loyalwww 发表于 2009-8-17 13:52:18

巩俐毁了张艺谋女儿的童年?看看家庭系统排列怎么说

<div><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">【淳报】评论:近期,网上流传一篇帖子,《</span><b><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">张艺谋女儿:巩俐毁了我的童年</span></i></b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">》,<span lang="EN-US">google</span>一搜,居然有<span lang="EN-US">94000</span>个网页,危机管理专家周子淳慨叹:</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">这样的文章,固然能让少数人出名,但也造成几位当事人之间的隔阂和裂痕</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">从心理学的角度分析,这样的炒作,可以让张艺谋的女儿张末获得知名度和同情分,但也加重了她本人作为“被受害者”的角色认同,不利于她未来的自我成长</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">;</span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #ff6600; FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">如果张末未来希望成为新锐导演,接收尘封往事,面向未来才是方向</span></b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">。</span></div>
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<div><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"></span>&nbsp;</div><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN-TOP: 0cm; MARGIN-LEFT: 0cm; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0cm" 2.0? mso-char-indent-count: TEXT-INDENT: 0pt; 0cm="0cm" 0cm? 24.1pt;><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆">最后,子淳分享一段张伯伦的诗篇,作为结尾!<span lang="EN-US"><?xml:namespace prefix = o /><o:p></o:p></span></span></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN-TOP: 0cm; MARGIN-LEFT: 0cm; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0cm" 2.0? mso-char-indent-count: TEXT-INDENT: 0pt; 0cm="0cm" 0cm? 24.1pt; 150%; LINE-HEIGHT:><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #ff6600; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆">孩子<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN-TOP: 0cm; MARGIN-LEFT: 0cm; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0cm" 2.0? mso-char-indent-count: TEXT-INDENT: 0pt; 0cm="0cm" 0cm? 24.1pt; 150%; LINE-HEIGHT:><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #ff6600; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆">一个怀抱婴儿的妇人说:跟我们谈谈“孩子”吧!<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN-TOP: 0cm; MARGIN-LEFT: 0cm; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0cm" 2.0? mso-char-indent-count: TEXT-INDENT: 0pt; 0cm="0cm" 0cm? 24.1pt; 150%; LINE-HEIGHT:><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #ff6600; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆">他说:你的孩子不是你的,<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN-TOP: 0cm; MARGIN-LEFT: 0cm; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0cm" 2.0? mso-char-indent-count: TEXT-INDENT: 0pt; 0cm="0cm" 0cm? 24.1pt; 150%; LINE-HEIGHT:><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #ff6600; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆">他们是“生命”的子女,是生命对自己的渴望,<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN-TOP: 0cm; MARGIN-LEFT: 0cm; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0cm" 2.0? mso-char-indent-count: TEXT-INDENT: 0pt; 0cm="0cm" 0cm? 24.1pt; 150%; LINE-HEIGHT:><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #ff6600; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆">他们经你所生,却不是从你所出,<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN-TOP: 0cm; MARGIN-LEFT: 0cm; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0cm" 2.0? mso-char-indent-count: TEXT-INDENT: 0pt; 0cm="0cm" 0cm? 24.1pt; 150%; LINE-HEIGHT:><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #ff6600; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆">虽然他们和你在一起,却不属于你,<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN-TOP: 0cm; MARGIN-LEFT: 0cm; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0cm" 2.0? mso-char-indent-count: TEXT-INDENT: 0pt; 0cm="0cm" 0cm? 24.1pt; 150%; LINE-HEIGHT:><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #ff6600; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆">你可以给他们你的爱,但不能给他们你的思想,<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN-TOP: 