caihongqiao 发表于 2010-8-13 11:59:39

孩子最怕听的十句话

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<p class="MsoNormal" style="LINE-HEIGHT: 17.25pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 黑体; mso-hansi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">4</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 黑体; mso-hansi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">、“住嘴<span lang="EN-US">!</span>你怎么就是不听话呢<span lang="EN-US">?</span>”</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: Helvetica; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 黑体; mso-fareast-font-family: 黑体">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 黑体; mso-hansi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Helvetica; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="LINE-HEIGHT: 17.25pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 黑体; mso-hansi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">5</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 黑体; mso-hansi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">、“我说不行就是不行<span lang="EN-US">!</span>”</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: Helvetica; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 黑体; mso-fareast-font-family: 黑体">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 黑体; mso-hansi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Helvetica; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="LINE-HEIGHT: 17.25pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 黑体; mso-hansi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">8</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 黑体; mso-hansi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">、“你若考了一百分<span lang="EN-US">,</span>我就给你买……”</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: Helvetica; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 黑体; mso-fareast-font-family: 黑体">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 黑体; mso-hansi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Helvetica; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="LINE-HEIGHT: 17.25pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 黑体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">10</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 黑体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">、“你又做了错事<span lang="EN-US">,</span>简直是坏透了。”</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Helvetica; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span></span></p>

大口大口 发表于 2010-8-13 13:42:10

<p>很有意思啊!路过了</p>

笨笨溜走 发表于 2010-8-13 13:53:02

家长有时候很难控制自己的情绪的

阿尤丫 发表于 2010-8-13 13:53:16

别以为你的孩子还小,听不懂大人的事情。他已经从你的身上学会了仇恨超越自己的人。<font face="Helvetica "><font style="FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt"></font></font>

阿尤丫 发表于 2010-8-13 13:55:31

别以为你的孩子还小,听不懂大人的事情。他已经从你的身上学会了仇恨超越自己的人。<font face="Helvetica "><font style="FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt"></font></font>

bingyulei 发表于 2010-8-13 14:06:13

我们给孩子的解释往往是说我们的谎言是<font face="Helvetica "><font style="FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt">“</font></font><font face="宋体 "><font style="FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt">善意</font></font><font face="Helvetica "><font style="FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt">”</font></font><font face="宋体 "><font style="FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt">的。但对孩子来讲,善意的也好,恶意的也罢,那都是谎言</font></font>

小香香 发表于 2010-8-13 14:11:01

、“你又做了错事,简直是坏透了。”<br/>
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小香香 发表于 2010-8-13 14:11:38

、“你又做了错事,简直是坏透了。”<br/>
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梁糖糖 发表于 2010-8-13 14:25:14

<font face="Verdana">&lt;font face="Verdana"&gt;我们每个做家长的都应该反思:在我们指责教育失败的时候,自己又是怎样培养孩子的&lt;/font&gt;</font>

helloxiong 发表于 2010-8-13 14:51:41

<p>说孩子的时候一定要考虑尊重孩子 考虑孩子的感受</p>
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