hafid 发表于 2009-10-16 05:47:02

看论语学DISC性格修炼

<P class=MsoNormal style="BACKGROUND: white; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 16.5pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; tab-stops: 45.8pt 91.6pt 137.4pt 183.2pt 229.0pt 274.8pt 320.6pt 366.4pt 412.2pt 458.0pt 503.8pt 549.6pt 595.4pt 641.2pt 687.0pt 732.8pt" align=left><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">海峰按语：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="BACKGROUND: white; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 16.5pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; tab-stops: 45.8pt 91.6pt 137.4pt 183.2pt 229.0pt 274.8pt 320.6pt 366.4pt 412.2pt 458.0pt 503.8pt 549.6pt 595.4pt 641.2pt 687.0pt 732.8pt" align=left><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">DISC</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">是西方行为风格理论的一种，谈的是人的四种行为风格倾向。其中</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">D</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">代表支配，</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">I</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">是社交，</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">S</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">是稳健，</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">C</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">是谨慎。每个人都是</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">DISC</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">的组合。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="BACKGROUND: white; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 16.5pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; tab-stops: 45.8pt 91.6pt 137.4pt 183.2pt 229.0pt 274.8pt 320.6pt 366.4pt 412.2pt 458.0pt 503.8pt 549.6pt 595.4pt 641.2pt 687.0pt 732.8pt" align=left><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">论语是智慧之语，半部论语治天下。也是中国人的文化根脉之一。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="BACKGROUND: white; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 16.5pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; tab-stops: 45.8pt 91.6pt 137.4pt 183.2pt 229.0pt 274.8pt 320.6pt 366.4pt 412.2pt 458.0pt 503.8pt 549.6pt 595.4pt 641.2pt 687.0pt 732.8pt" align=left><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">一个人如果能生活的幸福，最好是有健全的性格。我们知道每个人都有自己的行为倾向（我们习惯说的性格），我们要发挥它的优势。而自己身上不明显的性格，我们希望即使不具有也可以有方法在自己身上发挥其优势。在这方面，论语的许多文字给了我们很好的启示和参考。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">【原文】<SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">子夏曰：“君子有三变：望之俨然，即之也温，听其言也厉。”</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a"><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">【译文】</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a; FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">&nbsp;<BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">子夏说：“君子有三变：远看他的样子庄严可怕，接近他又温和可亲，听他说话语言严厉不苟。”</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a; FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">&nbsp;<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a"><o:p><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">&nbsp;</SPAN></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">D</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">型高的人，外表就让人觉得威严有距离感，这有的时候是必要的，并且言语犀利落地有声。这是</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">D</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">特质自然散发的影响力。如果能修练到温和可亲那是非常的了不起。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">连战夫人据说用这句话评价过胡主席，可见其效用。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">I</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">高的人要特别修望之俨然，</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">S</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">高的人要特别修其言也厉，</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">C</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">高的人同样要留意即之也温。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a"><o:p><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">&nbsp;</SPAN></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a"><o:p><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">&nbsp;</SPAN></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">【原文】</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">孔子曰：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">益者三乐，损者三乐。乐节礼乐，乐道人之善，乐多贤友，益矣。乐骄乐，乐佚游，乐晏乐，损矣。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">”<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a"><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">【译文】</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a; FONT-FAMILY: Calibri"> </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">孔子说：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a; FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">有益的快乐有三种，有害的快乐也有三种。以节制礼乐为快乐，以宣扬别人的优点为快乐，以广交贤良的朋友为快乐，是有益的。以骄恣淫乐为快乐，以放荡无度为快乐，以宴玩荒淫为快乐，都是有害的。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a; FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">” <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a"><o:p><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">&nbsp;</SPAN></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">I</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">型高的人是乐天派，特别喜欢结交朋友，全天下只有两种人：朋友和没有见过面的朋友。可是同样是快乐，还是有害益之分。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">I</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">高的人要注意节制，远离浮在表面没有深度的感官刺激。