ufidaer 发表于 2009-9-18 13:27:59

[转帖]现实很残酷:一根绳子上的三种人生

<P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 今天看了一个故事,感慨现实的残酷,我们老是喜欢拿些故事教育人,因为可以声情并茂、形象动人,让人思考后面隐喻的道理,但是其实那些故事一旦变成了现实,就显得很残酷了!</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><?XML:NAMESPACE PREFIX = O /><O:P></O:P></SPAN></SPAN></P>
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<P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">民间故事里说</SPAN></B><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">:第一个人升了天堂,第二个人入了坟墓,第三个人下了地狱。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><O:P></O:P></SPAN></SPAN></P>
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<P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">但是现实生活中这个故事的结局是什么</SPAN></B><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">:第一个、第二个人死了,第三个人最终爬了上去。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><O:P></O:P></SPAN></SPAN></P>
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一个有文化的流氓 发表于 2009-9-25 12:45:51

sheisa 发表于 2009-9-27 15:34:38

<p>嗯,正在寻找平衡点的同道中人。</p>

唐沙 发表于 2009-9-27 19:11:16

很有启示~

zzww11 发表于 2009-10-16 18:03:01

<p>其实很简单,不要考虑极端环境,只考虑人生原则,按照正确的人生原则(伦理道德)修炼自己,个人和社会都会很美好。至于在极端情况下发生的事情,就看瞬间的把持。不过,那已无所谓了。在整个人生过程中是美好的就行。所以,对“范跑跑”要从道德上鞭笞,从实际中给与原谅。关键是他平时做的如何?</p>
<p>所以不用思考,先培养爱心,再培训实际处事权变之道才是对的。</p>
<p>事之功,在德之基。</p>
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