[推荐]想象五年后的你（一篇让我思考很久很久的文章）
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center" align=center><B><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">想像五年后的你</SPAN></B><B><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></B><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center" align=center><B><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B>
<P class=MsoBodyTextIndent style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><FONT size=3>让我与你分享一段小故事，或许在这个阶段，可以很实际地帮助你走出目前的困境。</FONT></SPAN>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-char-indent-size: 12.0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">一九七六年的冬天，当时我十九岁，在休斯顿太空总署的大空梭实验室里工作，同时也在总署旁边的休斯顿大学主修电脑。纵然忙于学校、睡眠与工作之间，这几乎占据了我一天二十四小时的全部时间，但只要有多余的一分钟，我总是会把所有的精力放在我的音乐创作上。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><o:p></o:p></SPAN>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-char-indent-size: 12.0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">我知道写歌词不是我的专长，所以在这段日子里，我处处寻找一位善写歌、词的搭档，与我一起合作创作。我认识了一位朋友，她的名字叫凡內芮（</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">Valerie Johnson</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">）。自从二十多年前离开德州后，就再也没听过她的消息，但是她却在我事业的起步时，给了我最大的鼓励。仅十九岁的凡內芮在德州的诗词比赛中，不知得过多少奖牌。她的写作总是让我爱不释手，当时我们的确合写了许多很好的作品，一直到今天，我仍然</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">认为这些作品充满了特色与创意。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><o:p></o:p></SPAN>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-char-indent-size: 12.0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">一个星期六的周末，凡內芮又热情地邀请我至她家的牧场烤肉。她的家族是德州有名的石油大亨，拥有庞大的牧场。她的家庭虽然极为富有，但她的穿着、所开的车、与她谦诚待人的态度，更让我加倍地打从心底佩服她。凡內芮知道我对音乐的执着。然而，面对那遥远的音乐界及整个美国陌生的唱片市场，我们一点管道都没有。此时，我们两个人坐在德州的乡下，我们哪知道下一步该如何走。突然间，她冒出了一句话：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><o:p></o:p></SPAN>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-char-indent-size: 12.0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">" Visualize </FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">，</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">What you are doing in 5 years</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">？</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">﹙想像你五年后在做什么？﹚</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">"<o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN>
<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">我愣了一下。</SPAN> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-char-indent-size: 12.0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">她转过身来，手指着我说：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">"</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">嘿！告诉我，你心目中</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">'</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">最希望</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">'</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">五年后的你在做什么，你那个时候的生活是一个什么样子？</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">"</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">我还来不及回答，她又抢着</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">说：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">"</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">別急，你先仔细想想，完全想好，确定后再说出来。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">"</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">我沉思了几分钟，开始告诉她：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">"</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">第一，五年后，我希望能有一张唱片在市场上，而这张唱片很受欢迎，可以得到许多人的肯定。第二，我住在一个有很多很多音乐的地方，能天天与一些世界一流的乐师一起工作。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">"<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-char-indent-size: 12.0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">我慢慢稳稳地回答，而且拉了一个很长的</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">Yesssssss</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">！</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><o:p></o:p></SPAN>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-char-indent-size: 12.0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">凡內芮接着说：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">"</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">好，既然你确定了，我们就把这个目标倒算回来。如果第五年，你有一张唱片在市场上，那么你的第四年一定是要跟一家唱片公司签上合约。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">"<o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-char-indent-size: 12.0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">"</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">那么你的第三年一定是要有一个完整的作品，可以拿给很多很多的唱片公</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">司听，对不对？</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">"<o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-char-indent-size: 12.0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">"</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">那么你的第二年，一定要有很棒的作品开始录音了。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">"<o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-char-indent-size: 12.0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">"</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">那么你的第一年，就一定要把你所有要准备录音的作品全部编曲，排练就位准备好。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">"<o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-char-indent-size: 12.0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">"</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">那么你的第六个月，就是要把那些没有完成的作品修饰好，然后让你自己可以逐一筛选。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">"<o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-char-indent-size: 12.0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">"</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">那么你的第一个月就是要把目前这几首曲子完工。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">"<o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-char-indent-size: 12.0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">"</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">那么你的第一个礼拜就是要先列出一整个清单，排出哪些曲子需要修改，</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">哪些需要完工。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">"<o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-char-indent-size: 12.0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">"</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">好了，我们现在不就已经知道你下个星期一要做什么了吗？</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">"</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">凡內芮笑笑地说。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><o:p></o:p></SPAN>
<SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">"</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">喔，对了。你还说你五年后，要生活在一个有很多音乐的地方，然后与许多一流的乐师一起忙着工作，对吗？</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">"</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">她急忙地补充说。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">"</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">如果，你的第五年已经在与这些人一起工作，那么你的第四年照道理应该有你自己的一个工作室或录音室。那么你的第三年，可能是先跟这个圈子里的人在一起工作。那么你的第二年，应该不是住在德州，而是已经住在纽约或是洛杉机了。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">"</SPAN> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-char-indent-size: 12.0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">次年</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">(</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">一九七七年</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">)</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">，我辞掉了令许多人羨慕的太空总署的工作，离开了休斯顿，搬到洛杉机。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-char-indent-size: 12.0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">说也奇怪：不敢说是恰好五年，但大约可说是第六年。一九八三年，我的唱片在亚洲开始销起来，我一天二十四小时几乎全都忙着与一些顶尖的音乐高手，日出日落地一起工作。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><o:p></o:p></SPAN>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-char-indent-size: 12.0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">每当我在最困惑的时候，我会静下来问我自己：五年后你</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">"</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">最希望</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">"</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">看到你自己在做什么？</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><o:p></o:p></SPAN>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-char-indent-size: 12.0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">如果，你自己都不知道这个答案的话，你又如何要求別人或上帝为你做选择或开路呢？</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">別忘了！在生命中，上帝已经把所有</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">"</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">选择</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">"</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">的权力交在我们的手上了。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><o:p></o:p></SPAN>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-char-indent-size: 12.0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">如果，你对你的生命经常在问</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">"</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">为什么会这样？</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">""</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">为什么会那样？</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">"</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">的时候，你不妨试着问一下自己，你是否很</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">"</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">清清楚楚</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">"</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">地知道你自己要的是什么？</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><o:p></o:p></SPAN>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-char-indent-size: 12.0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">如果连你自己要的是什么都不知道的话，那么爱你的主又如何帮你安排呢？不是吗？</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><o:p></o:p></SPAN>
<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">而在你旁边的人，再怎么热心地为你敲锣打鼓，爱你的主也顶多给一些慈悲的安慰。因为连你自己都还没有清楚地告诉他，你要的是什么？那么你又岂能无辜地怪上帝没有为你开路呢？不是吗？</SPAN> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-char-indent-size: 12.0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">有这样一篇调查似乎也说明了什么：</SPAN>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-char-indent-size: 12.0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"></SPAN>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-char-indent-size: 12.0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">有一年，一群意气风发的天之骄子从美国哈佛大学毕业了，他们即将开始穿越各自的玉米地。他们的智力、学历、环境条件都相差无几。在临出校门前，哈佛对他们进行了一次关于人生目标的调查。结果是这样的：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-char-indent-size: 12.0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">27</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">％的人，没有目标；</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">60</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">％的人，目标模糊；</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"> </SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">10</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">％的人，有清晰但比较短期的目标；</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"> </SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">3</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">％的人，有清晰而长远的目标。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"> 以后的</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">25</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">年，他们穿越玉米地。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">25</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">年后，哈佛再次对这群学生进行了跟踪调查。结果又是这样的：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"> </SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">3</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">％的人，</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">25</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">年间他们朝着一个方向不懈努力，几乎都成为社会各界的成功人士，其中不乏行业领袖、社会精英；</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"> </SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">10</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">％的人，他们的短期目标不断地实现，成为各个领域中的专业人士，大都生活在社会的中上层；</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"> </SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">60</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">％的人，他们安稳地生活与工作，但都没有什么特别成绩，几乎都生活在社会的中下层；</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"> 剩下</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">27</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">％的人，他们的生活没有目标，过得很不如意，并且常常在抱怨他人、抱怨社会、抱怨这个</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">不肯给他们机会</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">的世界。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN>
<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"> 其实，他们之间的差别仅仅在于：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">25</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">年前，他们中的一些人知道为什么要穿越玉米地，而另一些人则不清楚或不很清楚。</SPAN>
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<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">现在你还楞什么呢</SPAN>
<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">赶紧去想</SPAN>
<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">赶紧去做</SPAN>
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<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">时间不等人啊。。。。。。。。。。。。。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"></SPAN> 要求置顶 好文章 一篇让我感触至深的文章。应楼主要求，已经至顶，希望可以指导更多的兄弟姐妹们！ 真好，说到心里了 很有道理，做人一定要有目标。 好文章