朴素的人生哲理
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: ">1</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">、庸人败于惰，能人败于傲</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: "> <SPAN lang=EN-US><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">世上两种人必定惨败，一种是懒惰之人，另一种是骄傲之人。前者什么事都想在“明日”再做，结果总是一事无成</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: ">;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">后者瞧不起天下所有人，自认为自己最聪明，常常招来他人的不满和怨恨，于是往往受人诋毁、咒骂，最后被恶意的诽谤所吞没。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: "> <SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: ">2</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">、不必一味讨好别人</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: "> <SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></B></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">讨好每一个人是不可能的，也是没有必要的。讨好每一个人，等于得罪每一个人。刻意去讨好别人，只会使别人产生厌恶。亲近别人要自然，“投机”心态要改变。有时间讨好，不如踏踏实实做事，讨好别人总是靠不住，自己努力才实实在在。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: ">3</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">、好心境是自己创造的</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: "> <SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></B></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">我们常常无法去改变别人的看法，能改变的恰恰只有我们自己。坏的生活不在于别人的罪恶，而在于我们的心情变得恶劣。让生活变好的金钥匙不在别人手里，放弃我们的怨恨和叹息，美好生活就垂手可得。我们主观上本想好好生活，可是客观上却没有好的生活，其原因是总想等待别人来改善生活。不要指望改变别人</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: ">,</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">自己做生活的主人。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: "> <SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: ">4</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">、用心做自己该做的事</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: "> <SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></B></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">人生是如此的短暂</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: ">,</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">哪有心思去浪费呢</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: ">?</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">有智慧的哲人曾经说过</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: ">:</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">“大街上有人骂我，我是连头也不回的，根本不想知道这个无聊之人</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: ">!</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">”我们既不要去伤害人家，也不要被别人的批评左右，还是按照自己的愿望，先踏踏实实学好本领再说。特别在少年时要全力以赴学本领，不要分心。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: "> <SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: ">5</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">、极端不可取</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: "> <SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></B></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">些人常常因为忧虑过度，而导致自己精神失常</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: ">;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">有些人却因为麻木不仁，造成自己对任何事情都无动于衷。前者常为寻找理性而痛苦，因聪明过头而衰亡，愚蠢的根源在于什么都懊悔。后者不知悔恨为何物，整天稀里糊涂地生活，活着与死去没有什么区别。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: ">6</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">、每个人都有自己的活法</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></B></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">自己的伤痛自己清楚</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: ">, </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">自己的哀怨自己明白</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: ">, </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">自己的快乐自己感受。也许自己眼中的地狱，却是别人眼中的在堂</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: ">;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">也许自己眼中的天堂，却是别人眼中的地狱。生活就是这般的滑稽。不要总疑春色在人家，关键在于自己心态的调整。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: "> <SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: ">7</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">、喜欢自己才会拥抱生活</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: "> <SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></B></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">盲目自大自尊，是骄傲无知的人生，一味自暴自弃，是消极悲观的人生。了解自己比了解别人更困难，喜欢自己比喜欢别人更不容易。拥有健康的恰当的自尊心理，面对挫折会表现得格外坚强。不为外界的诱惑而丢失自我，不为一时的挫折否定自己。时时客观冷静地评价自己，每每乐观中肯地赞赏自己。若连自己都不爱，还能爱别人吗</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: ">?</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">喜欢自己吧！</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: ">8</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">、福中有祸，祸中有福</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: "> <SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></B></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">莫被一时之得失冲昏头脑，一味陶醉于暂时的胜利。自己一定要居安思危，切莫居功自傲，洋洋得意。陶醉胜利，意味着驻足停顿，陶醉胜利，意味着失去警惕。人生路上要永不松懈，胜利仅仅是一个小小的路标。要想取得最后的胜利，只要努力，努力，再努力。莫为一时之得所迷惑，谁笑得最晚，谁笑得最开心。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: "> <SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: ">9</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">、重要的是活得充实</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: "> <SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></B></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">把每一天过好是最大的幸福，快乐源于每天的感觉良好。