[原创]家教周刊

laihuaxun2 发表于 2010-4-1 21:34:51

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3月31日：全国中小学生安全教育日（1996年）。安全教育日是为了推动中小学安全教育工作，降低各类伤亡事故的发生率，做好中小学生安全保护工作。<o:p></o:p>
4月1日：愚人节（1564年）。此年法国采用阳历，因循守旧的人反对，人们给他们送假的新年礼品，称他们为4月傻瓜，故4月1日为愚人节。<o:p></o:p>
4月2日：国际儿童图书日（1967年）；丹麦儿童文学大师安徒生生日。每年今天童话之父安徒生都会在全球无数小朋友的阅读中重生。<o:p></o:p>
4月5日：清明节；乒乓球运动员容国团为中国获体育第一个世界冠军（1959年）。<o:p></o:p>
4月6日：第一届现代奥运会开幕（1896年）。<o:p></o:p>
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laihuaxun2 发表于 2010-4-1 21:35:15

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<p class="MsoNormal" style="WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 24.1pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; tab-stops: 45.8pt 91.6pt 137.4pt 183.2pt 229.0pt 274.8pt 320.6pt 366.4pt 412.2pt 458.0pt 503.8pt 549.6pt 595.4pt 641.2pt 687.0pt 732.8pt" align="left">一、人的个性各不相同<o:p></o:p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; tab-stops: 45.8pt 91.6pt 137.4pt 183.2pt 229.0pt 274.8pt 320.6pt 366.4pt 412.2pt 458.0pt 503.8pt 549.6pt 595.4pt 641.2pt 687.0pt 732.8pt" align="left">在大森林里，我们难于找到完全相同的两片树叶；在茫茫的人海中，我们也难于找到个性一模一样的两个人。在小说《西游记》里，唐僧师徒四位性格鲜明，各不相同。唐僧取经的心很诚，讲慈悲，但有时是非不分，敌我不辨；猪八戒馋、懒，爱占小便宜，但能干脏活累活，懂得享受；沙僧正直严肃，然而比较平庸；孙悟空勇敢机智、疾恶如仇，有时爱开玩笑，做些淘气的事。<o:p></o:p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; tab-stops: 45.8pt 91.6pt 137.4pt 183.2pt 229.0pt 274.8pt 320.6pt 366.4pt 412.2pt 458.0pt 503.8pt 549.6pt 595.4pt 641.2pt 687.0pt 732.8pt" align="left">人与人之间的差异，不仅表现在能力的高低上，还表现在个性的差异上。个性是一个人整体的精神面貌，气质和性格是个性心理特征，是个性的重要体现，气质和性格的不同是风格不同。李白杜甫的写诗能力都是一流，但风格迥异。<o:p></o:p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; tab-stops: 45.8pt 91.6pt 137.4pt 183.2pt 229.0pt 274.8pt 320.6pt 366.4pt 412.2pt 458.0pt 503.8pt 549.6pt 595.4pt 641.2pt 687.0pt 732.8pt" align="left">心理健康者个性健全，这样的人主要有两个特征：一是与他人和睦相处；二是有协调的自我。对这第二点稍作解释。有协调自我的人其个性结构比较稳定和协调，其理想自我与现实自我的差距不太大，其行动的手段和目的之间也比较协调。人经常有三种心态：第一种是遵循快乐主义原则的儿童心态，可称为本我，以《西游记》中人物猪八戒为代表；第二种是遵循现实主义原则的成人心态，可称为自我，以孙悟空为代表；第三种是遵循完美主义原则的父母心态，可称为超我，以唐僧为代表。本我、自我、超我这三个我中某一个太突出的话并不好，要三者协调，才心理健康，个性健全。<o:p></o:p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; tab-stops: 45.8pt 91.6pt 137.4pt 183.2pt 229.0pt 274.8pt 320.6pt 366.4pt 412.2pt 458.0pt 503.8pt 549.6pt 595.4pt 641.2pt 687.0pt 732.8pt" align="left">气质是个性中比较稳定的并与遗传素质联系密切的成分。人的气质也是千差万别，有的如汹涌的钱塘江潮奔腾激荡；有的如欢快的庐山瀑布飞流直下；有的如轻柔的昆明湖水波澜不兴；有的如地下的黄山温泉潜流不露。这四种分别叫做胆汁质、多血质、粘液质和抑郁质。