[转帖]千人别错过你的职场贵人
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<p><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: 9pt; FONT-SIZE: New? Roman?;> 问一问自己,谁是我们的<font face="Times new=" New? Roman?>“</font><font face="宋体">职场贵人</font><font face="Times new=" New? Roman?>”?</font><font face="宋体">我们的贵人其实就在我们的周围,他们就像我们的小天使,在我们身旁守候着我们,希望我们的努力及付出变得更有价值。他们从来没放弃过你,默默地在幕后支持着你。</font></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt" class="p0"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: 9pt; FONT-SIZE: bold; FONT-WEIGHT: New? Roman?;> <font face="Times new=" New? Roman?>1</font><font face="宋体">、愿意无条件力挺你的人</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: 9pt; FONT-SIZE: New? Roman?;><o:P></o:P></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt" class="p0"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: 9pt; FONT-SIZE: New? Roman?;> 我常说,如果有人愿意挺你,他肯定是你的贵人。当他愿意无条件地挺你,只因为你是你,他相信<font face="Times new=" New? Roman?>“</font><font face="宋体">你</font><font face="Times new=" New? Roman?>”</font><font face="宋体">这个人,他接受你。一个愿意接受我们的人,他肯定是我们的贵人。当他知道有小人在你背后中伤你说你的不是,他会挺你,帮你说好话来澄清</font><font face="Times new=" New? Roman?>!</font></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt" class="p0"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: 9pt; FONT-SIZE: New? Roman?;> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: 9pt; FONT-SIZE: bold; FONT-WEIGHT: New? Roman?;> <font face="Times new=" New? Roman?>2</font><font face="宋体">、愿意唠叨你的人</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: 9pt; FONT-SIZE: New? Roman?;><o:P></o:P></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt" class="p0"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: 9pt; FONT-SIZE: New? Roman?;> 因为他关心你,所以他才会唠叨<font face="Times new=" New? Roman?>!</font><font face="宋体">因为他在意你,所以他才会唠叨</font><font face="Times new=" New? Roman?>!</font><font face="宋体">他的唠叨是提醒,在事情发生前,他希望你可以少走冤枉路。</font></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt" class="p0"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: 9pt; FONT-SIZE: New? Roman?;> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: 9pt; FONT-SIZE: bold; FONT-WEIGHT: New? Roman?;> <font face="Times new=" New? Roman?>3</font><font face="宋体">、愿意和你分担分享的人</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: 9pt; FONT-SIZE: New? Roman?;><o:P></o:P></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt" class="p0"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: 9pt; FONT-SIZE: New? Roman?;> 愿意陪你一起度过风雨的伙伴,是你的贵人。很多人会在有难时离开你,但是当你有成就时,他们就想要和你一起领功。没分担,只要分享。这哪里可能<font face="Times new=" New? Roman?>?</font><font face="宋体">可以陪同你分担一切的苦,分享一切的乐,这是贵人。愿意陪同他人经过这过程的人,也是贵人。</font></span></p>
<p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt" class="p0"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: 9pt; FONT-SIZE: New? Roman?;><o:P></o:P></span> </p>
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<p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt" class="p0"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: 9pt; FONT-SIZE: bold; FONT-WEIGHT: New? Roman?;> <font face="Times new=" New? Roman?>4</font><font face="宋体">、教导及提拔你的人</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: 9pt; FONT-SIZE: New? Roman?;><o:P></o:P></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt" class="p0"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: 9pt; FONT-SIZE: New? Roman?;> 他看到你的好,同时也了解到你的不足之处,他能协助你,提拔你,他不嫌弃你,不是你的贵人,是什么<font face="Times new=" New? Roman?>?</font></span></p>
<p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt" class="p0"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: 9pt; FONT-SIZE: New? Roman?;><o:P></o:P></span> </p>
<p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt" class="p0"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: 9pt; FONT-SIZE: New? Roman?;><o:P></o:P></span></p>
