[转帖]职场里的这些人千万别错过
<p class="p0" style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: New? Roman?;>问一问自己，谁是我们的<span style="FONT-FAMILY: times=" Roman? Times? New="New">“</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">职场贵人</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: times=" Roman? Times? New="New">”</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">？我们的贵人其实就在我们的周围，他们就像我们的小天使，在我们身旁守候着我们，希望我们的努力及付出变得更有价值。他们从来没放弃过你，默默地在幕后支持着你。</span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: New? Roman?;></span></p><p class="p0" style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: New? Roman?;>1<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">、愿意无条件力挺你的人</span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: New? Roman?;></span></p>
<p class="p0" style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: New? Roman?;>我常说，如果有人愿意挺你，他肯定是你的贵人。当他愿意无条件地挺你，只因为你是你，他相信<span style="FONT-FAMILY: times=" Roman? Times? New="New">“</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">你</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: times=" Roman? Times? New="New">”</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">这个人，他接受你。一个愿意接受我们的人，他肯定是我们的贵人。当他知道有小人在你背后中伤你说你的不是，他会挺你，帮你说好话来澄清！</span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: New? Roman?;></span></p>
<p class="p0" style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: New? Roman?;>2<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">、愿意唠叨你的人</span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: New? Roman?;></span></p>
<p class="p0" style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: New? Roman?;>因为他关心你，所以他才会唠叨！因为他在意你，所以他才会唠叨！他的唠叨是提醒，在事情发生前，他希望你可以少走冤枉路。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: New? Roman?;></span></p>
<p class="p0" style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: New? Roman?;>3<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">、愿意和你分担分享的人</span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: New? Roman?;></span></p>
<p class="p0" style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: New? Roman?;>愿意陪你一起度过风雨的伙伴，是你的贵人。很多人会在有难时离开你，但是当你有成就时，他们就想要和你一起领功。没分担，只要分享。这哪里可能？可以陪同你分担一切的苦，分享一切的乐，这是贵人。愿意陪同他人经过这过程的人，也是贵人。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: New? Roman?;></span></p>
<p class="p0" style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: New? Roman?;>4<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">、教导及提拔你的人</span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: New? Roman?;></span></p>
<p class="p0" style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: New? Roman?;>他看到你的好，同时也了解到你的不足之处，他能协助你，提拔你，他不嫌弃你，不是你的贵人，是什么？</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: New? Roman?;></span></p>
<p class="p0" style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: New? Roman?;>5<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">、愿意欣赏你的长处的人</span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: New? Roman?;></span></p>
<p class="p0" style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: New? Roman?;>一个愿意发现你的长处、欣赏你的长处、接纳你的长处的人，肯定是你的贵人。有些上司虽然发现你的长处，但是他未必可以喜欢及欣赏它，更别说接受它！这关键在于他们往往会担心你会对他造成威胁，特别是当你的长处是他缺乏的。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: New? Roman?;></span></p>
<p class="p0" style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: New? Roman?;>6<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">、愿成为你的榜样的人</span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: New? Roman?;></span></p>
<p class="p0" style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: New? Roman?;>贵人言行一致，讲到就肯定做得到，他们往往不喜欢夸大，常会默默地做，做比讲来得多，这种贵人具有实力和谦虚的性格。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: New? Roman?;></span></p>
<p class="p0" style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: New? Roman?;>7<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">、愿意遵守承诺的人</span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: New? Roman?;></span></p>
<p class="p0" style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: New? Roman?;>贵人都只同意自己愿意遵守的承诺，因为他们能够很清楚地知道自己的能力所在，自己能不能全力达到承诺的内容。我并不是说贵人不能改变自己的立场，他们当然可以，只不过每一个决定，都必须经过深思熟虑后才能采取行动。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: New? Roman?;></span></p>
<p class="p0" style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: New? Roman?;>8<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">、愿意不放弃而相信你的人</span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: New? Roman?;></span></p>
<p class="p0" style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: New? Roman?;>如果你问自己是不是其他伙伴的贵人，那你是否有好好栽培对方和相信对方？贵人是不会放弃他的组员的，贵人会相信对方。贵人会视对方无罪，一直到对方被定罪为止，这代表贵人会完全相信他的伙伴，全力支持他。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: New? Roman?;></span></p>
<p class="p0" style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: New? Roman?;>9<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">、愿意生你气的人</span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: New? Roman?;></span></p>
<p class="p0" style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: New? Roman?;>如果他还愿意生你的气，你就得感激他。这是因为他还很在乎你。试想想，如果你完全不再爱对方，你会理会他吗？爱的相反并不是恨，而是冷漠。如果我们恨对方，这动作告诉我们其实自己还是很爱他，如果你对对方所做的一切，一点感觉也没有，这叫做冷漠，这才是完全不爱了。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: New? Roman?;></span></p>
<p class="p0" style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: New? Roman?;>10<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">、愿意为你着想的人</span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: New? Roman?;></span></p>
<p class="p0" style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; VERTICAL-ALIGN: baseline; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: New? Roman?;>如果他愿意为你，只因为你是你，那你肯定很幸福，因为他处处为你着想，他是你的贵人。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: New? Roman?;></span></p>
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