总忧虑明天的风险，总抹不去昨天的阴影，今天的生活怎能如意</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: ">?</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">总攀比那些不可攀比的，总幻想那些不能实现的，今天的心灵怎能安静</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: ">?</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">任何不切实际的东西，都是痛苦之源，生命的最大杀手是忧愁和焦虑。痛苦源于不充实，生活充实就不会胡思乱想。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: "> <SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: ">10</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">、别人的恩泽要牢记</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: "> <SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></B></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">目光短浅的人总是“忘恩负义”，危机时到处求助，事成之后再不露面。求人时信誓旦旦，得逞后胡作非为。这种人最被人鄙视。“忘恩负义”让朋友伤心，“忘恩负义”是急功近利的表现。“忘恩负义”只得益于一时，却会永远失信于人。切忌过河拆桥过河拆桥，会断了自己的后路。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: "> <SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: ">11</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">、凡事要留有余地</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: "> <SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></B></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">每一个人都会在自己的生命旅程中，遭遇到完全不同的“三种人”。第一种是能够理解、欣赏和器重自己的人</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: ">;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">第二种是曲解、中伤甚至排斥自己的人</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: ">;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">第三种人是与自己毫无关系、无关痛痒的人。第一种人对自己有知遇之恩，应当尊为师友，滴水之恩当涌泉相报。第二种人对自己造成深深的伤害，需要智慧地远离，而不是烦恼和计较。对于第三种人要以礼相待、和平共处。了解不同的人，区别对待，物以类聚，人以群分。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: ">12</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">、己所不欲勿施于人</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: "> <SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></B></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">把自己的主观意志强加于人，于己于人均是件痛苦的事情。以自己的威严强加自己的意志，别人只是口服而心不服，而且日久必生反抗之习。以自己的固执强加自己的意志，别人仅是默忍或是隐怒，但是日久也可能反目成仇。检讨自己的言行是否与社会和谐，才能真正得到别人的认同。人与人是不可能一致的，不要以我为中心。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: "> <SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: ">13</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">、得意不忘形，失意不失态</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: "> <SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></B></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">身处顺境必须格外谨慎，否则容易乐极生悲。人生得意的时候容易忘形，一忘形就不知道自己姓什么，于是恶念和恶行就会趁隙而入。身处逆境必须格外忍耐，否则容易早早夭折。人生失意的时候容易失态，一失态就不知道自己的未来，于是消极和绝望就会趁隙而入。笑看人生潮起潮落，守住自己的心。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: "> <SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: ">14</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">、人生应当欢乐有度</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: "> <SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></B></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">适当的娱乐活动能调节情绪，无休无止的欢乐却易转益为害。物极则反，数穷则变。“大凡快意处，即是多病处。”“棋可遣闲，易动心火。…”一味狂欢尽兴是肤浅的人生，换来的往往是痛苦的悔恨。尽兴有度是达观的人生。乐极生悲不局限于娱乐方面，涉及到人生的方方面面。欢乐与悲哀是伴生的，欢乐有度会使欢乐常伴。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: "> <SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: ">15</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">、一味忍让不可取</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: "> <SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></B></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">一味忍让，意味着丧失原则</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: ">;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">一味忍让，意味着没有人格</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: ">;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">一味忍让，意味着软弱可欺</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: ">;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">一味忍让，意味着面临步步进逼的危险</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: ">;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">一味忍让，意味着将走入绝路。有时候挺身而起、奋力反抗效果更好，得寸进尺是愚人常采用的计策，一再忍让反而助长其嚣张气焰。该出手时就出手，给点厉害也是不得已而为之</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: ">! <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">对得寸进尺者该迎头痛击，忍让不一定是好事。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: "> <SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: ">16</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">、多理性行事</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: "> </SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">少意气用事</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: "> <SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></B></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">做事不能只凭自己的感情，做事更不能只凭自己的感觉，意气用事必有麻烦。有时自己的知觉是错的，事情并不是想象的这般简单，表象总是容易迷惑人心。理性做事不至于反复折腾，理性做事不会出现大的差错，理性做事才不会使自己后悔莫及。切记</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: ">:</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">凡事都不能太冲动</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: ">!</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">不能只跟着感觉走，多思考才能不后悔。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> 都是一些很实在的道理，往往一些简单的哲理却很难的去注意，学习了。 朴素的人生哲理，谁能按此执行，谁就是强者。 <p>很实在</p> 有道理！
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