[原创]反求诸己、操之在我

旅程无限 发表于 2008-6-11 23:28:15

<h1> </h1>自由培训师苏平老师是我非常崇敬的博主，她最新的博客更新是反求诸己 -- 读《高效能人士的七个习惯》有感（一）,借用孟子与论语的文章来阐释反求诸己的意义：“从自己方面寻找原因，或对自己提出要求”。她还谈到“吾日三省吾身”：<ul><li>这“三省”说了两个方面。一是对人，一是修己。对人要诚信，诚信是人格光明的表现，不欺人也不欺己。替人谋事要 </li><li>尽心，尽心才能不苟且，不敷衍，这是责任，也是为人的基本德性。修己不能一时一事，修己要贯穿整个人生，要时时 </li><li>温习旧经验，求取新知识。 </li></ul>总结得非常精辟，值得细细品味并认真实践。我想我已经养成的认真填写时间日志的习惯，何尝不是一种“三省吾身”呢？时刻提醒自己要认真对待、格外珍惜每一刻时间，并及时地总结与反思，追求个人的持续不断成长。正如她总结的：“修己不能一时一事，修己要贯穿整个人生”!反求诸己还有一种说法叫“操之在我”，关于这个概念，下面这篇文章(原贴地址)总结得也很精辟，分享如下：<img height="222" alt="untitled" src="http://blog.vsharing.com//Uploads/UserDirs/1/226/90320/WindowsLiveWriter/fac5d6ac75a6_14930/untitled_thumb.png" width="289" border="0" style="BORDER-TOP-WIDTH: 0px; BORDER-LEFT-WIDTH: 0px; BORDER-BOTTOM-WIDTH: 0px; BORDER-RIGHT-WIDTH: 0px;"/>
操就是对待、处理的意思，之就是这件事情，操之在我的意思是说，一件事情发生了，如何对待它在于我自己。我们不能被别人的语言伤害，如果我们被别人的语言伤害了，那是自己伤害自己。有一个企业，老板独断专行，翻云覆雨，自己交待工作不清楚，专爱挑下属的小毛病，发现后大发雷霆，弄得下属不知所措，牢骚满腹。但是有一个人例外，老板交待给他的工作，他加上自己的判断，努力把工作做好，这就叫做聪明地工作而不是愚蠢地盲从。有一天老板在会上提出了一个方案让大家讨论，大家都知道老板独断专行，谁也不说话。老板突然指着他说，你说我这样干行还是不行？他知道一个人刚愎自用的原因，不是高度自信就是高度自卑，为了安全起见，他判断老板是高度自卑，对于高度自卑的人要给予赞美。他站起来说，老板，你这样做行，但是把方案再稍微作一下小修改就更完美了。老板很欣赏他，在会说，以后各种方案没有听取他的意见都不能执行。没过多久，老板把他提拔成总裁助理，这就是一个操之在我的人。 一个性格刁钻古怪的老头生病住院，老头脾气不好，以刁难、让别人生气为乐，护士们都不愿照顾他。有一个护士听到了操之在我的道理，她大梦初醒，心想那个老头就是瞎说，我把他的话当真不是自寻烦恼吗，我干脆把他所有的话都反过来想，他说我讨厌，我就认为他在说我美丽，他说我可恨，我就认为他在说我可爱，她这样想以后，心情就愉快了，老头就气不着她了。她把这招告诉了别的护士，大家都这样想，老头气不着人也就不气人了。这就是操之在我的护士。 下面的这些想法都属于操之在我。如吃亏的人说：“吃亏就是福”；丢东西的人说：“破财免灾”；胆小的人说：“出头的椽子先烂”；受压抑的人说：“不是不报，时候不到”；退职的人说：“无官一身轻”；被炒鱿鱼的人说“我把老板炒了”；“塞翁失马，焉知非福”；掉进水塘会有鱼进兜里；一件事情，想通了是天堂，想不通是地狱；人有雅量品自高。 一头驴掉进了一个深坑里，村民们想把它救上来，但是想尽办法也救不上来，村民们想既然救不上来，那就干脆把它埋上吧，就不断往坑里倒土、倒垃圾，驴就踩着垃圾不断上升，最后终于升到地面了，驴把身上的土、垃圾抖了抖，走了。我对那些背时的、暂时处于低潮的人的忠告是，向这头驴学习，把别人倒在你身上的垃圾当成你上升的阶梯。操之在我的反义词是受制于人，这种人被环境所左右，被别人所左右，一事无成。 最后谈一下影响力问题。影响力的实质是，能够自如调动对方的情绪。如果你掌控了一个人的情绪，你就掌握了这个人；如果你能调动一个人的情绪，你就能调动这个人。如果你能善于顺应他人的情绪，人际关系必然流畅，如果你能使得别人顺应你的情绪步调，人际关系必然流畅，如果你在发送信息时能够感染对方，你就能释放强劲的人格魅力。 我现在讲一下我的一些格言，愿和大家共享。 生活因为热爱而丰富多彩，生命因为信心而瑰丽明快。生活对你我都一样，如果你心情好，你会发现沙漠也为你唱歌，小草也为你起舞；如果你心情糟糕，你会发现开放的玫瑰在流泪，奔腾的小溪在哭泣。境由心造，像由心生，如果你认为自己是幸福的，你就会找到无数的事实证明自己是幸福的；如果你认为自己是不幸的，你也会找到无数的事实证明自己是不幸的。你可以把生活比作一道大餐，充满酸甜苦辣咸，你选择什么就会得到什么，你选择开心就会得到幸福，你选择不幸就会得到痛苦，你选择激情就会得到未来，因为激情创造未来。 祝大家选择激情！祝大家阳光心态！

