jxlgdxjs 发表于 2008-8-15 22:36:39

画好自己的底线

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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=center><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #993300; LETTER-SPACING: 0.8pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN"><O:P><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">&nbsp;</SPAN></O:P></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 27.2pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 22pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 0.8pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">有一位武术大师隐居于山林中。<O:P></O:P></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 27.2pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 22pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 0.8pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">听到他的名声,人们都千里迢迢来寻找他,想跟他学些武术方面的窍门。<O:P></O:P></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 27.2pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 22pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 0.8pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">他们到达深山的时候,发现大师正从山谷里挑水。<O:P></O:P></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 27.2pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 22pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 0.8pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">他挑得不多,两只木桶里水都没有装满。<O:P></O:P></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 27.2pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 22pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 0.8pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">按他们的想像,大师应该能够挑很大的桶,而且挑得满满的。<O:P></O:P></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 27.2pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 22pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 0.8pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">他们不解地问:“大师,这是什么道理?”<O:P></O:P></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 27.2pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 22pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 0.8pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">大师说:“挑水之道并不在于挑多,而在于挑得够用。一味贪多,适得其反。”<O:P></O:P></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 27.2pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 22pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 0.8pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">众人越发不解。<O:P></O:P></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 27.2pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 22pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 0.8pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">大师从他们中拉了一个人,让他重新从山谷里打了两满桶水。<O:P></O:P></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 27.2pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 22pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 0.8pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">那人挑得非常吃力,摇摇晃晃,没走几步,就跌倒在地,水全都洒了,那人的膝盖也摔破了。<O:P></O:P></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 27.2pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 22pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 0.8pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">“水洒了,岂不是还得回头重打一桶吗?膝盖破了,走路艰难,岂不是比刚才挑得还少吗?”大师说。<O:P></O:P></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 27.2pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 22pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 0.8pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">“那么大师,请问具体挑多少,怎么估计呢?”<O:P></O:P></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 27.2pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 22pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 0.8pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">大师笑道:“你们看这个桶。”<O:P></O:P></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 27.2pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 22pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 0.8pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">众人看去,桶里划了一条线。<O:P></O:P></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 27.2pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 22pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: navy; LETTER-SPACING: 0.8pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">大师说:“这条线是底线,水绝对不能高于这条线,高于这条线就超过了自己的能力和需要。起初还需要画一条线,挑的次数多了以后就不用看那条线了,凭感觉就知道是多是少。有这条线,可以提醒我们,</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; LETTER-SPACING: 0.8pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">凡事要尽力而为,也要量力而行</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: navy; LETTER-SPACING: 0.8pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">。”<O:P></O:P></SPAN></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 27.2pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 22pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 0.8pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">众人又问:“那么底线应该定多低呢?”<O:P></O:P></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 27.2pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 22pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 0.8pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">大师说:“一般来说,越低越好,因为这样低的目标容易实现,人的勇气不容易受到挫伤,相反会培养起更大的兴趣和热情,长此以往,循序渐进,自然会挑得更多、挑得更稳。”<O:P></O:P></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 27.2pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 22pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 0.8pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">挑水如同武术,武术如同做人。循序渐进,逐步实现目标,才能避免许多无谓的挫折</SPAN></P></SPAN></DIV>

蔚蓝智慧 发表于 2008-8-16 13:54:58

有感悟,不错的故事。

ljxxp 发表于 2008-8-18 13:39:33

受益

夕风浪子 发表于 2008-8-18 15:46:59

哲理故事!

haitao79 发表于 2008-8-18 16:50:28

目标应当越高越好,

蓝色阳光 发表于 2008-8-18 17:20:30

<p>胖子不是一天吃成的!</p><p>罗马也不是一天建成的!</p>
[此贴子已经被作者于2008-8-18 17:20:56编辑过]

redya 发表于 2008-8-19 12:46:56

<p>人确实应该量力而行,</p><p>但大师每天多挑一点储存到水缸里面,等到了一定量,他就可以有一天不用下山也可以喝水了。</p><p></p>

cgw0910 发表于 2008-8-20 10:17:20

<p>太有才了。看这文章简直就是享受。</p>

漫漫长夜 发表于 2008-8-21 11:30:41

<p>传统一直要我们志存高远,这个问题看来要换个角度看了</p>

cindybing 发表于 2008-8-21 12:26:36

受益
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