人的气质无好坏之分，只要适度、和谐就是美的。人要了解自己的气质，正确对待自己的气质，扬长避短。<o:p></o:p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; tab-stops: 45.8pt 91.6pt 137.4pt 183.2pt 229.0pt 274.8pt 320.6pt 366.4pt 412.2pt 458.0pt 503.8pt 549.6pt 595.4pt 641.2pt 687.0pt 732.8pt" align="left">小说《红楼梦》中着力描写四个女子，分别代表四种典型气质。史湘云是胆汁质气质，缺点是容易发火，容易急躁；优点是坦率和敢想敢干。好强是胆汁质人的特点，但过头了就是自负。他们不允许失败，在一定程度上就缺乏了柔韧性。<o:p></o:p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; tab-stops: 45.8pt 91.6pt 137.4pt 183.2pt 229.0pt 274.8pt 320.6pt 366.4pt 412.2pt 458.0pt 503.8pt 549.6pt 595.4pt 641.2pt 687.0pt 732.8pt" align="left">王熙凤是多血质气质，缺点是会想歪点子，不喜欢坚持办一件事情；优点是招数多，看问题比较乐观。活泼开朗，积极向上，他们不想丢东西，却经常在找东西。热情是挺好的，但过度了就不一定好了。<o:p></o:p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; tab-stops: 45.8pt 91.6pt 137.4pt 183.2pt 229.0pt 274.8pt 320.6pt 366.4pt 412.2pt 458.0pt 503.8pt 549.6pt 595.4pt 641.2pt 687.0pt 732.8pt" align="left">薛宝钗是粘液质气质，缺点是反应慢，反应小；优点是沉着，踏实，默默无闻，谦虚谨慎，有时显得缺少主动和热情。<o:p></o:p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; tab-stops: 45.8pt 91.6pt 137.4pt 183.2pt 229.0pt 274.8pt 320.6pt 366.4pt 412.2pt 458.0pt 503.8pt 549.6pt 595.4pt 641.2pt 687.0pt 732.8pt" align="left">林黛玉是抑郁质气质，缺点是太敏感，孤僻；优点是细致，温和。感情细腻，善解人意，但有时过分严肃或是缺少魄力。<o:p></o:p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; tab-stops: 45.8pt 91.6pt 137.4pt 183.2pt 229.0pt 274.8pt 320.6pt 366.4pt 412.2pt 458.0pt 503.8pt 549.6pt 595.4pt 641.2pt 687.0pt 732.8pt" align="left">贾宝玉是混合型气质，大多数人是以一种气质为主导的混合型。四种气质各有千秋，没有好坏之分。<o:p></o:p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; tab-stops: 45.8pt 91.6pt 137.4pt 183.2pt 229.0pt 274.8pt 320.6pt 366.4pt 412.2pt 458.0pt 503.8pt 549.6pt 595.4pt 641.2pt 687.0pt 732.8pt" align="left">性格表现在个人对现实的态度和稳定的行为方式上。有人果断；有人犹豫；有人稳重；有人急躁；有人内向；有人外向；有人独立；有人依从。这里也是适度为美，和谐为美。有的人打架敢动刀子，可是给他打预防针时却会吓得发抖。他是胆大还是胆小呢？人是自然界最复杂的动物，每个人的性格都是复杂的、独特的，都是一本永远读不完的书。性格是个性心理特征之一，指人对现实的态度和行为方式中的比较稳定的、具有核心意义的个性心理特征。性格是比较稳定的个性心理特征，但又具有一定的可塑性，它是在生活过程中逐渐形成和发展的。<o:p></o:p>
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laihuaxun2 发表于 2010-4-1 21:35:46

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<p class="MsoNormal" style="WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; tab-stops: 45.8pt 91.6pt 137.4pt 183.2pt 229.0pt 274.8pt 320.6pt 366.4pt 412.2pt 458.0pt 503.8pt 549.6pt 595.4pt 641.2pt 687.0pt 732.8pt" align="left">孩子容易形成的消极性格如下：<o:p></o:p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; tab-stops: 45.8pt 91.6pt 137.4pt 183.2pt 229.0pt 274.8pt 320.6pt 366.4pt 412.2pt 458.0pt 503.8pt 549.6pt 595.4pt 641.2pt 687.0pt 732.8pt" align="left">——嫉妒。