[原创]爱是喜悦的存在
<div><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">【淳报】评论：关于爱，喜悦与爱<span lang="EN-US">, </span>无缘无故的爱。</span></div><div><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''"><img border="0" alt="" src="http://blog.vsharing.com/Uploads/UserDirs/7/2644/1057306/爱是喜悦的存在.jpg"/></span></div>
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<p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0cm; MARGIN-LEFT: 0cm; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0cm" class="MsoNormal" 0pt? 0cm="0cm" 0cm?><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; COLOR: purple; FONT-SIZE: 12pt" lang="EN-US">1</span></i></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; COLOR: purple; FONT-SIZE: 12pt">、借着爱的名义操控<span lang="EN-US"> <?XML:NAMESPACE PREFIX = O /><o:P></o:P></span></span></i></b></p>
<p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0cm; MARGIN-LEFT: 0cm; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0cm" class="MsoNormal" 0cm="0cm" 0cm? 28.5pt? TEXT-INDENT: 0pt;><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt">我们常说的爱不是真爱<span lang="EN-US">, </span>而是在向别人乞求爱。如果你把爱给别人那是因为别人对你有好处<span lang="EN-US">, </span>别人有钱或者有名。<span lang="EN-US"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span><o:P></o:P></span></span></p>
<p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0cm; MARGIN-LEFT: 0cm; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0cm" class="MsoNormal" 0cm="0cm" 0cm? 28.5pt? TEXT-INDENT: 0pt;><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt">爱自己的丈夫或妻子是因为他或她对你有好处。占有某人，执着于某人。那不是我们所说的爱，而是</span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; COLOR: red; FONT-SIZE: 12pt">借着爱的名义操控</span></b><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt">。<span lang="EN-US"><o:P></o:P></span></span></p>
<p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0cm; MARGIN-LEFT: 0cm; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0cm" class="MsoNormal" 0cm="0cm" 0cm? 28.5pt? TEXT-INDENT: 0pt;><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt">父母对孩子有真爱，也有对孩子的操控；对身边的亲人，朋友，同事也会有爱，不可避免有“</span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; COLOR: red; FONT-SIZE: 12pt">付出与收取</span></b><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt">”的权衡，也就是我们常说的“</span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; COLOR: red; FONT-SIZE: 12pt">人情债</span></b><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt">”。当我们把爱挂在口头，当做庇护伞时，离爱就远了<span lang="EN-US"><o:P></o:P></span></span></p>
<p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0cm; MARGIN-LEFT: 0cm; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0cm" class="MsoNormal" 0cm="0cm" 0cm? 28.5pt? TEXT-INDENT: 0pt;><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt">因为真正的爱是无缘无故的，它就在那里。<span lang="EN-US"><o:P></o:P></span></span></p>
<p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0cm; MARGIN-LEFT: 0cm; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0cm" class="MsoNormal" 0pt? 0cm="0cm" 0cm?><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt" lang="EN-US"><o:P> </o:P></span></p>
<p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0cm; MARGIN-LEFT: 0cm; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0cm" class="MsoNormal" 0pt? 0cm="0cm" 0cm?><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; COLOR: purple; FONT-SIZE: 12pt" lang="EN-US">2</span></i></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; COLOR: purple; FONT-SIZE: 12pt">、饶了爱吧，不停说爱的人的人是因为恐惧<span lang="EN-US"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span><o:P></o:P></span></span></i></b></p>
<p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0cm; MARGIN-LEFT: 0cm; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0cm" class="MsoNormal" 0pt? 0cm="0cm" 0cm?><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt" lang="EN-US"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt">不信？很简单，一个男人走在大街上，从不会对别人说：</span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; COLOR: red; FONT-SIZE: 12pt">我是男人！</span></b><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt">当我们把爱挂在口头，不停说爱的时候，它的基础是恐惧，因为每一个人都是个体，彼此间的连接是无形的，而无血管，神经等有形的物品，而我们的意识，偏偏是“眼见为实”，即使穿上同样的衣服同样的打扮，还是惶惑：</span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; COLOR: red; FONT-SIZE: 12pt">人心隔肚皮嘛！</span></b><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt" lang="EN-US"><o:P></o:P></span></p>
