[转帖]现实很残酷：一根绳子上的三种人生
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<P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">但是现实生活中这个故事的结局是什么</SPAN></B><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">：第一个、第二个人死了，第三个人最终爬了上去。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><O:P></O:P></SPAN></SPAN></P>
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<P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: red; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">如何去权衡，其实我也不知道……</SPAN></P> <p>嗯，正在寻找平衡点的同道中人。</p> 很有启示~ <p>其实很简单，不要考虑极端环境，只考虑人生原则，按照正确的人生原则（伦理道德）修炼自己，个人和社会都会很美好。至于在极端情况下发生的事情，就看瞬间的把持。不过，那已无所谓了。在整个人生过程中是美好的就行。所以，对“范跑跑”要从道德上鞭笞，从实际中给与原谅。关键是他平时做的如何？</p>
<p>所以不用思考，先培养爱心，再培训实际处事权变之道才是对的。</p>
<p>事之功，在德之基。</p>
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