[转帖]续几个小故事
<p> </p><p> 前段时间在“修炼成长”板块，转了几则小故事，现在又搜索到几则，但感觉还是放在“斟读故事”板块比较好，呵呵，现在发故事发上来，与家人分享。</p>
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<p><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times new=" AR-SA? mso-bidi-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-ansi-language: 1.0pt; mso-font-kerning: New? Roman?;>破窗<span class="ttag">理论</span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Calibri; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times new=" lang="EN-US" mso-bidi-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-ansi-language: 1.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 宋体? mso-fareast-font-family: AR-SA; New? Roman?;> <br/> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times new=" AR-SA? mso-bidi-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-ansi-language: 1.0pt; mso-font-kerning: New? Roman?;>多年前，美国斯坦福大学心理学家詹巴斗进行一项试验，他找了两辆一模一样的汽车，把其中的一辆摆在帕罗阿尔托的中产阶级社区，而另一辆停在相对杂乱的布朗克斯街区。停在布朗克斯的那一辆，他把车牌摘掉了，并且把顶棚打开。结果这辆车一天之内就给人偷走了，而放在帕罗阿尔托的那一辆，摆了一个星期也无人问津。后来，詹巴斗用锤子把那辆车的玻璃敲了个大洞。结果呢？仅仅过了几个小时，它就不见了。</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Calibri; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times new=" lang="EN-US" mso-bidi-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-ansi-language: 1.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 宋体? mso-fareast-font-family: AR-SA; New? Roman?;> <br/></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times new=" AR-SA? mso-bidi-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-ansi-language: 1.0pt; mso-font-kerning: New? Roman?;> 以这项试验为基础，政治学家威尔逊和犯罪学家凯琳提出了一个</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Calibri; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times new=" lang="EN-US" mso-bidi-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-ansi-language: 1.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 宋体? mso-fareast-font-family: AR-SA; New? Roman?;>“</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times new=" AR-SA? mso-bidi-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-ansi-language: 1.0pt; mso-font-kerning: New? Roman?;>破窗理论</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Calibri; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times new=" lang="EN-US" mso-bidi-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-ansi-language: 1.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 宋体? mso-fareast-font-family: AR-SA; New? Roman?;>”</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times new=" AR-SA? mso-bidi-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-ansi-language: 1.0pt; mso-font-kerning: New? Roman?;>。理论认为：如果有人打坏了一个建筑物的窗户玻璃，而这扇窗户又得不到及时的维修，别人就可能受到某些暗示性的纵容去打烂更多的窗户玻璃。久而久之，这些破窗户就给人造成一种无序的感觉。结果在这种公众麻木不仁的</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times new=" AR-SA? mso-bidi-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-ansi-language: 1.0pt; mso-font-kerning: New? Roman?;>氛围中，犯罪就会滋生、繁荣。</span></p>
<p><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times new=" AR-SA? mso-bidi-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-ansi-language: 1.0pt; mso-font-kerning: New? Roman?;></span> </p>
<p><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times new=" AR-SA? mso-bidi-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-ansi-language: 1.0pt; mso-font-kerning: New? Roman?;> <span style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体" lang="EN-US">▲</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">让失去变得可爱</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体" lang="EN-US">▲---<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">成功者善于放弃，善于从损失中看到价值。</span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Trebuchet MS'; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Trebuchet MS'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体" lang="EN-US"><br/></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"> 一个老人在高速行驶的火车上，不小心把刚买的新鞋从窗口掉了一只，周围的人倍感惋惜，不料老人立即把第二只鞋也从窗口扔了下去。这举动更让人大吃一惊。老人解释说：</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Calibri; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体" lang="EN-US">“</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">这一只鞋无论多么昂贵，对我而言已经没有用了，如果有谁能捡到一双鞋子，说不定他还能穿呢！</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Calibri; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体" lang="EN-US">”</span></span></p>
<p><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times new=" AR-SA? mso-bidi-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-ansi-language: 1.0pt; mso-font-kerning: New? Roman?;><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Calibri; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体" lang="EN-US"></span></span> </p>
<p><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times new=" AR-SA? mso-bidi-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-ansi-language: 1.0pt; mso-font-kerning: New? Roman?;><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Calibri; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体" lang="EN-US"> <span style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体" lang="EN-US">▲</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">请不要开错窗</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体" lang="EN-US">▲---<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">打开失败旁边的窗户，也许你就看到了希望。</span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Trebuchet MS'; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Trebuchet MS'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体" lang="EN-US"><br/></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"> 一个小女孩趴在窗台上，看窗外的人正埋葬她心爱的小狗，不禁泪流满面，悲恸不已。她的外祖父见状，连忙引她到另一个窗口，让她欣赏他的玫瑰花园。果然小女孩的心情顿时明朗。老人托起外孙女的下巴说：</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Calibri; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体" lang="EN-US">“</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">孩子，你开错了窗户。</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Calibri; FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体" lang="EN-US">”</span></span></span></p>
[此贴子已经被作者于2010-9-6 15:28:31编辑过]
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