[原创]80后在路上-抢老婆
<p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"> 听老家人说，现在</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><font face="">83</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">年</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><font face="">—87</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">年的好女孩子已经被抢光了，能定亲的都定亲了，剩下的都是些</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><font face="">…<p></p></font></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">当我听到这个消息的时候真的很震惊，而这样的事情又确确实实的发生在我的身边。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p><font face=""> </font></p></span></p><p><font face=""> </font></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p><font face=""> </font></p></span></p><p><font face=""> </font></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"> 农村老家一个堂弟，</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><font face="">22</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">岁，</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><font face="">86</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">年的人，初中读完就外出打工了，到今日已经在外边</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><font face="">4</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">年了，从去年开始，每年都要回两次家，每次回去的目的不外乎就一个，娶媳妇。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p><font face=""> </font></p></span></p><p><font face=""> </font></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"> 娶媳妇，在农村是每个家庭的头等大事。在老家农村有这样一句老话：“盖房子、娶媳妇、生孩子”是人生的三件大事，缺一不可，媳妇又是关系到每个家庭传宗接代以及家庭幸福的关键，往往，就算再不富裕的家庭，都把娶一个好媳妇当成重中之重。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p> </p></span></p><p> </p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"> 堂弟家在附近算是幸福家庭，家里独子还有一妹妹，房子崭新的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><font face="">2</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">层楼，按道理是不愁娶媳妇的。但是最近</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><font face="">2</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">年总共花了</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><font face="">6</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">个月的时间在找对象，时至今日，依然没有着落，这不得不当作是一个严重的问题来对待。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"> 堂弟有一个小毛病，典型的不能吃苦，工作中不能从最低层做起，在</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><font face="">4</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">年的工作中换了</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><font face="">5</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">种行业。一方面受家庭婚姻观念的影响，一方面是自身个性使然，在屡次相亲中，往往出现他喜欢的，别人不喜欢他，他不喜欢的，可能别人会愿意，一来二往，转眼就</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><font face="">2</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">年过去了，媳妇没找到，工作也没长进，还在拿着微薄的薪水，过着最普通的生活，而和他同期出来打工四五年的有些已经做到部门组长之类的，相对来讲后者就更具有发展潜力，而他在没找到心仪的对象的同时，未来的工作也是一塌糊涂。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"> 真可谓是一无所得！</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p> </p></span></p><p> </p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"> 我们很多的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><font face="">80</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">后，家庭其实都不错，家庭会给自己人生的道路上带来很多的帮助，这些帮助有好的也有不好的，作为新一代人，怎样权衡家庭带给自己的帮助，怎样合理的选择自己的人生道路才是至关重要 的。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"> 像我的堂弟，时至今日，依然没有发现问题出在哪里，依然盲目的寻找自己的对象，而忽略了自身的修养，最终可能会来个委曲求全，但是婚姻和生活的结果如何呢？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><p><font face=""> </font></p></span></p><p><font face=""> </font></p><p></p><p></p>[此贴子已经被作者于2007-12-25 11:31:12编辑过]
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