这是一种自我中心，排斥别人，抬高自己的性格缺陷。总之就是见不得别人比自己好。其表现形式多种多样：有的因学习成绩受挫而产生；有的因友谊转移或丧失而产生；有的因得不到表扬、尊重和鼓励而产生；有的因生理条件欠佳而产生。嫉妒和虚荣心有很大的关系。<o:p></o:p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; tab-stops: 45.8pt 91.6pt 137.4pt 183.2pt 229.0pt 274.8pt 320.6pt 366.4pt 412.2pt 458.0pt 503.8pt 549.6pt 595.4pt 641.2pt 687.0pt 732.8pt" align="left">——任性。主要表现是随心所欲，一旦个人的欲望得不到满足，便以各种形式发泄不满，以便引起别人关注。<o:p></o:p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; tab-stops: 45.8pt 91.6pt 137.4pt 183.2pt 229.0pt 274.8pt 320.6pt 366.4pt 412.2pt 458.0pt 503.8pt 549.6pt 595.4pt 641.2pt 687.0pt 732.8pt" align="left">——孤僻。主要表现是疑心重，容易神经过敏，办事喜欢独往独来，不愿意和他人接触。<o:p></o:p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; tab-stops: 45.8pt 91.6pt 137.4pt 183.2pt 229.0pt 274.8pt 320.6pt 366.4pt 412.2pt 458.0pt 503.8pt 549.6pt 595.4pt 641.2pt 687.0pt 732.8pt" align="left">——怯懦。这是以胆怯和懦弱为特征的缺陷，表现为胆小怕事，意志薄弱，遇事退缩，人际冷漠。<o:p></o:p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; tab-stops: 45.8pt 91.6pt 137.4pt 183.2pt 229.0pt 274.8pt 320.6pt 366.4pt 412.2pt 458.0pt 503.8pt 549.6pt 595.4pt 641.2pt 687.0pt 732.8pt" align="left">——自卑。这是以消极的自我评价为特征的缺陷。对自己的能力估计过低，办事缺乏信心，无所作为，悲观泄气，是主要表现。<o:p></o:p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; tab-stops: 45.8pt 91.6pt 137.4pt 183.2pt 229.0pt 274.8pt 320.6pt 366.4pt 412.2pt 458.0pt 503.8pt 549.6pt 595.4pt 641.2pt 687.0pt 732.8pt" align="left">人们发现社会上的许多成功人士，不仅都具有杰出的能力，而且都具备良好的性格，所以说一个人的良好性格是他事业成功的催化剂。一个人的性格有稳定性，也有一定的可变性。孩子性格的培养是一个自我长期磨练的过程。水滴石穿，绳锯木断，只要他严格要求自己，雏鹰将凌空展翅，在蓝天翱翔。<o:p></o:p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; tab-stops: 45.8pt 91.6pt 137.4pt 183.2pt 229.0pt 274.8pt 320.6pt 366.4pt 412.2pt 458.0pt 503.8pt 549.6pt 595.4pt 641.2pt 687.0pt 732.8pt" align="left">心理健康的人是一个具有和谐性格的人。在生活实践中，家长可以从以下几个方面帮助孩子完善自己的性格。<o:p></o:p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; tab-stops: 45.8pt 91.6pt 137.4pt 183.2pt 229.0pt 274.8pt 320.6pt 366.4pt 412.2pt 458.0pt 503.8pt 549.6pt 595.4pt 641.2pt 687.0pt 732.8pt" align="left">——远离狭隘。狭隘表现为思路狭窄，还表现为对个人得失的斤斤计较和人际交往的狭窄。狭隘的人，遇到一点委屈就耿耿于怀，与人闹了一点别扭就不理不睬。孩子如果能思路开阔，克服封闭交往意识和狭隘的个人观念，拓展自己的兴趣爱好，积极参加集体活动，就能解除心理负担，告别狭隘。