0cm; MARGIN-LEFT: 0cm; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0cm" 2.0? mso-char-indent-count: TEXT-INDENT: 0pt; 0cm="0cm" 0cm? 24.1pt; 150%; LINE-HEIGHT:><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #ff6600; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆">因为他们有自己的思想,<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN-TOP: 0cm; MARGIN-LEFT: 0cm; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0cm" 2.0? mso-char-indent-count: TEXT-INDENT: 0pt; 0cm="0cm" 0cm? 24.1pt; 150%; LINE-HEIGHT:><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #ff6600; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆">你的房里可以住着他们的身体,却住不了他们的灵魂,<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN-TOP: 0cm; MARGIN-LEFT: 0cm; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0cm" 2.0? mso-char-indent-count: TEXT-INDENT: 0pt; 0cm="0cm" 0cm? 24.1pt; 150%; LINE-HEIGHT:><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #ff6600; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆">因为他们灵魂住在明日之屋,你无法拜访,即使在梦中,<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN-TOP: 0cm; MARGIN-LEFT: 0cm; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0cm" 2.0? mso-char-indent-count: TEXT-INDENT: 0pt; 0cm="0cm" 0cm? 24.1pt; 150%; LINE-HEIGHT:><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #ff6600; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆">你可以努力去像他们,但不要想使他们像你,<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN-TOP: 0cm; MARGIN-LEFT: 0cm; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0cm" 2.0? mso-char-indent-count: TEXT-INDENT: 0pt; 0cm="0cm" 0cm? 24.1pt; 150%; LINE-HEIGHT:><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #ff6600; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆">因为生命不会倒退,也不会驻足昨日,<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN-TOP: 0cm; MARGIN-LEFT: 0cm; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0cm" 2.0? mso-char-indent-count: TEXT-INDENT: 0pt; 0cm="0cm" 0cm? 24.1pt; 150%; LINE-HEIGHT:><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #ff6600; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆">你是弓,子女是从你身上射出去的活生生的箭,<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN-TOP: 0cm; MARGIN-LEFT: 0cm; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0cm" 2.0? mso-char-indent-count: TEXT-INDENT: 0pt; 0cm="0cm" 0cm? 24.1pt; 150%; LINE-HEIGHT:><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #ff6600; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆">弓箭手看到在无穷途径上的记号,用他的气力弯曲你这只弓,<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN-TOP: 0cm; MARGIN-LEFT: 0cm; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0cm" 2.0? mso-char-indent-count: TEXT-INDENT: 0pt; 0cm="0cm" 0cm? 24.1pt; 150%; LINE-HEIGHT:><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #ff6600; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆">希望他的箭射得又快又远,愉悦地屈服在他的手中吧!<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN-TOP: 0cm; MARGIN-LEFT: 0cm; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0cm" 2.0? mso-char-indent-count: TEXT-INDENT: 0pt; 0cm="0cm" 0cm? 24.1pt; 150%; LINE-HEIGHT:><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #ff6600; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆">因为正如他爱那飞驰的箭,同样他也爱那稳定的弓。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></b></p>
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iriswch 发表于 2009-8-17 14:12:11

<p>文章分析的很有道理!</p>
<p>张伯伦的诗让人深受启发,非常感谢美文分享!</p>
<p>作为父母,理解孩子,给孩子自由,让他们自然快乐的生长,在自己的辽阔天空自在飞翔,这才是对孩子真正无私的爱!</p>
<p>学会放手,心灵的自由呼吸才会培养出思维不受限的奇才,大家彼此互相尊重,不要过多约束,孩子定会给你美丽的惊喜!</p>

iriswch 发表于 2009-8-17 14:13:49

<font face="Verdana">文章分析的很有道理!<br/>张伯伦的诗让人深受启发,非常感谢美文分享!<br/>作为父母,理解孩子,给孩子自由,让他们自然快乐的生长,在自己的辽阔天空自在飞翔,这才是对孩子真正无私的爱!<br/>学会放手,心灵的自由呼吸才会培养出思维不受限的奇才,大家彼此互相尊重,不要过多约束,孩子定会给你美丽的惊喜!</font>
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rhythm20 发表于 2009-8-19 12:58:58

<p>都是名利惹的祸</p>

XUANQI 发表于 2009-8-20 15:23:43

娱乐圈不好混啊!
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