思善,才趋清净
昨晚,我再也憋不住了,是否现在就赶到学校去。虽然孩子的学校在另一个城市,其实也就是个把小时的路程。因为孩子上个月29号到校,开始军训一周的;我后来打了几个电话,都没接,短信不回,心底愈加不安起来。孩子怎么啦?对我这老爸到底有什么意见?我怎么就伤着孩子啦?
后来一想,还有班主任的电话,去之前不如拨个电话?于是乎,我鼓起勇气拨ffice:***arttags" />
因为不知道,就会想,混思乱想,其实细细玩味这是常态。岂止孩子这儿?想这想哪,特别是现今之岁月,人们的交往大抵如是,我自己的教训真也不在少数。从过去的母亲、爱人、朋友,工作中的顾客、同事,可以说不一而足。
总感觉:自己是值得同情的,别人不理解我;自己是委屈的,别人应该同情我。如果得不到自以为沟通之效果,就容易想,转而升级为嗔恨、忧怨,把自己的情绪搞得一团糟。细细玩味,均在于自己的想了,所谓“天下本无事,庸人自扰之”。
清净心不会凭空获取的,昨晚我丢下电话,特兴奋,真得。于是出去玩,到公园转转,给阿木林敲走一些钱,可还是开心!回到家中,翻开书本,也勉强自己看上几页,虽然似懂非懂,但心里舒坦,于是睡去。
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"The project is a union between art and technology which explores the possibilities of using alternative materials for our clothing.
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British scientists have found a novel way to put an end to the age old dilemma of what brides should do with their wedding dress once their honeymoon is over. wedding dresses
Hilary Duff just had her big w day and the bride wore… (drumroll please, this is going to be such a surprise!) Vera Wang! A hand painted silk tulle and organza dress that complimented her silhouette, complexion and matched perfectly the garden ceremony atmosphere. (Hilary wedded her long time beau, hockey player Mike Comrie, naturally congratulating the happy couple, we’re happy to have had a glimpse at their special moment and admire that gorgeous Vera dress that you can admire even more after the jump!) (photos via)
"The students wanted to challenge the notion that a wedding dress should only be used once and aimed to explore modern society's attitudes towards throwaway fashion," telegraph.co.uk quoted Jane Blohm, a fashion lecturer, as saying. wedding dresses
Fashion and engineering students at Sheffield Hallam University have developed a wedding dress that can be recycled into five new fashion pieces. wedding dresses
Looks like if you want a fashionable wedding, you’ll have to go for the mermaid wedding gown! Yesterday I was only suspecting this was the new wedding it (when showing Coco Rocha’s Zac osen dress), today I can blindly swear on it: mermaid wedding dresses are the new it!
有句话说得好,不是世界伤害了你,是你对世界的反应伤害了你。人对事物的反应才是伤害人的最主要因素。
谢谢,我看到这篇文章的时候正好是因为看不到而胡思乱想的那个阶段,谢谢分享感受,看了心里舒服很多,我也知道自己该做什么了~~
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