428生日总结:十大新闻评选
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">时间很快，去年生日的文章还在置顶。今年生日又到了。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">不知不觉，我已经三十。古人说三十而立。立德立言立行。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">郭腾尹老师说，记录比记忆重要。人生最大的财富是记录下来的回忆。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">翻翻自己的日记，盘点出</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: ">2008</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">至</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: ">2009</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">年度生日间十大新闻。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy"><o:p><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: "> </SPAN></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: ">1</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">、带妈妈新加坡马来西亚八日游。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></B></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">我在新马八天巡回讲课，妈妈在新马八天游玩。妈妈去了赌场，坐了摩天轮，拍了许多照片。一路很开心。感谢</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: ">GARY</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">一家陪着妈妈。妈妈很喜欢到课堂听我讲课，我也很喜欢把好朋友带回家吃饭。做父母的都希望多呆在孩子身边，都想多了解孩子。带父母认识自己的工作，认识自己的朋友、同事，同时也得到父母更大的爱与支持。让父母觉得更多的东西与他们相关，也增加更多的话题。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: ">2</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">、给太太的情书。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></B></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">我和太太一起在翻妈妈从老家带的东西。突然发现一本带锁的笔记本。打开是当时我写给初恋女友的情书。太太愤愤不平大喊：都没有给我写过情书！太太生日</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: ">725</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">当然是写情书的好机会。当天晚上把偷偷写好的藏头藏尾诗放在枕头下（诗作是拼凑的，水平绝对一般，把我和太太的名字及爱的誓言放进去了），拿出来给太太看。太太看完后，大呼一声：好了，我赢了！</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">我在北京帮太太带了条围巾做礼物，太太问：是不是你亲自挑的？我说是。太太又说，为什么在上面有我的名字。错愕的那刻却领悟到太太教给我爱的真谛，爱是看用心程度的。所以虽然我写的诗作一般，但毕竟是花了时间的。所以自我创作好过抄写，手写好过机打。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: ">3</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">、东航普通卡升为银卡。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></B></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">银卡与普通卡的区别是无论机票是多少折，只要是该航空公司的飞机都可以优先办理行李登记、优先进行安检并且在贵宾室休息。虽然我知道累积里程或飞行次数可以会员卡升级，但是一向我只以价格和时间为第一要素。所以五年前当讲师到今天，每年飞行将近百次，只有东航不经意升为银卡。（许多航段特价不参与累积）。可以享受到人生的富足，即使没有先天的财力，只要有后天的累积一样是可以的。今天我有机会升级是过去一直的努力与累积，而今天的我是否还在认真累积未来呢？</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 22.5pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.5"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">人生累积要早点定向。（办卡，记得每次登记）累积到一点程度会在某方面有优势，但依然不要忘记自己的原则。（别的航空公司就没有，依然要学会平常心态。你在某方面是专业不要自我膨胀到要求各方面的认同）。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">一次坐火车往返上海杭州。期间一直用手机处理工作。对面有位女生传给我一张纸条。大意是提醒我注意公共道德。我非常羞愧。我的价值观里面很重要的一点事不要给别人带来不便和干扰。发现自己行为上还是有很多需要修的东西。很佩服对方的勇气，虽然现在已经完全不记得对方的样子。但是很感恩生活中工作中所有给我提出过意见的人，她们相信我可以变得更好，她们不因为我一次没有做好而不给予我下次提升的机会。而我们身边如果多几位对自己严格要求的朋友、师长、家人，也许是我们的幸福。人生是需要不断被提醒的。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: ">5</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">、回国飞机上的眼泪</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></B></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: ">8</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">月</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: ">8</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">日奥运举国欢庆的时候我在新加坡讲课。我自觉不是一个很喜欢热闹的人，美食美景都对我没有特别的吸引力，而且完全不喜欢体育。我的志愿和最爱就是躺在床上或沙发里看着电视扮土豆，无论是新闻还是连续剧，都是我的最爱。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: ">10</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">日回国，在飞机上看过几篇报道，突然落泪。第一次有了因为自豪而落泪的体验。不只兴奋，不是感动。终于理解奥斯卡颁奖礼上喜极而泣的状态，里面一些一定是自豪的泪水。那一刻，世界是个舞台。所有的中国人都在颁奖台。我爱你祖国，祖国把荣誉给到我们，我们要把祖国建设得更加美好，要为人类谋福祉。有的时候，周围的环境都在告诉你，你要做的是不能只为自己活着。我们一定都参与了社会分工，都对其他人产生着影响，可是是用主动的态度还是用被动的方式决定我们与伟人之间的距离。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: ">6</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">、第一次</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: ">MY</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">课程收尾的大总结</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></B></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">曾经，成为国际课程</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: ">MY</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">的讲师是我的梦想。当然认可</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: ">MY</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">是因为认可及追随林伟贤老师。所以即使是要负责当时完全没有兴趣的</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: ">DISC</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">，我也欣然接受。虽然当时做内训讲师有着非常不错的</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: "> </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">收入，但在我的概念里，作为讲师的林伟贤老师就是极限，我很想了解继续做讲师会走到哪里，所以毅然决然进入实践家。人生最大的幸运之一是青年遇到名师。更难得的是林老师给予了我最大的认可，提供给我最多的空间，给我最大的照顾，对我做出最少的限制。因为家人的病情，林老师把未完成的</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: ">MY</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">课程内容和环节给到我。在那一刻，惶恐之外感到两个沉甸甸的字“信任”，带着这份信任完成我的第一次</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: ">MY</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">课程收尾的大总结。永远感谢恩师，无论以后发展如何，</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: ">2007</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">、</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: ">2008</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">如果只有一个相关词在生命中出现的话，那么一定是林伟贤。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: ">7</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">、企业结构性调整的裁员</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></B></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">因为要回广州工作，把上海</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: ">DISC</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">缩编为办事处，人员要做精简和调整。为每一位离开的同事找到下一份工作是最重要的事情。虽然公司给出</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: ">2</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">个月的带薪寻找工作的时间，但因为经济危机的影响，工作不是那么容易找，有些同事不得不随便找了份工作暂时维持生计。整个过程中，我都在深深自责中。