生存与生活，永恒与短暂! Lasting life

寡无欲

Everyone has to work and study everytime and everywhere. That is to say, life is hard, we have to work all our lives.

We might have not any time to have a rest due to our duties that we have responsiblities to our parents and family. As a sesult, we often feel tired, or alternatively, we do not want to meet these troubles any more.

How can we avoid them for ever? To be frank, We might not have opportunities to go to a pace where we are quiet and calm.

Time passed soon, we are becoming older and older. What we will do next, what will we face, or what did we leave to others and to the whole world. We always consider these questions.  

For our reputation and our offspring, should we pursuit it or should we just need to enjoy our today's life?

I am thinking about it.

纯粹心情

enjoy our today's life，是的，生命的意义在于享受着每一时每一刻，只要我们活在当下，活在自已的人生，活在自已的时间里。

钫儿

生活的艰难在于我们要生存，而生存的美丽在于我们是在真实地生活。

littlebear

I am really disappointed for what Guawuyu said. It seems so funny, enjoying your today’s life. Of course it depends on everyone’s value system, if you think earning 4000 RMB in a so-called company, marrying a wife and getting a child is a pleasant life for you, exactly, you can go and enjoy it without any rethoughts. Then what you need to do is not how to enrich yourself and promote your strength, but how to save money from your poor salary and how to use the money saved to buy your own room and to support your child’s education. Haha, it is really pleasant life for a man who just wants to live but not enjoy.
But from your articles in this forum, I always thought you are a man who is ambitious and want to own your own company and bring great benefit to the society or for your family. Now I have to say I am regret for my judgment. That phenomenon is just illusory. Here, I apologize for my judgment.
As a girl, I even want to build my own company. I always can feel the shortness of life, so I don’t want to leave nothing to the world. Or we will just be a visitor to this world, if life goes like this, I would rather I am never born to this world.
Maybe the value systems are quiet different between different people. I always feel one should not just live for himself; we should know exactly the responsibility loading on our shoulders. I always can feel the responsibility to bring a happy and rich life to my family and to the society. I don’t just admire the success of the great enterprisers and statesmen; I know if I want and work hard for this, I can be one of them too. I contemn the men who just said this at their mouth and said they could be one of them but never paid their hardwork. Maybe Guawuyu Brother is one of them.
An example for this:
你相信，成功是很没有头脑的，每个人都可以很随便就成功立业吗？
解答：过分乐观是一种愚蠢的行为，聪明的你必然会赞同。
但是根据观察，成功人士总是发现，每当有人要求他给出一个建议，使自己能改变目前自己也不满意的生活，别再一事无成的时候，需要建议的人总是在听完成功人士绞尽脑汁的建议（比如多读书，多练习，多思考，多实践）之后问了个问题：那不是很难？
我们都想在3分钟之内学好英文，在5分钟之内解决所有的难题。难道成功是那么容易的吗？改变当然都是困难的。成功只因不怕困难，所以才能出类拔萃。
有一次坐在计程车上，听见计程车司机看到自己前后左右都是高级车，兀自感叹：“唉～～为什么别人那么有钱，我的钱却这么难赚？”
我心血来潮，问他：“你认为世界上有什么钱是好赚的？”
他笑了笑，答不上来，过了半晌才说：“对，没有钱是好赚的。看表面，好像都是别人的钱比较好赚。”
成功不是随便得来的，别人的钱也不好赚。深究起来，成功者没有人没费过功夫。我们实在是不应该抱怨困难。

[此贴子已经被作者于2003-12-30 10:14:02编辑过]

寡无欲

Please be not disappointed by what I said. I do not really hope that you might misunderstand what I mean.

We have to accept that there are a lot of people who would have the same feelings as I have, since it is just a process of our road. We should not avoid them.

Forutnately, we can feel and consider these points in time. You know, we are humans, we could not ingore the changing our our life. We could not stop thinking about life.
As a result of our considering, we would be improved day by day, won't we?

I just express the troubles or some opinions which eveyone may encounter and think.

Of course, I do not show me my strong. Actually, I am not strong enough. I also dislike changing frequently as majority of us do.

Anyway, I would like to listen to the words from your heart, which are true and beautiful.

If possible, we might have more intercommunication.

[此贴子已经被作者于2004-1-3 1:15:40编辑过]

littlebear

Yes, what you said is true. Everyone of us will consider and be confused by these thoughts. What I said is according to your articles in the forum, I know you are not a man who want to be common. What you wrote before must because you feel tired and has no courage. Sometimes I feel this too. It is not myself. And aftering thinking about this for a period, I told myself that it is just because you want to avoid your responsibility, you want to run away before the difficulties, but if you really live a life like that, you will feel boring and uncomfortable. Yes, it is me who will never want to stop walking forwards.I can feel you are the same kind people as me, so I wrote a paragraph like above, just wanting to give u courage. We are walkers along the road, we need courage from each other.