The Winner and The Loser

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The Winner is always part of the answer; (赢家是答案的一部分)
The Loser is always part of the problem. (输家是问题的一部分)

The Winner always has a program; (赢家总有计划)
The Loser always has an excuse. (输家总有借口)

The Winner says,"Let me do it for you; (赢家说：我来帮你做)
The Loser says;" That is not my job." (输家说：这不关我的事)

The Winner sees an answer for every problem; (赢家看到每个问题的答案)
The Loser sees a problem for every answer. (输家看到每个答案的问题)

The Winner says," It may be difficult but it is possible"; (赢家说：这虽难,但还是有可能)
The Loser says,"It may be possible but it is too difficult." (输家说：这虽有可能,但…还是很难!)

When a Winner makes a mistake,he says," I was wrong"; (赢家犯错时会说：我错了)
When a Loser makes a mistake, he says," It wasn't my fault." (输家犯错时会说：不是我的错)

A Winner makes commitments; (赢家用行动承担责任)
A Loser makes promises. (输家只会口头承诺)

Winners have dreams; (赢家有梦想)
Loser have schemes. (输家有算计)

Winners say," I must do something"; (赢家说：我一定要做些事)
Losers say,"Something must be done." (输家说：有些事情应该有人去做)

Winners are a part of the team; (赢家是团队中的一份子)
Losers are apart from the team. (输家是团队外的一部份)

Winners see the gain; (赢家重视努力)
Losers see the pain. (输家只看痛苦)

Winners see possibilities; (赢家看到可能)
Losers see problems. (输家看到问题)

Winners believe in win/win; Losers believe for them to win someone has to lose. (赢家相信双赢,输家希望自己不要吃亏)

Winners see the potential; (赢家看到未来)
Losers see the past. (输家回忆过去)

Winners are like a thermostat; (赢家像温度调节器)
Losers are like thermometers. (输家像温度计)

Winners choose what they say; (赢家选择说什么)
Losers say what they choose. (输家说他们选择的)

Winners use hard arguments but soft words; (赢家为困难争论, 但言语柔和)
Losers use soft arguments but hard words. (输家因困难软弱, 但言语刚烈)

Winners stand firm on values but compromise on petty things; (赢家为价值刚强,但为虚浮表象可以妥协)
Losers stand firm on petty things but compromise on values. (输家坚持在虚浮表象,却对价值可以妥协)

Winners follow the philosophy of empathy: "Don't do to others what you would, not want them to do to you"; (赢家有同理心,己所不欲,勿施于人)
Losers follow the philosophy, "Do it to others before they do it to you." (输家认为要在别人害你之前,先害他)

Winners make it happen; (赢家让事情办到)
Losers let it happen. (输家等事情发生)

hellomxl

谢谢楼主了，真的非常感谢，我转走了。

谢谢！

hellomxl

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