张勤老师的《妙用性格》的孩子教育
<DIV><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt"> 女儿出生一百多天了，俺对自己不是很了解，但是涉及对女儿的教育，俺还是要了解一下女儿的性格与自己的性格，希望之后欢声笑语常伴左右。</SPAN></DIV><DIV><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt"> </SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt"> 《圣经》对小孩子的教育也做了很好说明，如下</SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt"> 1.要按照一个儿童应该走的道路去养育她，这样当她长大成人时，才不会偏离他的本性。</SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt"> 2.你对孩子的养育方式，使她适应孩子天生的发展模式，当她逐渐成熟时，就不会背离她天</SPAN></DIV>
<DIV><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt"> 生的生命</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt">模式</SPAN></DIV>
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<DIV> 原来《圣经》也有这么经典的话语与对人的深刻理解的智慧。下面张勤老师给出了不同孩子的养育措施，如下面</DIV>
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<DIV class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 18.0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; mso-fareast-font-family: ''"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: ; mso-list: Ignore">1、<SPAN style="FONT: 10pt ''"> </SPAN></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">给她一定职责空间</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 18.0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; mso-fareast-font-family: ''"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: ; mso-list: Ignore">2、<SPAN style="FONT: 10pt ''"> </SPAN></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">一定要建立规则、原则、规矩，并严格执行</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 18.0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; mso-fareast-font-family: ''"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: ; mso-list: Ignore">3、<SPAN style="FONT: 10pt ''"> </SPAN></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">大人要学会依靠孩子</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: ">(</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">让她从骨子里感觉是顶天立地的</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: ">)<o:p></o:p></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 18.0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; mso-fareast-font-family: ''"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: ; mso-list: Ignore">4、<SPAN style="FONT: 10pt ''"> </SPAN></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">给他们一定得情绪空间（这种性格脾气有些差）</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></DIV></TD></TR>
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<DIV class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list 18.0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; mso-fareast-font-family: ''"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: ; mso-list: Ignore">1、<SPAN style="FONT: 10pt ''"> </SPAN></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">要经常描述她的长处</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: ">(</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">她最需要的表扬</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: ">)<o:p></o:p></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list 18.0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; mso-fareast-font-family: ''"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: ; mso-list: Ignore">2、<SPAN style="FONT: 10pt ''"> </SPAN></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">她是感受型的性格，要经常抚摸她的头，手等</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list 18.0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; mso-fareast-font-family: ''"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: ; mso-list: Ignore">3、<SPAN style="FONT: 10pt ''"> </SPAN></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">在整齐划一上不要要求太多（因为她不擅长这方面）</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></DIV></TD></TR>
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<DIV class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo3; tab-stops: list 18.0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; mso-fareast-font-family: ''"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: ; mso-list: Ignore">1、<SPAN style="FONT: 10pt ''"> </SPAN></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">做父母的要粗线条一些，她细你粗。（她最关注细节）</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo3; tab-stops: list 18.0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; mso-fareast-font-family: ''"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: ; mso-list: Ignore">2、<SPAN style="FONT: 10pt ''"> </SPAN></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">千万不可以用高声、愤怒的语调与她对抗</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo3; tab-stops: list 18.0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; mso-fareast-font-family: ''"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: ; mso-list: Ignore">3、<SPAN style="FONT: 10pt ''"> </SPAN></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">依然要表扬，温和式表扬</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: ">(</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">一定要表扬到他的细节部分</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: ">)<o:p></o:p></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo3; tab-stops: list 18.0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; mso-fareast-font-family: ''"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: ; mso-list: Ignore">4、<SPAN style="FONT: 10pt ''"> </SPAN></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">引导孩子自己做表达。（每天找个固定的休息时间，让她自己随意讲自己的心里的话。）</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo3; tab-stops: list 18.0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; mso-fareast-font-family: ''"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: ; mso-list: Ignore">5、<SPAN style="FONT: 10pt ''"> </SPAN></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">不要催她做决定</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: ">(</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">这种性格的人是个完美主义者，要考虑很多东西，要想清楚、想完美了，她才做决定</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: ">)<o:p></o:p></SPAN></DIV></TD></TR>
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<DIV class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; mso-list: l3 level1 lfo4; tab-stops: list 18.0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; mso-fareast-font-family: ''"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: ; mso-list: Ignore">1、<SPAN style="FONT: 10pt ''"> </SPAN></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">给这种孩子下达指令，不能太快，更不可以下达几个指令，最好一次一个</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; mso-list: l3 level1 lfo4; tab-stops: list 18.0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; mso-fareast-font-family: ''"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: ; mso-list: Ignore">2、<SPAN style="FONT: 10pt ''"> </SPAN></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">手把手地教她做事情（这种性格动手能力差或不敢动手）</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; mso-list: l3 level1 lfo4; tab-stops: list 18.0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; mso-fareast-font-family: ''"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: ; mso-list: Ignore">3、<SPAN style="FONT: 10pt ''"> </SPAN></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">经常鼓励他表达自己的想法</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></DIV>
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<DIV class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; mso-list: l3 level1 lfo4; tab-stops: list 18.0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; mso-fareast-font-family: ''"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: ; mso-list: Ignore">5、<SPAN style="FONT: 10pt ''"> </SPAN></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">对这种性格的孩子不能说她磨蹭</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: ">(</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">可以说：你可以快一点，这次你就比上次快些等等表扬类话来促进她快点</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: ">)<o:p></o:p></SPAN></DIV>
<DIV class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; mso-list: l3 level1 lfo4; tab-stops: list 18.0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; mso-fareast-font-family: ''"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: ; mso-list: Ignore">6、<SPAN style="FONT: 10pt ''"> </SPAN></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">要尊重这种性格的低调</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></DIV>
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<P> 当然这些也可以用到日常人际沟通中，对红色性格的领导，你要更多地让他感受到他对你的控制。呵呵。</P>
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