<p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0cm; MARGIN-LEFT: 0cm; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0cm" class="MsoNormal" 0cm="0cm" 0cm? TEXT-INDENT: 0pt; 2.0? mso-char-indent-count: 24pt;><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt">人生很短，最长百年光阴，我们怕死怕高怕火怕丢脸怕没钱等，恐惧只会让我们没有更好的理由继续过贫乏日子。<span lang="EN-US"><o:P></o:P></span></span></p>
<p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0cm; MARGIN-LEFT: 0cm; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0cm" class="MsoNormal" 0pt? 0cm="0cm" 0cm?><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt" lang="EN-US"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt">穿越恐惧，恐惧的背后是一份大大的礼物：</span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; COLOR: red; FONT-SIZE: 12pt">深层的爱，接纳的爱</span></b><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt">。<span lang="EN-US"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span><o:P></o:P></span></span></p>
<p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0cm; MARGIN-LEFT: 0cm; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0cm" class="MsoNormal" 0pt? 0cm="0cm" 0cm?><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt" lang="EN-US"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt">爱是由内而外的，由心而发，自然而然。<span lang="EN-US"><o:P></o:P></span></span></p>
<p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0cm; MARGIN-LEFT: 0cm; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0cm" class="MsoNormal" 0cm="0cm" 0cm? 28.5pt? TEXT-INDENT: 0pt;><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt" lang="EN-US"><o:P> </o:P></span></p>
<p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0cm; MARGIN-LEFT: 0cm; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0cm" class="MsoNormal" 0pt? 0cm="0cm" 0cm?><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; COLOR: purple; FONT-SIZE: 12pt" lang="EN-US">3</span></i></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; COLOR: purple; FONT-SIZE: 12pt">、爱是喜悦的存在<span lang="EN-US"><o:P></o:P></span></span></i></b></p>
<p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0cm; MARGIN-LEFT: 0cm; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0cm" class="MsoNormal" 0cm="0cm" 0cm? 28.5pt? TEXT-INDENT: 0pt;><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt">喜悦就是生活的目的。离苦得乐，是人们向往的，其实苦，并非是真实存在的，苦是一种心理感受。<span lang="EN-US"><o:P></o:P></span></span></p>
<p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0cm; MARGIN-LEFT: 0cm; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0cm" class="MsoNormal" 0cm="0cm" 0cm? 28.5pt? TEXT-INDENT: 0pt;><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt">人们发明出来这么多的痛苦逃避机制，反而错过了所有的快乐。其实所有的苦都是纠结，都是无妄的执着。<span lang="EN-US"><o:P></o:P></span></span></p>
<p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0cm; MARGIN-LEFT: 0cm; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0cm" class="MsoNormal" 0cm="0cm" 0cm? 28.5pt? TEXT-INDENT: 0pt;><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; COLOR: #ff6600; FONT-SIZE: 12pt">放下执着，臣服于真相，勇敢地接纳事实，找到真正的喜悦。<span lang="EN-US"><o:P></o:P></span></span></b></p>
<p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0cm; MARGIN-LEFT: 0cm; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0cm" class="MsoNormal" 0cm="0cm" 0cm? 28.5pt? TEXT-INDENT: 0pt;><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt">当小我消失了，全世界都是我，我与世界连接，我们才能真正地去爱别人，因为别人就是你的一部分。此时爱才不再有私心，不再留恋过去或担心未来。<span lang="EN-US"><o:P></o:P></span></span></p>
<p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0cm; MARGIN-LEFT: 0cm; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0cm" class="MsoNormal" 0cm="0cm" 0cm? 28.5pt? TEXT-INDENT: 0pt;><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt">爱只存在于当下。每时每刻都是爱，那时我们才真正开始喜悦幸福。<span lang="EN-US"><o:P></o:P></span></span></p>
<p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0cm; MARGIN-LEFT: 0cm; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0cm" class="MsoNormal" 0cm="0cm" 0cm? TEXT-INDENT: 0pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.45? 29.5pt;><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; COLOR: red; FONT-SIZE: 12pt">宇宙是丰盛的，充满爱、富足、感恩！<span lang="EN-US"><o:P></o:P></span></span></b></p>
<p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0cm; MARGIN-LEFT: 0cm; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0cm" class="MsoNormal" 0cm="0cm" 0cm? 28.5pt? TEXT-INDENT: 0pt;><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 幼圆; COLOR: navy; FONT-SIZE: 12pt">出发吧！</span></span></p></div>
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