竞赛的重点,不在于胜负
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-layout-grid-align: none"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 9.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma">竞赛的重点</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-size: 9.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma">,</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 9.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma">不在于胜负<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 9.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma">女儿第一次将男朋友带回家里,父亲在客厅里迎接他们,陪着女儿和男朋友,天南地北的聊着。<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 9.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma">父亲问女儿的男友:「你喜欢打球吗?」<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 9.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma">男朋友回答:「不,我不是很喜欢打球,我大部分的时间都用来看书,听音乐。」<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 9.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"> </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 9.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma">父亲继续问:「那喜欢赌马吗?」<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 9.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma">男朋友:「不,我不赌博的。」<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 9.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma">父亲又问:「你喜欢看电视上的田径或是球类竞赛吗?」<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 9.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma">男朋友:「不,对于这些有关竞赛性的活动我没什么兴趣。」<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 9.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma">男朋友离开后女儿问父亲:「爸,你觉得这个人怎样?」<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 9.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma">父亲回答:「你和他做朋友我不反对,但如果你想嫁给他,我则是坚决不赞成。」<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 9.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma">女儿讶异的问:「为什么呢?」<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 9.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma">父亲说:「一般人养黄鹂鸟,绝不会将黄鹂鸟关在自家的鸟笼里,主人会带到茶馆,那儿有许多的黄鹂鸟。这只新的鸟儿,在茶馆听到同类此起彼落的鸟鸣声,便会不甘示弱,也引吭高歌。这是养鸟人训练黄鹂鸟的诀窍。」<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 9.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma">女儿问:「这和我的男友有什么关系呢?」<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 9.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma">父亲说:「养鸟人刺激黄鹂鸟竞争的天性,来训练黄鹂鸟的展露优美的歌声,若是没有竞争,这只黄鹂鸟可能就终生暗哑了,不能发出任何叫声,主要是因为,没有其它的鸟儿来与他比较。」<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 9.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma">女儿似有所悟地点点头。<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoBodyTextIndent style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312">父亲继续道:「你的这一位男朋友,经过我刚刚与他的一番谈话,发现他既不运动,也不喜欢运动,也不喜欢赌博、球赛,排斥一切所有竞赛性的活动,我认为,像这样子的男人,将来恐怕难以有所成就,所以反对你嫁给他。」</SPAN></P><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-font-size: 9.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 楷体_GB2312"> </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-font-size: 9.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma">太多人因为恐惧失败,而不愿意参与竞赛,透过黄鹂鸟的启示,我们终于了解,原来竞赛的重点,不在于胜负,而在于每一次投入,都能让自己更加成长</SPAN> <p>楼主,请注明这是转帖。</p><p>另说明一下,斟读故事版块不希望转帖的出现。本版鼓励原创作品。希望看到楼主的原创文章,本人必来捧场!</p> <p>罗兄所言极是。</p><p>也欢迎<strong><font face="Verdana" color="#61b713">zhfeng810</font></strong>常来坐坐,喝杯茶,顺便讲讲您的故事。</p><p><strong><font face="Verdana" color="#61b713"></font></strong> </p>
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