[转帖]做事要方 做人要圆
<p style="TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">为什么铜钱是内方外圆？这就是中国辩证哲学的集中体现，做事要方，做人要圆。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;"><p></p></span></p><p style="TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">人活在世上，无非是面对两大世界，身外的大千世界和自己的内心世界。人，一辈子无非是两件事</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">——</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">做事和做人。多少人一辈子都在哀叹做人难，难做人。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;"><p></p></span></p><p style="TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">一：先说方，做事要方，便是说做事就要遵循规矩，遵循法则。人常说的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">“</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">没有规矩不成方圆</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">”</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">、</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">“</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">有所不为才可有所为</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">”</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">，就是</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">“</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">方</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">”</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">这个道理。也就是做官绝对要奉守清廉的原则。为商要做到一个</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">“</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">诚</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">”</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">字。做学问信奉耳朵是一个</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">“</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">实</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">”</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">字。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;"><p></p></span></p><p style="TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">二：做人要圆。这个圆绝对不是圆滑世故，更不是平庸无能，这种圆是圆通，是一种宽厚、通融，是大智若愚，是与人为善，心智的高度健全和成熟。不因洞察别人的弱点而咄咄逼人，不因自己比别人高明而盛气凌人，任何时候也不会因坚持自己的个性和主张让人感到压迫和惧怕，任何时候你也不会随波逐流，要潜移默化别人而又绝不会让人感到是强加于人的，这就需要极高的素质，很高的悟性和技巧，这是做人的高尚境界。如是另样，凡内心孤独的人必喜虚张声势；内心弱小的人必好狐假虎威；心中有鬼的人必爱玩弄伎俩；没有自信的人必会尖酸刻薄，试问这样的做人又从何谈圆？当然也不乏有人为了某种利益和目的不惜敛声屏息，不惜八面讨好，不惜左右逢</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">“</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">圆</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">”</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">。但这种圆和那种圆绝对有本质的区别，这种</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">“</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">圆</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">”</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">的后面是虚伪和丑恶。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;"><p></p></span></p><p style="TEXT-INDENT: 35pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.5;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">做人圆，那也会有牺牲。有时候要牺牲小我，有时候要忍辱负重，忍气吞声；还有更多的时候要承受屈辱、误解，甚至来至亲至爱的人的伤害。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 130%; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;"><p></p></span></p><p><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;"> 能做到</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">“</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">方</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">”“</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">圆</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">”</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">的，同时却没有感到那是一种牺牲、痛苦的才是大成功、大境界；能为了</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">“</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">方</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">”“</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">圆</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">”</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">去承受牺牲的是小成功、小境界；不愿牺牲也做不到</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">“</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">方</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">”“</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">圆</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">”</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">的是不成功。如果截然相反，做事是圆，只要有利，不择手段、什么都敢干；做人是方，刁钻古怪，锋芒毕露，心狠手辣的话，那这个人一定会糟糕透顶，不能容于天下了。</span></p><p><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;"></span></p> <p>圆与方 只有天地</p><p>又那是说做的到就简单做的到的</p><p>一切都是在成长中得到的沉淀</p> <p>说的很在理,如果颠倒过来,将是一个很可怕的人</p> 这种道理需要自己慢慢参透了 <p>这个世界上</p><p>谁喜虚伪与丑恶</p><p>可是人在江湖往往身不由己</p> <p>人在江湖飘啊，哪能不挨刀啊………………</p><p>可恶的“忍辱负重、忍气吞声”！</p> 很有道理 很有道理，文字表达也不错 方与圆，不错 it is easy to say, but is difficult to practice.
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