我看到了她们的迷茫，因为不知道</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: ">5</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">年后她们自己的目标；我感受到她们的无助，她们无法列出值得骄傲的成长业绩。而这些都本来应该是我作为公司负责人要给到员工的。我呆公司的时间太少，心平气和和员工交心的时间太少，静下心手把手带员工的时间太少。做公司不只是保证每月帮公司赚到钱，不能让员工更清晰找到未来发展的目标，不能让员工在公司呆完后有更大的竞争实力，不是一个好领导。做公司不能瞎闹。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: ">8</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">、马来西亚机场的救助</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></B></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: ; mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">去年飞新马讲课不下十趟，都是个人往返国际航班。马来西亚有两个机场，我在办理</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: ">CHECKIN</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">的时候，一对中年男女走过来，说走错了机场又钱包掉了，希望能借几百元人民币，并且递给我一张名片。我脑海里闪过可能是骗人的念头，但手却下意识的在摸钱包。也许真的是害怕同胞在异国他乡遭遇困难，我主动提出，要不给些马币给他们打车，这样不需要再去兑换。接下来，她们说怕赶不上飞机要重新买票，所以要不我多给些，反正回国一起还给我。我不但没有警觉，还把身上所有的两千多马币（价值人民币四千左右）全部给他们（最有趣的是我把混在一起的新加坡币挑出来证明智力正常）。最后我把名片给了她们。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: ">(</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">现在我很担心他们会否把我的名片再拿去骗人</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: ">)</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">。我在分析自己心理，从头到尾都有被骗的感觉，但为什么还是乖乖听话呢？源头来自于自己，反过来体会到其实人的布施也许是自己的需要而非别人的需要。我给了钱，成就了布施的心。如果一切感恩的话，我要感谢他的存在点燃我的善意。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">只是从另外的角度，我提醒自己要注意一定的方式。回头想想，在我自己身上发生很多类似的事情，有些是感觉不好，有些是超出自己的范畴。数额小的有一些僧侣的几百元化缘，数额多的有见面几次就借</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: ">4</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">万给他的小孩动手术后来又陆续借好</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: ">2</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">万多说要创业的朋友，那些钱甚至透支我的信用卡。我现在开始定一些刚性的甚至有趣的规定，比如借款给别人不能超过自己的现金总额，又比如僧侣化缘要背诵心经给我听，如果能背下来我就多给些。呵呵如果背不下来，那么即使你是真的，我也希望你能做更好的功课。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy"><o:p><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: "> </SPAN></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: ">9</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">、参与爱心</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: ">1000</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">助学计划</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></B></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: "><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>512</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">地震牵动国人心，每个人都应该做些什么。海洋之家等联合发起爱心</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: ">1000</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">助学活动，就是</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: ">1000</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">个企业家助养</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: ">1000</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">个灾区学子，并且是助养</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: ">10</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">年。每月费用</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: ">100</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">，每年</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: ">1200</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">。每个人只能助养一个。每年至少见一次面。爱心有的时候不是大小是持久。我个人并没有太大的驱动力去倡导和发起各类活动，但是很乐于成为其中一员。又比如一个北京的孩子需要动手术在网上募款，因为是一位培训师朋友在发起倡导，所以我立刻也捐了</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: ">1000</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">元。有的时候在想，如果我们自己本身更富裕点，那么捐款的时候的犹豫就会更少。虽然我自己也还有房屋的按揭款没有还完，但是内心的富足而非匮乏感是很重要的。内在富足如果建立在外在财富自由的基础上就能更巩固和稳定。我们有责任让自己变得更富有更有帮助到别人的能力。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: ">10</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">、袁博</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: ">5</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">天</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: ">3</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">万的课程</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></B></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: ; mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">我是一个蛮喜欢学习的人。只是之前基本上都是免费的现场课或网络下载的资料。每次听课都认真做笔记。现在网络上还能搜索我写的金正昆等老师的听课笔记。后来，开始参加一些付费的课程，从</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: ">998</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">的讲师班，到当时</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: ">5800</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">的</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: ">MY</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">，到当时</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: ">9800</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">的</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: ">BY</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">，到刘克亚</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: ">2</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">天</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: ">1</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">万的课程，到袁博</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: ">5</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">天</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: ">3</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">万的课程。开始对在学习上的投资金额不太敏感。可是如果问自己，有没有因为花费的贵而让自己的学习态度变得更好，答案是让自己不满意的。许多笔记记录一遍再也没有翻过，更不用说是深入研究和运用。深圳的房子和广州的房子装修的时候都有一整面墙是书橱，现在都已经按好几层来排而且叠满了书。问下自己，里面应该</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: ">80%</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">买来连翻都没翻，翻过的只有极少数从头到尾看完过。而书非读</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: ">3</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">遍不知真义，某种程度上说我是求知欲不如说是贪心的对书的霸占欲。回到原点，点燃对知识的欲望，并保持严格的自律（做笔记）学习及思考才是最重要的。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: navy"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">以上为我为自己评选的</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: ">10</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">件事情并随手写下感受，写完后我发现我也更了解自己了。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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