安娜 发表于 2009-1-15 10:57:26

[原创]面对老妈和老婆男人你该这么做!

<p align="center"></p><p align="left"><font face="黑体" color="#0000ff" size="3"></font></p><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<br/><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;在处理婆媳关系当中,儿子的作用很重要。婆婆有了烦恼,就找儿子诉说;媳妇受了委屈,要向丈夫倾吐。在这种情况下,做儿子的倘若<br/><br/>只听一面词,信一面理,偏袒一方,指责另一方,那就火上浇油,使矛盾加剧。做儿子的只有一碗水端平,既不使母亲感到失望,也不让妻子<br/><br/>有苦无处诉,才能缓解婆媳矛盾。比如:遇到婆婆数落媳妇的不是时,做为儿子要尽量替妻子承担责任,<span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">同时还要经常在老妈面前讲老婆的好<br/><br/>话</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">,</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">讲老婆是如何的顾家</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">,</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">在公司是如何努力的上班</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">,</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">对你的照顾是如何的细心</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">............</span>缓和气氛。若是遇到妻子诉苦,则宜向她多做解释和安慰,<br/><br/>要她看在夫妻情份上,原谅老人,使她消去怨气。由儿子充当调解人,作好缓冲工作,婆媳矛盾才能日益好转,家庭才能实现和睦景象。</span></span><p align="center"><font face="黑体" color="#0000ff" size="3"></font></p>
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小编梅子 发表于 2009-1-15 14:03:04

说得很对,向你学习~

laorentou 发表于 2010-8-21 13:40:24

呵呵,几千年的文化,难啊
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