<o:p></o:p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; tab-stops: 45.8pt 91.6pt 137.4pt 183.2pt 229.0pt 274.8pt 320.6pt 366.4pt 412.2pt 458.0pt 503.8pt 549.6pt 595.4pt 641.2pt 687.0pt 732.8pt" align="left">——远离暴躁。情绪适度是一个人心理健康的重要内容。有的人遇到事情容易冒火，听到不顺耳的话就大动干戈，不去考虑行为的后果。先要帮孩子认识暴躁的危害，在行为中持之以恒地加以控制。如果能在即将发怒时停下来，默数“一、二、三、四、五、六”，大多数情况下都会转危为安。<o:p></o:p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; tab-stops: 45.8pt 91.6pt 137.4pt 183.2pt 229.0pt 274.8pt 320.6pt 366.4pt 412.2pt 458.0pt 503.8pt 549.6pt 595.4pt 641.2pt 687.0pt 732.8pt" align="left">——远离任性。任性的根源在于孩子在成人的溺爱之中不能自拔，其主要的表现是随心所欲。关键是要把自己合理的需求和过分的贪欲分清楚。应该认识到，这个世界是靠众人支撑的，没有了谁地球还会继续转动。一个人过度的自我中心会成为孤家寡人，重要的是克服任性，与人为善，学会谅解，团结合作。<o:p></o:p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; tab-stops: 45.8pt 91.6pt 137.4pt 183.2pt 229.0pt 274.8pt 320.6pt 366.4pt 412.2pt 458.0pt 503.8pt 549.6pt 595.4pt 641.2pt 687.0pt 732.8pt" align="left">——远离孤僻。在学习、生活、工作中要投身于友善之中，关心之中，协助之中，集体之中。只要不是有关原则的事情，就应该讲宽容，讲配合，讲团结，讲礼让。<o:p></o:p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; tab-stops: 45.8pt 91.6pt 137.4pt 183.2pt 229.0pt 274.8pt 320.6pt 366.4pt 412.2pt 458.0pt 503.8pt 549.6pt 595.4pt 641.2pt 687.0pt 732.8pt" align="left">——增强自我效能感。一个人有能力，不一定就能完成相应的任务。这时，自我效能感成了决定的因素。这是一个人在进行某一活动前，对自己能否有效进行某一行为的判断。这种自我效能感对人的认识、情感和行为选择都会产生影响。<o:p></o:p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; tab-stops: 45.8pt 91.6pt 137.4pt 183.2pt 229.0pt 274.8pt 320.6pt 366.4pt 412.2pt 458.0pt 503.8pt 549.6pt 595.4pt 641.2pt 687.0pt 732.8pt" align="left">家长不必要去刻意改变孩子的气质。江山易改，本性难移。可以让孩子遵照自己的特点去制订自己的行事规则，并不断地完善自己，让自己更优秀，但绝不是抛弃原来的自己。每一种气质都有成功的潜质，每一种气质的人都可以获得幸福的生活。<o:p></o:p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; tab-stops: 45.8pt 91.6pt 137.4pt 183.2pt 229.0pt 274.8pt 320.6pt 366.4pt 412.2pt 458.0pt 503.8pt 549.6pt 595.4pt 641.2pt 687.0pt 732.8pt" align="left"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New="New"Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p>活动二：问我自己五个问题。<o:p></o:p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; tab-stops: 45.8pt 91.6pt 137.4pt 183.2pt 229.0pt 274.8pt 320.6pt 366.4pt 412.2pt 458.0pt 503.8pt 549.6pt 595.4pt 641.2pt 687.0pt 732.8pt" align="left">1、我拥有什么？<o:p></o:p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; tab-stops: 45.8pt 91.6pt 137.4pt 183.2pt 229.0pt 274.8pt 320.6pt 366.4pt 412.2pt 458.0pt 503.8pt 549.6pt 595.4pt 641.2pt 687.0pt 732.8pt" align="left">2、我应该为什么而感到自豪？