀伤力远远大于行动，被人的批评或者挖苦、嘲讽会在心里没藏很久，每次想起都会心痛.</p><p>想想当年自己高考的落榜，和第二年的优异成绩。对这句话的感触难于言表啊！</p>

look_zyy 发表于 2006-7-30 12:46:15

恩，学习一下
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