hx1750 发表于 2010-5-16 11:44:09

人际交往潜规则----周末斟读

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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 63pt; TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 63.0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><SPAN style="mso-list: Ignore">3.<SPAN style="FONT: 7pt ''">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </SPAN></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">这是个现实的社会,感情不能当饭吃,贫穷夫妻百事哀。不要相信电影,那只是个供许多陌生人喧嚣情感的场所。<SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 63pt; TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 63.0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><SPAN style="mso-list: Ignore">7.<SPAN style="FONT: 7pt ''">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </SPAN></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">少玩游戏,这不是韩国,你打不出房子车子还有女人。<SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 63pt; TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 63.0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><SPAN style="mso-list: Ignore">8.<SPAN style="FONT: 7pt ''">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </SPAN></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">学好英语,那些说学英语没用的暂时可以不去管,他们要么年纪大了,要么就是自己早过了<SPAN lang=EN-US>CET6</SPAN>准备托福了,在这里哗众取宠。你可以不拿证,但一定要学好。<SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 63pt; TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 63.0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><SPAN style="mso-list: Ignore">9.<SPAN style="FONT: 7pt ''">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </SPAN></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">知道自己要干什么,夜深人静,问问自己,将来的打算,并朝着那个方向去实现。<SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 63pt; TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 63.0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><SPAN style="mso-list: Ignore">12.<SPAN style="FONT: 7pt ''">&nbsp; </SPAN></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">空闲时间不要全拿去泡<SPAN lang=EN-US>BAR</SPAN>,读点文学作品,学习一些经营流程,管理规范,国际时事,法律常识。这能保证你在任何聚会都有谈资。<SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></P>
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magic唯一 发表于 2010-5-16 23:01:52

经典

paoasd 发表于 2010-5-17 09:19:21

说的很在理。。。

蓝田若水 发表于 2010-5-17 09:48:41

受益受益

忘了 发表于 2010-5-17 10:28:23

努力践行吧

hrily 发表于 2010-5-17 11:44:13

<p>善于总结,真好</p>

dmin 发表于 2010-5-17 14:52:22

二十岁没钱,那很正常,三十岁没钱,那是宿命。

还有4年来改变这点~但是多多少标准才能说明自己摆脱了呢?

枫鹤 发表于 2010-5-17 21:05:09

<p>虽然我很迷茫,但是我有我的向往!</p>

lihaoyu 发表于 2010-5-17 23:52:44

楼主的帖子好眼熟啊,呵呵

10thspace 发表于 2010-5-18 13:49:06

<p>看过很多遍了,不过每次看都有新的体会!</p>
<p>而且,心中总会不自觉的反省一下,这次看和上次看,自己有了多大的改变,是改好了还是变坏了……</p>
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<p>激励自己,鞭策自己!</p>
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