leifeiyang 发表于 2008-6-12 09:31:40

说的好，有远见。

天才土匪 发表于 2008-6-12 10:51:54

有点道理

熊盼盼 发表于 2008-6-12 11:35:57

感谢LZ的分享，因为工作的原因，很久没来家园，今天看到这篇文章，又给自己敲响了警钟

cwnum2008 发表于 2008-6-12 16:18:40

太经典了,生活中的很多事情,都要这样运作才好,哈哈

lmrichvast 发表于 2008-6-12 16:58:52

严重感谢分享！

咖啡泓 发表于 2008-6-12 21:49:52

恩，谢谢。常常反求诸已。

harvey 发表于 2008-6-12 22:33:37

不错。。。保持好的心态！

咖啡泓 发表于 2008-6-13 00:09:11

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FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: '';">要想度，不必找我，请自找伞去！<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">”<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: '';">说完便走了。<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: '';"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: '';">第二天，这人遇到了难事，便去寺庙里求观音。走进庙里，才发现观音的像前也有<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: '';">一<a href="javascript:;" target="_self">个人</a>在拜，那个人长得和观音一模一样，丝毫不差。<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: '';">这人问：<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">“<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: '';">你是观音吗？<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">”    <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: '';">那人答道：<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">“<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: '';">我正是观音。<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">”    <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: '';">这人又问：<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">“<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: '';">那你为何还拜自己？<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">”   <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: '';">观音笑道：<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">“<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: '';">我也遇到了难事，但我知道，求人不如求己。<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">”<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: '';">启示：成功者自救。<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">从楼主推荐的BLOG，里面转一个老故事出来大家分享一下。<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">从楼主推荐的BLOG，里面转一个老故事出来大家分享一下。

旅程无限 发表于 2008-6-13 09:22:39

<div class="msgheader">QUOTE:</div><div class="msgborder">以下是引用咖啡泓在2008-6-13 0:09:11的发言： <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: '';">某人在屋檐下躲雨，看见观音正撑伞走过。这人说：<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">“<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: '';">观音菩萨，普度一下众生吧，<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: '';">带我一段如何？<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">”<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: '';">观音说：<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">“<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: '';">我在雨里，你在檐下，而檐下无雨，你不需要我度。<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">”<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: '';">这人立刻跳出檐下，<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: '';">站在雨中：<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">“<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: '';">现在我也在雨中了，该度我了吧？<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">”<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: '';">观音说：<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">“<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: '';">你在雨中，我也在雨中，<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: '';">我不被淋，因为有伞；你被雨淋，因为无伞。<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: '';">所以不是我度自己，而是伞度我。你<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: '';">要想度，不必找我，请自找伞去！<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">”<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: '';">说完便走了。<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: '';"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: '';">第二天，这人遇到了难事，便去寺庙里求观音。走进庙里，才发现观音的像前也有<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: '';">一<a href="javascript:;" target="_self">个人</a>在拜，那个人长得和观音一模一样，丝毫不差。<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: '';">这人问：<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">“<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: '';">你是观音吗？<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">”    <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: '';">那人答道：<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">“<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: '';">我正是观音。<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">”    <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: '';">这人又问：<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">“<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: '';">那你为何还拜自己？<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">”   <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: '';">观音笑道：<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">“<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: '';">我也遇到了难事，但我知道，求人不如求己。<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">”<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: '';">启示：成功者自救。<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">从楼主推荐的BLOG，里面转一个老故事出来大家分享一下。<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">从楼主推荐的BLOG，里面转一个老故事出来大家分享一下。<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">从楼主推荐的BLOG，里面转一个老故事出来大家分享一下。</div>有意思，谢谢分享。

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