分手了，何必再做朋友
<SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><BR></SPAN><FONT size=6><FONT face=楷体_GB2312><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana"> </SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">" </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">我们分手吧，分手之后，我们还是朋友，对吗？</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">"</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">，这是有心人对你讲的话，除了要表现他们的大将风度之外，他们更渴望能新欢旧爱，共聚一堂。</SPAN></FONT></FONT><FONT size=6><FONT face=楷体_GB2312><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"> <BR><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana"> 原本相爱的恋人，面对分手，或有不得已的原因，或有不得告人的理由．而分手之后仍要做一对朋友，岂不是把过去的一切又带回自己的生活中？何苦呢？当然，我也不赞成分手之后，变成了敌人、仇家，互相中伤对方，恨不得把对方至于死地。</SPAN></FONT></FONT><FONT size=6><FONT face=楷体_GB2312><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"> <BR><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana"> 看到以前的恋人，生活比你幸福，你会不会嫉妒？当以前的恋人，兴奋的带着新恋人做介绍时，即便你装做满不在乎，但心里的滋味……</SPAN></FONT></FONT><FONT size=6><FONT face=楷体_GB2312><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"> <BR><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana"> 你又何苦自己找黄莲来嚼呢？如果以前的恋人生活的不幸福，你的旧情加上同情心，一定会想很多……毕竟</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">,</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">你们以前是相爱的恋人，你们也曾经拥有过美好的爱情生活，面对以前的恋人失意迷茫，你会伸出援助之手吗</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">?</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">你会不会又落进那感情的旋涡呢？</SPAN></FONT></FONT><FONT size=6><FONT face=楷体_GB2312><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"> <BR><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana"> 最后，大家都有了新的一半，你继续和以前的旧爱做朋友，新情人心里会怎么想，藕断丝连？新欢肯定心中不满</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">,</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">更可怕得是，在猜疑与辩解中，生成几何关系来。当然，也有一些成功的，但是听起来，总是有丝丝的尴尬。</SPAN></FONT></FONT><FONT size=6><FONT face=楷体_GB2312><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"> <BR><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana"> 未曾刻骨铭心，分手后做朋友又谈何容易？看着自己以前的恋人，与别人亲亲我我、欢天喜地，你肯定会有……何必自己做戏给自己和他们看呢？已经分手了，为什么还要刻意的去维护一种近似超越友谊的关系呢</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">?</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">不如把它封在心里，怀念</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">,</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">或者扔掉它，迎接新的一段生活。</SPAN></FONT></FONT><FONT size=6><FONT face=楷体_GB2312><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"> <BR><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana"> 分手了，何必再要做朋友？</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"> </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">否则，何言分手？</SPAN></FONT></FONT> <p>和搂主的观点相同，如果真的要分手了，就不要再做朋友了，离开彼此的视线，默默的祝福对方就是了</p><p>分手后再做朋友我个人觉得有一点就是你还不想分手，要不就是你当时没有那样真正的区爱过对方，还没有爱到刻骨铭心！</p><p></p> 那个人，不再是你的朋友，因为他曾经伤害了你，也不是你的敌人，因为你曾经爱过他，我想他只是一个陌生人，但在前面再加一个定语，‘最熟悉’三个字。 <p>分手了,就不要再聯系了, 以免對雙方產生誤會.</p> <p>我和我的初恋男友在一起之前是好朋友，后来在一起，再到分开，中间的确有段时间彼此话也不说，招呼也不打，可是后来我们终于还是做回朋友，那么熟悉的人太难得了，如果说只是单纯的朋友可以做到无所不谈，得要缘份，机会，时间等等来打磨，我和他都很珍惜。所以，做回朋友。</p><p>虽然在不同的城市，每年都会聚一起聊天，谈谈生活，感情，很好。真的，可以特别坦然，无所顾忌。</p><p>他也有了他的女朋友，而我后来也是，其实在于是怎么分开也在于双方是什么样的人吧。我们并不是争吵破裂，是真的压力，性格上觉得不合适才分开的。</p><p>其实大家也可以尝试一下，这样的朋友很难得，会是一辈子你有困难都不会不管 你的人。虽然平时联系未必如身边的兄弟或者姐妹那样多。</p><p>当然如果人品问题或者实在破裂了，无法挽回也无需强求。</p> 2楼的支持一下！！感觉一样，而且是现在的感觉。刚刚过去，心里还有点。。。不想说太多了。。。。。。 分手就分手吧，最好干干净净，不要再有任何联系。 <p>看什么人，什么原因分手的吧。</p><p>不过我也觉得重新做朋友很难，而且会有很多不必要的问题出现。</p>[此贴子已经被作者于2006-10-16 19:10:20编辑过] <p>不同的人分手了,都会有不一样的结局.</p><p>有的实在是分得越干净越好.有的确实是做朋友比做恋人来得更默契.</p><p>但是前提就是不要把以前的牵扯,搅和到现在的情感中,招惹不必要的误会和麻烦.</p><p>你爱的,毕竟还是现在进行时,而不是过去式.</p> <p>过去的就让他过去，</p><p>就像未曾经历过，避免增加彼此的无奈</p>