<o:p></o:p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; tab-stops: 45.8pt 91.6pt 137.4pt 183.2pt 229.0pt 274.8pt 320.6pt 366.4pt 412.2pt 458.0pt 503.8pt 549.6pt 595.4pt 641.2pt 687.0pt 732.8pt" align="left">3、我能放下自己的包袱吗？<o:p></o:p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; tab-stops: 45.8pt 91.6pt 137.4pt 183.2pt 229.0pt 274.8pt 320.6pt 366.4pt 412.2pt 458.0pt 503.8pt 549.6pt 595.4pt 641.2pt 687.0pt 732.8pt" align="left">4、我怎么换个角度看问题？<o:p></o:p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; tab-stops: 45.8pt 91.6pt 137.4pt 183.2pt 229.0pt 274.8pt 320.6pt 366.4pt 412.2pt 458.0pt 503.8pt 549.6pt 595.4pt 641.2pt 687.0pt 732.8pt" align="left">5、我怎样过好今天？<o:p></o:p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; tab-stops: 45.8pt 91.6pt 137.4pt 183.2pt 229.0pt 274.8pt 320.6pt 366.4pt 412.2pt 458.0pt 503.8pt 549.6pt 595.4pt 641.2pt 687.0pt 732.8pt" align="left">参考答案：<o:p></o:p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; tab-stops: 45.8pt 91.6pt 137.4pt 183.2pt 229.0pt 274.8pt 320.6pt 366.4pt 412.2pt 458.0pt 503.8pt 549.6pt 595.4pt 641.2pt 687.0pt 732.8pt" align="left">1、失去了才知道珍贵。通常我们不觉得，只是对没有的东西苦恼。其实我拥有几乎数不清的东西：健康、友爱、可以看、可以听、可以想、拥有计算能力、会读书，以及诸如此类。走出抱怨，就可以看到所拥有的。<o:p></o:p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; tab-stops: 45.8pt 91.6pt 137.4pt 183.2pt 229.0pt 274.8pt 320.6pt 366.4pt 412.2pt 458.0pt 503.8pt 549.6pt 595.4pt 641.2pt 687.0pt 732.8pt" align="left">2、成绩不分大小，每一次成功都意味着向前迈进了一步。可以为刚战胜一个挑战而自豪，为帮助一个弱者而欣慰，为结识一个朋友而欢欣，为读了一本好书而高兴。<o:p></o:p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; tab-stops: 45.8pt 91.6pt 137.4pt 183.2pt 229.0pt 274.8pt 320.6pt 366.4pt 412.2pt 458.0pt 503.8pt 549.6pt 595.4pt 641.2pt 687.0pt 732.8pt" align="left">3、伤心的经历和怨气是包袱，获得的荣誉和成功同样也是包袱。背着这些沉重生活包袱没有用，建议自我总结一下，把值得借鉴的经验教训保存起来，卸下重负，轻装出发。<o:p></o:p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; tab-stops: 45.8pt 91.6pt 137.4pt 183.2pt 229.0pt 274.8pt 320.6pt 366.4pt 412.2pt 458.0pt 503.8pt 549.6pt 595.4pt 641.2pt 687.0pt 732.8pt" align="left">4、人往往是别人的建议者，却不是自己的。悲和喜有时只是看问题的角度不一样。“怨天尤人”可以改成“我不能改变环境，却可以改变自己”；再进一步改成“我改变了自己，也就在某种程度上改变了环境”。<o:p></o:p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; tab-stops: 45.8pt 91.6pt 137.4pt 183.2pt 229.0pt 274.8pt 320.6pt 366.4pt 412.2pt 458.0pt 503.8pt 549.6pt 595.4pt 641.2pt 687.0pt 732.8pt" align="left">5、设法把留在明天解决的问题今天解决掉。让生活过得索然无味还是积极向上，主动权就在自己手上。<o:p></o:p>
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