<p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt" class="p0"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: 9pt; FONT-SIZE: bold; FONT-WEIGHT: New? Roman?;> <font face="Times new=" New? Roman?>5</font><font face="宋体">、愿意欣赏你的长处的人</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: 9pt; FONT-SIZE: New? Roman?;><o:P></o:P></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt" class="p0"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: 9pt; FONT-SIZE: New? Roman?;> 一个愿意发现你的长处、欣赏你的长处、接纳你的长处的人,肯定是你的贵人。有些上司虽然发现你的长处,但是他未必可以喜欢及欣赏它,更别说接受它<font face="Times new=" New? Roman?>!</font><font face="宋体">这关键在于他们往往会担心你会对他造成威胁,特别是当你的长处是他缺乏的。</font></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt" class="p0"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: 9pt; FONT-SIZE: New? Roman?;> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: 9pt; FONT-SIZE: bold; FONT-WEIGHT: New? Roman?;>6<font face="宋体">、愿成为你的榜样的人</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: 9pt; FONT-SIZE: New? Roman?;><o:P></o:P></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt" class="p0"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: 9pt; FONT-SIZE: New? Roman?;> 贵人言行一致,讲到就肯定做得到,他们往往不喜欢夸大,常会默默地做,做比讲来得多,这种贵人具有实力和谦虚的性格。</span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt" class="p0"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: 9pt; FONT-SIZE: New? Roman?;> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: 9pt; FONT-SIZE: bold; FONT-WEIGHT: New? Roman?;>7<font face="宋体">、愿意遵守承诺的人</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: 9pt; FONT-SIZE: New? Roman?;><o:P></o:P></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt" class="p0"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: 9pt; FONT-SIZE: New? Roman?;> 贵人都只同意自己愿意遵守的承诺,因为他们能够很清楚地知道自己的能力所在,自己能不能全力达到承诺的内容。我并不是说贵人不能改变自己的立场,他们当然可以,只不过每一个决定,都必须经过深思熟虑后才能采取行动。</span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt" class="p0"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: 9pt; FONT-SIZE: New? Roman?;> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: 9pt; FONT-SIZE: bold; FONT-WEIGHT: New? Roman?;>8<font face="宋体">、愿意不放弃而相信你的人</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: 9pt; FONT-SIZE: New? Roman?;><o:P></o:P></span></p>
<p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt" class="p0"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: 9pt; FONT-SIZE: New? Roman?;><o:P></o:P></span></p>
<p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt" class="p0"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: 9pt; FONT-SIZE: New? Roman?;> 如果你问自己是不是其他伙伴的贵人,那你是否有好好栽培对方和相信对方<font face="Times new=" New? Roman?>?</font><font face="宋体">贵人是不会放弃他的组员的,贵人会相信对方。贵人会视对方无罪,一直到对方被定罪为止,这代表贵人会完全相信他的伙伴,全力支持他。</font></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt" class="p0"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: 9pt; FONT-SIZE: bold; FONT-WEIGHT: New? Roman?;> <font face="Times new=" New? Roman?>9</font><font face="宋体">、愿意生你气的人</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: 9pt; FONT-SIZE: New? Roman?;><o:P></o:P></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt" class="p0"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: 9pt; FONT-SIZE: New? Roman?;> 如果他还愿意生你的气,你就得感激他。这是因为他还很在乎你。试想想,如果你完全不再爱对方,你会理会他吗<font face="Times new=" New? Roman?>?</font><font face="宋体">爱的相反并不是恨,而是冷漠。如果我们恨对方,这动作告诉我们其实自己还是很爱他,如果你对对方所做的一切,一点感觉也没有,这叫做冷漠,这才是完全不爱了。</font></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt" class="p0"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: 9pt; FONT-SIZE: New? Roman?;> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: 9pt; FONT-SIZE: bold; FONT-WEIGHT: New? Roman?;> <font face="Times new=" New? Roman?>10</font><font face="宋体">、愿意为你着想的人</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: 9pt; FONT-SIZE: New? Roman?;><o:P></o:P></span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt" class="p0"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: 9pt; FONT-SIZE: New? Roman?;> 如果他愿意为你,只因为你是你,那你肯定很幸福,因为他处处为你着想,他是你的贵人。</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times new=" ?yes?? mso-spacerun: 9pt; FONT-SIZE: New? Roman?;><o:P></o:P></span></p>
[此贴子已经被作者于2009-12-12 13:10:27编辑过] <p>学习了</p>
<p>1努力!!</p> 已拜读,谢谢您。 感触很深 讲得非常有道理!! 只能是其中的某一种或某几种,要是全啦,那就是“贵人中的贵人”。
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