loboy 发表于 2008-5-20 11:30:43

身体语言

<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; (</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: ">1</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">)顾客瞳孔放大时,表示他被你的话所打动,已经在接受或考虑你的建议了。</SPAN></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">  (</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: ">2</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">)顾客回答人的提问时,眼睛不敢正视你,甚至故意躲避你的目光,那表示他的回答是“言不由衷”或另有打算。</SPAN></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">  (</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: ">3</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">)顾客皱眉,表示不同意你的观点,或对你的观点持怀疑态度。</SPAN></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">  (</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: ">4</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">)与顾客握手时,感觉松软无力,说明对方比较冷淡;若感觉太紧了,甚至弄痛了你的手,说明对方有点虚伪;如感觉松紧适度,表明对方稳重而又热情;如果顾客的手充满了满汗,则说明他可能正处于不安或紧张状态之中。</SPAN></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">  (</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: ">5</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">)顾客双手插入口袋中,表示他可能正处于紧张或焦虑状态之中。另外,一个有把双手插入口袋之癖的人,通常是比较神经质的。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: "> </SPAN></SPAN></P>
<DIV class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">  </SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: "></SPAN></SPAN></DIV><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: ">
<DIV class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; (</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>6</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">)顾客不停地玩弄手上的小东西,例如圆珠笔、火柴盒、打火机或人的名片等,说明他内心紧张不安或对你的话不感兴趣。</SPAN></DIV>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: ">&nbsp;</SPAN></o:p></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">  (</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: ">7</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">)顾客交叉手臂,表示不赞同或拒绝你的意见。</SPAN></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">  (</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: ">8</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">)顾客面无表情,目光冷淡,就是一种强有力的拒绝信号,表明你的说服没有奏效。</SPAN></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">  (</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: ">9</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">)顾客面带微笑,不仅代表了友善、快乐、幽默,而且也意味着道歉与求得谅解。</SPAN></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">  (</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: ">10</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">)顾客用手敲头,表示正在思索、考虑。</SPAN></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">  (</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: ">11</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">)顾客用手摸后脑勺,表示思考或紧张。</SPAN></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">  (</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: ">12</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">)顾客用手搔头,表示困惑或拿不定主意。</SPAN></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">  (</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: ">13</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">)顾客垂头,是表示惭愧或沉思。</SPAN></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">  (</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: ">14</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">)顾客用手轻轻按着额头,是困惑或为难的表示。</SPAN></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">  (</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: ">15</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">)顾客顿下颚,表示顺从,愿意接受推销人员的意见或建议。</SPAN></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">  (</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: ">16</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">)顾客鄂部往上突出,鼻孔朝着对方,表示藐视对方。</SPAN></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">  (</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: ">17</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">)顾客讲话时,用右手食指按着鼻子,表示他对你持否定意思。</SPAN></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">  (</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: ">18</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">)顾客紧闭双目,低头不语,并用手触摸鼻子,表示他对你的问题正处于犹豫不决的状态。</SPAN></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">  (</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: ">19</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">)顾客用手抚摸下颚,表示在思考,心神不安。</SPAN></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">  (</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: ">20</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">)顾客讲话时低头揉眼,说明他在撒谎或至少他的话不够真实。</SPAN></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">  (</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: ">21</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">)顾客搔抓脖子,表示他犹豫不决或心存疑虑;若顾客边讲话边搔抓脖子,说明他对所讲的内容没有非常肯定的把握,不可轻信其言。</SPAN></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">  (</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: ">22</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">)顾客捋下巴,表示他正在考虑作决定。</SPAN></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">  (</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: ">23</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">)在商谈中,顾客忽然把双脚叠合起来</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: ">(</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">右脚放在左脚上或相反</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: ">)</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">,那是拒绝或否定的意思。</SPAN></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">  (</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: ">24</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">)常把双脚放在桌子上的顾客,说明他是一个支配欲很强的人。</SPAN></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">  (</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: ">25</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">)顾客不时看表,这是逐客令,说明他不想继续谈下去或有事要走。</SPAN></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">  (</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: ">26</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">)顾客突然将身体转向门口方向,表示他希望早点结束会谈。</SPAN></SPAN></P>

uncle022 发表于 2008-5-22 14:16:51

不错,支持下,谢谢!
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