[分享]Letting Go
<p><font color="#333333" size="3"><strong>我们大多不能免俗，总有满足不完的愿景。</strong></font></p><p><font color="#333333" size="3"><strong>其实退一步，于人于己，何尝不会划出一片海阔天空。</strong></font></p><p><font size="3"><font color="#333333">To let go does not mean to stop caring.it means I can not do it for someone else. </font><font color="#333333">放手,并不意味着不再关心；而是能力有限，有所不为。 </font></font></p><p><font size="3"><font color="#333333">To let go is not to cut myself off.it is the realisationthat I can not control another. </font><font color="#333333">放手并不是自我封闭，不闻不问。而是一种醒悟---“别人并不受控与我”。 </font><font color="#333333"></font></font></p><p><font color="#333333" size="3">To let go is not to enable，but to allow learning from natural consequences. <br/>放手，就是不要刻意学习，而是给自己从自然的因果中学习、感悟的机会。 <br/><br/>To let go is to admit powerlessness， which means the outcomes is not in my hands. 放手，就要承认我非万能，亦即结果并不尽在掌握。 <br/><br/>To let go is not to try to change or blame another。I can only change myself. <br/>放手，就是不要试图改变他人或求全责备；我能改变的只有我自己。 <br/><br/>To let go is not to care for，but to care about. <br/>放手，就不要时时牵挂，全力照顾；而是于默默中情之所系。 <br/><br/>To let go is not to fix，but to be supportive. <br/>放手，就不要事事躬亲，包办善后；而是在需要是伸出援手。 <br/><br/>To let go is not to judge，but to allow another to be a human being. <br/>放手，就是不要多加评判，而是允许别人自行其事。 <br/><br/>To let go is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes，but to allow others to affact their own outcomes. <br/>放手，就不要置身事中，事无巨细；而是要让别人自种其豆，自收其果。 <br/><br/>To let go is not to be protective，it is to permit another to face reality. <br/>放手，就是不要再荫护，而是允许他人面对现实。 <br/><br/>To let go is not to denty，but to accept. <br/>放手，就不要再否认,而是接受。 <br/><br/>To let go is not to nag，scowl，or argue，but to seach out my own shortcomings and to correct them. <br/>放手，就不要喋喋不休，怒容满面或滔滔雄辩。而是要审视自己的不足而改之。 <br/><br/>To let go is not to adjust everthing to my desirs，but to take each day as it comes. <br/>放手，就是不要苛求万物皆从我欲。而是要自然、平常地对待每一天。 <br/><br/>To let go is not to regret the past，but to grow and live for the future. <br/>放手，就不要为过去懊悔，而是要开拓未来，盼望未来。 <br/><br/>╋To let go is to fear lessand love more！！╋ <br/>╋放手，担心少一些，所爱多一些！╋ <br/> <br/> --《疯狂英语58期》 </font></p>
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