批评
<SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ' '; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><FONT face="宋体, MS Song">来自网络《成功金句》<BR> </FONT></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ' '; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><FONT face="宋体, MS Song"><B>批评</B></FONT></SPAN>
<SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ' '; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><FONT face="宋体, MS Song"><BR></FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ' '; mso-hansi-font-family: ' '; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">一事无成的无名小卒才能免于批评。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ' '; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><FONT face="宋体, MS Song"> <BR></FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ' '; mso-hansi-font-family: ' '; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">不要怕不公正的批评，但要知道哪些是不公正的批评。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ' '; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><FONT face="宋体, MS Song"> <BR></FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ' '; mso-hansi-font-family: ' '; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">不要批评你不了解的人，要趁机向他学习。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ' '; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><FONT face="宋体, MS Song"> <BR></FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ' '; mso-hansi-font-family: ' '; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">不要怕受人批评。当你提出新的观念，就要准备受人批评。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ' '; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><FONT face="宋体, MS Song"> <BR></FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ' '; mso-hansi-font-family: ' '; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">不要批评别人的行为，除非你知道他为何那么做。你在同样的情况下也可能会如此。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ' '; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><FONT face="宋体, MS Song"> <BR></FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ' '; mso-hansi-font-family: ' '; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">不能忍受批评，就无法尝试新事物。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ' '; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><FONT face="宋体, MS Song"> <BR></FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ' '; mso-hansi-font-family: ' '; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">如果你经常批评别人，何不试着赞美别人？</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ' '; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><FONT face="宋体, MS Song"> <BR></FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ' '; mso-hansi-font-family: ' '; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">开始批评之前，最好先略加赞美。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ' '; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><FONT face="宋体, MS Song"> <BR></FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ' '; mso-hansi-font-family: ' '; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">如果你想要更受人欢迎，尽量多赞美，少批评。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ' '; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><FONT face="宋体, MS Song"> </FONT><BR style="mso-special-character: line-break"></SPAN>
<SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ' '; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><BR style="mso-special-character: line-break"><B>地平线的乱想：</B></SPAN>
<SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ' '; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">曾经在新闻里看到的一个片断我一直都印象很深，那是董建华刚上任不久，朱镕基在一次公开场合被记者问道：“有一些香港人不认同董建华，对他有很多批评，总理您是怎么看的？”朱镕基回答道：“这很正常，任何时候都总有人支持和反对的。”</SPAN>
<SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ' '; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">要做事，尤其是大事，在风头浪尖上，无数只眼睛会盯着你的一举一动，会有很多善意的和敌意的批评。这是很正常的，因为<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ' '; mso-hansi-font-family: ' '; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><B>一事无成的无名小卒才能免于批评。</B>要能承受一时不被别人理解和认同，<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ' '; mso-hansi-font-family: ' '; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><B>不要怕不公正的批评，但要知道哪些是不公正的批评</B>。保持平常心，注重以行动和沟通获得进展和理解。</SPAN></SPAN>
2004-3-5</SPAN>
[此贴子已经被作者于2004-3-5 9:03:38编辑过] 好，我争取被人批评一下！
老师的批评
记得老师常说：我对你们的批评，以及你们进行的自我批评。（呵呵老师在解释：批评与自我批评） <DIV class=quote><B>以下是引用<I>四禅天在2004-3-5 17:22:00</I>的发言：</B><BR>记得老师常说：我对你们的批评，以及你们进行的自我批评。（呵呵老师在解释：批评与自我批评）</DIV><BR>哈哈！精彩的解释！ 看了地平线这么多好帖子，我忍不住想发发言，争取地平线把我当作个好学的后辈，这样我就比其他人有更多学习的机会了
事实上，在你慢慢成熟、取得一定社会地位以后，你受到的批评慢慢就会减少了，为什么呢？
因为你犯错的方式已经不同了，不像以前犯一些幼稚而容易被人指出的错误。 而你接触的同龄人也同样也已经圆滑到不可能随便批评你了。那么，唯一可以批评你的就是比你位高权重的人，不过，你不要企盼太多，因为这些人更是不会轻易批评下属后辈！
就此看来，想要虚心的接受批评可不容易呢。除非你是个风云人物，风云人物总是容易被批评，可是对于声名不那么盛的你，岂不是受批评的机会大大减少？
那么在哪里可以接受到批评呢？靠自己！
我想借用瞿秋白的话：揭穿假面具是最痛快的事，不但对于动手去揭穿别人的痛快，就是对于被揭穿的也很痛快，尤其是自己能够揭穿。
这里我改装一下：批评是一件痛快的事，不但对于开口去批评他人的痛快，就是对于被批评的也很痛快，尤其是能自我批评。
在现实生活中，我们不得不学会自我批评。
自我批评要求你从主体转到客体来看自己，就像是看他人下围棋，总是能轻易指出他们的错误，也能想到更好的解决办法。
老鼠也移民
谢谢分享
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