发现孩子的领导才能
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><font size="3"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">发现孩子的领导才能</span><span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></font></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 30pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.5;"><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><font face="">[</font></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">墨西哥《箴言报》</span><chsdate wst="on" year="2006" day="8" islunardate="False" isrocdate="False"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><font face="">2</font></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">月</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><font face="">8</font></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">日</span></chsdate><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">文章</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><font face="">]</font></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">题：发现孩子的领导才能</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><p></p></span></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><font size="3"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">发掘孩子领导才能的最佳方式是观察他们的一举一动。发现他们具有的相关潜质后，您需要强化这些特质，直到孩子们养成终身受用的习惯。以下我举例了反映孩子可能具有领导潜质的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><font face="">18</font></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">种情况，敬请留意：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><p></p></span></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 42pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; tab-stops: list 42.0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: '';"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face=""><font size="3">1.</font><span style="FONT: 7pt '';"> </span></font></span></span><font size="3"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">性格：是否会主动插手自己分外的事情，表现其责任心和决断力。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><p></p></span></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 42pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; tab-stops: list 42.0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: '';"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face=""><font size="3">2.</font><span style="FONT: 7pt '';"> </span></font></span></span><font size="3"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">敢于大声而坚定地讲话：是否会无所顾忌地表现自己的想法，以及困难时是否流露出胆怯。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><p></p></span></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 42pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; tab-stops: list 42.0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: '';"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face=""><font size="3">3.</font><span style="FONT: 7pt '';"> </span></font></span></span><font size="3"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">创造力：注意其在百无聊赖时所能想出的消遣手段。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><p></p></span></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 42pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; tab-stops: list 42.0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: '';"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face=""><font size="3">4.</font><span style="FONT: 7pt '';"> </span></font></span></span><font size="3"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">解决问题的能力：面对无法回避的问题时，选择分析解决还是发愁焦虑。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><p></p></span></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 42pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; tab-stops: list 42.0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: '';"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face=""><font size="3">5.</font><span style="FONT: 7pt '';"> </span></font></span></span><font size="3"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">交往能力：识别他们谈话中所表现出来的情商和人际交往中的敏感程度。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><p></p></span></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 42pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; tab-stops: list 42.0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: '';"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face=""><font size="3">6.</font><span style="FONT: 7pt '';"> </span></font></span></span><font size="3"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">坚韧的毅力：是否有韧劲，能否从错误中恢复。注意其承担风险、为实现目标而奋斗的动力。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><p></p></span></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 42pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; tab-stops: list 42.0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: '';"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face=""><font size="3">7.</font><span style="FONT: 7pt '';"> </span></font></span></span><font size="3"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">激情：做事的激情就是进步的动力。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><p></p></span></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 42pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; tab-stops: list 42.0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: '';"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face=""><font size="3">8.</font><span style="FONT: 7pt '';"> </span></font></span></span><font size="3"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">沟通能力：领导者</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><font face="">75%</font></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">的工作是口头交际行为，注意观察孩子在交换意见时的调和能力。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><p></p></span></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 42pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; tab-stops: list 42.0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: '';"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face=""><font size="3">9.</font><span style="FONT: 7pt '';"> </span></font></span></span><font size="3"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">倾听和求知的兴趣：未来的领导往往通过倾听和提问来表现他们的好奇心。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><p></p></span></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 42pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; tab-stops: list 42.0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: '';"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face=""><font size="3">10.</font><span style="FONT: 7pt '';"> </span></font></span></span><font size="3"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">永不服输：最能代表领导者特点的品质是毅力。孩子如果永不服输，其领导之路就已经成功一半了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><p></p></span></font></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 42pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; tab-stops: list 42.0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: "";"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face="">10.<span style="FONT: 7pt "";"> </span></font></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: ""; mso-hansi-font-family: ""; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">自信心：敢于表达自己的想法，不人云亦云，能质疑别人的看法。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 42pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; tab-stops: list 42.0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: "";"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face="">12.<span style="FONT: 7pt "";"> </span></font></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: ""; mso-hansi-font-family: ""; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">在集体活动中取得主动：是否能在一个群体中迅速作出决定并表明自己的看法，是否渴望并喜欢成为游戏中大家关注的中心。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 42pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; tab-stops: list 42.0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: "";"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face="">13.<span style="FONT: 7pt "";"> </span></font></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: ""; mso-hansi-font-family: ""; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">沉着应对压力：在沉重的压力下，会不会束手无策而导致情况失控，能否保持沉静，给自己时间思考。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 42pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; tab-stops: list 42.0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: "";"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face="">14.<span style="FONT: 7pt "";"> </span></font></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: ""; mso-hansi-font-family: ""; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">刻苦工作：领导们最突出的特点之一就是能为实现更高的目标而刻苦努力地工作。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 42pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; tab-stops: list 42.0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: "";"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face="">15.<span style="FONT: 7pt "";"> </span></font></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: ""; mso-hansi-font-family: ""; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">意志坚定：如果能为了实现自己的想法，而不惜在心理上、肉体上和精神上为之努力奋斗，这一定是一个潜在的领导。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 42pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; tab-stops: list 42.0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: "";"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face="">16.<span style="FONT: 7pt "";"> </span></font></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: ""; mso-hansi-font-family: ""; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">掌控力：是否愿意第一个抢到，第一个完成任务。倘若发现孩子不惧怕掌控局面，愿意争第一，那么请重视培养孩子的这个特点。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 42pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; tab-stops: list 42.0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: "";"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face="">17.<span style="FONT: 7pt "";"> </span></font></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: ""; mso-hansi-font-family: ""; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">合作和配合的能力：是否喜欢和大家一起做事而不是离群独处，是否愿意参与集体讨论并表现出协作精神。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 42pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; tab-stops: list 42.0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: "";"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face="">18.<span style="FONT: 7pt "";"> </span></font></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: ""; mso-hansi-font-family: ""; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">积极的态度：是否在归咎他人而浪费时间，能否看到问题积极的一面，而不消极面对。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><p></p></span></p>
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