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">D</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">高的人要修节礼乐不要认为规则就是用来被打破的，</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">S</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">高的人要修多贤友不要总是只做配合被动者，</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">C</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">高的人要修道人善要意识到人无完人。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a"><o:p><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">&nbsp;</SPAN></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">【原文】</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">孔子曰：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">君子有三戒：少之时，血气未定，戒之在色；及其壮也，血气方刚；及其老也，血气既衰，戒之在得。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">” <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a"><o:p><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">&nbsp;</SPAN></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">【译文】</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a; FONT-FAMILY: Calibri"> <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">孔子说：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a; FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">君子有三种事情应引以为戒：年少的时候，血气还不成熟，要戒除对女色的迷恋；等到身体成熟了，血气方刚，要戒除与人争斗；等到老年，血气已经衰弱了，要戒除贪得无厌。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a; FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">”<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a"><o:p><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">&nbsp;</SPAN></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">【原文】</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">子曰：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">君子有三畏：畏天命，畏大人，畏圣人之言。小人不知天命而不畏也，狎大人，侮圣人之言。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">”<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a"><o:p><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">&nbsp;</SPAN></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">【译文】</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">孔子说：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a; FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">君子有三种敬畏：敬畏天命，敬畏地位高、德行高的人，敬畏圣人的话。小人不懂得天命而下敬畏，轻佻地对待地位高、德行高的人，轻侮圣人的。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a; FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">”<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a"><o:p><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">&nbsp;</SPAN></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">S</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">型高的人平和从容。源于又戒有畏。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">D</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">高的人要戒斗，</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">I</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">高的人要戒色，</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">C</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">高的人要戒得。很多时候，无欲才刚。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">S</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">的畏也是向其它的性格学习。畏天命是学</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">D</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">的坚定信仰，畏大人是学</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">I</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">的推崇声誉，畏圣人之言是学</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">C</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">的追求整理。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a"><o:p><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">&nbsp;</SPAN></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">【原文】</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">子曰：“君子有九思：视思明，听思聪，色思温，貌思恭，言思忠，事思敬，疑思问，忿思难，见得思义。”</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: red"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a"><o:p><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">&nbsp;</SPAN></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">【译文】</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">孔子说：“君子有九种要注意的事项：看的时候要注意是否看清；听的时候要注意是否听清；自己的脸色要注意是否温和，容貌要注意是否谦恭；言谈的时要注意是否忠诚；办事时要注意是否谨慎严肃；遇到疑问要考虑是否应该向别人询问；忿怒时要考虑是否有后患，获取财利时要考虑是否合乎义的准则。”</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a"><o:p><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">&nbsp;</SPAN></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">C</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">型高的人拥有智慧并且关注细节。对别人的要求高，对自己的要求更高。孔子提出的如果都能做到，堪称完人，而即使做不到，我们也要让自己无限接近。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #2a2a2a"><o:p><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Calibri">&nbsp;</SPAN></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">观察要仔细才能了解清楚事物的全貌，认真听清楚才能正确了解对方的真实意思，态度温和才能获得对方的信任和好感，态度谦恭才能减少对方的敌意，态度诚恳才能有助于获得对方的认可，办事严谨才能让委托者放心，勤征求意见才能避免发生误会，克制愤怒才能避免产生恶劣后果，合理合法的财富得到后才能安心。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #002060"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>

鸽子 发表于 2009-10-16 11:19:06

<p>看来要学习的东西很多啊，重要的心态哦。</p>

幽狼 发表于 2009-11-17 10:04:14

支持！haifeng老师

唐沙 发表于 2009-11-17 15:49:58

<p>&nbsp;谢谢分享！</p>
<p>很精辟~ </p>
<p>收藏了&nbsp; 以后的路上&nbsp; 好好修炼~ </p>

天涯在线 发表于 2015-7-20 00:40:12

谢谢分享，传统文化当中的经典，还是很能指导我们工作的！
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