wangweidon 发表于 2010-9-5 07:54:03

思善,才趋清净

<P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">思善,才趋清净</SPAN></P>
<P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">昨晚,我再也憋不住了,是否现在就赶到学校去。虽然孩子的学校在另一个城市,其实也就是个把小时的路程。因为孩子上个月</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: " lang=EN-US>29</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">号到校,开始军训一周的;我后来打了几个电话,都没接,短信不回,心底愈加不安起来。孩子怎么啦?对我这老爸到底有什么意见?我怎么就伤着孩子啦?</SPAN></SPAN></P>
<P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">后来一想,还有班主任的电话,去之前不如拨个电话?于是乎,我鼓起勇气拨<?xml:namespace prefix = st1 ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:***arttags" /><st1:PersonName w:st="on" ProductID="通">通</st1:PersonName>老师电话。老师很客气,说孩子很好,还特愿帮助同学,明天下午才会返校,规定不允许带手机的。我一块石头算落到肚子里,后来不久孩子拿了其他老师的电话也给我回了一个电话:一切顺利,明天到校请他搓一顿就成!</SPAN></P>
<P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">因为不知道,就会想,混思乱想,其实细细玩味这是常态。岂止孩子这儿?想这想哪,特别是现今之岁月,人们的交往大抵如是,我自己的教训真也不在少数。从过去的母亲、爱人、朋友,工作中的顾客、同事,可以说不一而足。</SPAN></P>
<P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">总感觉:自己是值得同情的,别人不理解我;自己是委屈的,别人应该同情我。如果得不到自以为沟通之效果,就容易想,转而升级为嗔恨、忧怨,把自己的情绪搞得一团糟。细细玩味,均在于自己的想了,所谓“天下本无事,庸人自扰之”。</SPAN></P>
<P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">清净心不会凭空获取的,昨晚我丢下电话,特兴奋,真得。于是出去玩,到公园转转,给阿木林敲走一些钱,可还是开心!回到家中,翻开书本,也勉强自己看上几页,虽然似懂非懂,但心里舒坦,于是睡去。</SPAN></P>

孙多福 发表于 2010-9-5 11:33:44

Hilary Duff’s Vera Wang Wedding Dress

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<p><font color="#333333">The&nbsp;dress&nbsp;is&nbsp;made&nbsp;of&nbsp;polyvinyl&nbsp;alcohol,&nbsp;a&nbsp;biodegradable&nbsp;substance&nbsp;that&nbsp;is&nbsp;used&nbsp;in&nbsp;laundry&nbsp;bags&nbsp;and&nbsp;washing&nbsp;detergents,&nbsp;which&nbsp;is&nbsp;knitted&nbsp;into&nbsp;the&nbsp;fabric.&nbsp;This&nbsp;enables&nbsp;it&nbsp;to&nbsp;be&nbsp;dissolved&nbsp;into&nbsp;water&nbsp;without&nbsp;harming&nbsp;the&nbsp;environment.&nbsp;</font><a href="http://www.wellbridal.com/"><font color="#333333">wedding&nbsp;dresses</font></a><font color="#333333"> </font>
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<p><font color="#333333">Hilary&nbsp;Duff&nbsp;just&nbsp;had&nbsp;her&nbsp;big&nbsp;w&nbsp;day&nbsp;and&nbsp;the&nbsp;bride&nbsp;wore…&nbsp;(drumroll&nbsp;please,&nbsp;this&nbsp;is&nbsp;going&nbsp;to&nbsp;be&nbsp;such&nbsp;a&nbsp;surprise!)&nbsp;Vera&nbsp;Wang!&nbsp;A&nbsp;hand&nbsp;painted&nbsp;silk&nbsp;tulle&nbsp;and&nbsp;organza&nbsp;dress&nbsp;that&nbsp;complimented&nbsp;her&nbsp;silhouette,&nbsp;complexion&nbsp;and&nbsp;matched&nbsp;perfectly&nbsp;the&nbsp;garden&nbsp;ceremony&nbsp;atmosphere.&nbsp;(Hilary&nbsp;wedded&nbsp;her&nbsp;long&nbsp;time&nbsp;beau,&nbsp;hockey&nbsp;player&nbsp;Mike&nbsp;Comrie,&nbsp;naturally&nbsp;congratulating&nbsp;the&nbsp;happy&nbsp;couple,&nbsp;we’re&nbsp;happy&nbsp;to&nbsp;have&nbsp;had&nbsp;a&nbsp;glimpse&nbsp;at&nbsp;their&nbsp;special&nbsp;moment&nbsp;and&nbsp;admire&nbsp;that&nbsp;gorgeous&nbsp;Vera&nbsp;dress&nbsp;that&nbsp;you&nbsp;can&nbsp;admire&nbsp;even&nbsp;more&nbsp;after&nbsp;the&nbsp;jump!)&nbsp;(photos&nbsp;via)&nbsp; </font>
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群2015 发表于 2010-9-6 19:20:34

呵呵呵

hold 发表于 2010-9-9 16:20:15

<p>有句话说得好,不是世界伤害了你,是你对世界的反应伤害了你。人对事物的反应才是伤害人的最主要因素。</p>

钟燕 发表于 2010-9-10 17:06:37

“天下本无事,庸人自扰之”严重同意这句话!

御锋 发表于 2010-9-11 10:49:34

似懂非懂,但心里舒坦

syouen 发表于 2010-9-11 13:38:15

<p>谢谢,我看到这篇文章的时候正好是因为看不到而胡思乱想的那个阶段,谢谢分享感受,看了心里舒服很多,我也知道自己该做什么了~~</p>

快乐飞翔 发表于 2010-9-12 06:56:45

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