hdsdyx 发表于 2008-12-1 21:35:55

二2,3 天堂何在与平淡之惑

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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN-LEFT: 199.5pt; TEXT-INDENT: -55.5pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 199.5pt"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">第二节 天堂何在</SPAN></B></P>
<P style="TEXT-INDENT: 27.75pt; mso-char-indent-count: 1.96"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">何为天堂?天堂何在?</SPAN></P>
<P style="TEXT-INDENT: 27.75pt; mso-char-indent-count: 1.96"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">曾经听过这样一个故事:一个人历经艰险去寻找天堂,终于找到了。当他欣喜若狂地站在天堂门口欢呼<SPAN lang=EN-US XML:LANG="EN-US">“</SPAN>我来到天堂了时<SPAN lang=EN-US XML:LANG="EN-US">”</SPAN>,看守天堂大门的人诧然问之:<SPAN lang=EN-US XML:LANG="EN-US">“</SPAN>这里就是天堂<SPAN lang=EN-US XML:LANG="EN-US">”</SPAN>?欢呼者顿时傻了:<SPAN lang=EN-US XML:LANG="EN-US">“</SPAN>你难道不知道这是天堂?<SPAN lang=EN-US XML:LANG="EN-US">”</SPAN></SPAN></P>
<P style="TEXT-INDENT: 27.75pt; mso-char-indent-count: 1.96"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">守门人茫然摇头:<SPAN lang=EN-US XML:LANG="EN-US">“</SPAN>你从哪里来<SPAN lang=EN-US XML:LANG="EN-US">”</SPAN>?</SPAN></P>
<P><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt" XML:LANG="EN-US">&nbsp;<WBR>&nbsp;<WBR>&nbsp;<WBR>“</SPAN> <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">地狱<SPAN lang=EN-US XML:LANG="EN-US">”</SPAN>。</SPAN></P>
<P><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt" XML:LANG="EN-US">&nbsp;<WBR>&nbsp;<WBR>&nbsp;<WBR>&nbsp;<WBR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">守门人仍是茫然。欢呼者仍是惊讶:<SPAN lang=EN-US XML:LANG="EN-US">“</SPAN>怪不得你不知道天堂何在,原来你没去过地狱<SPAN lang=EN-US XML:LANG="EN-US">”</SPAN>!</SPAN></P>
<P><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt" XML:LANG="EN-US"><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;<WBR>&nbsp;<WBR>&nbsp;<WBR></SPAN></SPAN> <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">在现实生活中,我们周围到处都是生在乐中不知乐的人,因为他们用的是“和”,而不是“或”,不知天堂何在。</SPAN></P>
<P><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt" XML:LANG="EN-US">&nbsp;<WBR>&nbsp;<WBR>&nbsp;<WBR>&nbsp;<WBR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">你若渴了,喝上一杯水便是快乐,不要等待满汉全席;你若累了,小憩一会便是快乐,不要等待旅游休假;你若失业了,重新工作便是快乐,不要等待腰缠万贯;你若面临死亡,活着便是快乐,不要等待来生轮回<SPAN lang=EN-US XML:LANG="EN-US">----</SPAN>总之,这些快乐都在平凡的生活中,你要用心来感受,用“或”而不是“和”<SPAN lang=EN-US XML:LANG="EN-US">,</SPAN>去感受快乐的每一刻。</SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt" XML:LANG="EN-US">&nbsp;<WBR></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="TEXT-INDENT: 28.5pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt" XML:LANG="EN-US"><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;<WBR>&nbsp;<WBR>&nbsp;<WBR>&nbsp;<WBR>&nbsp;<WBR>&nbsp;<WBR>&nbsp;<WBR>&nbsp;<WBR></SPAN></SPAN></P></DIV>
<P><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA" XML:LANG="EN-US"><BR style="PAGE-BREAK-BEFORE: always; mso-break-type: section-break" clear=all></SPAN>&nbsp;</P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="TEXT-INDENT: 28.5pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt" XML:LANG="EN-US"><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;<WBR>&nbsp;<WBR>&nbsp;<WBR></SPAN> <SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;<WBR>&nbsp;<WBR>&nbsp;<WBR>&nbsp;<WBR>&nbsp;<WBR>&nbsp;<WBR>&nbsp;<WBR>&nbsp;<WBR>&nbsp;<WBR></SPAN></SPAN><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt" XML:LANG="EN-US"><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;<WBR></SPAN></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">第三节</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt" XML:LANG="EN-US"><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;<WBR></SPAN></SPAN></B> <B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">平淡与平庸</SPAN></B></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="TEXT-INDENT: 28.5pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">人可以平淡但不能平庸</SPAN> <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">。</SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="TEXT-INDENT: 28.5pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">有人说我喜欢平淡,所以没有什么追求。其实这不是平淡,而是平庸。在为自己的平庸找借口,酸葡萄效应而已,也就是吃不着葡萄就说葡萄是酸的。他们会说那些有成就的人是酸的,那些成功者往往良心大大的坏了,你看二奶和三奶都打起来了,他们维维豆(斗)奶,我欢乐开怀。还是我的“平淡”好,我这样是甜的,我的这个“平淡”才是人生,酸酸甜甜就是我。</SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="TEXT-INDENT: 28.5pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">我要分享的是:平淡≠平庸。</SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="TEXT-INDENT: 28.5pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">平淡是境界,宏观的看问题,格局决定结局,所以圣人都是海纳百川的,但是他们服务和影响更多的人</SPAN> <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">;平庸是态度</SPAN> <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">,微观的看世界,所以常为无为找合理的理由,平庸的人常常是以自我为主的,影响和限制的就是自我,无法超越</SPAN> <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">。</SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="TEXT-INDENT: 28.5pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">所以平淡与平庸的区别是看:</SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="TEXT-INDENT: 98.3pt; mso-char-indent-count: 7.02"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">是超越自我</SPAN> <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">还是限制自我</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt" XML:LANG="EN-US"><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;<WBR></SPAN></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="TEXT-INDENT: 98.3pt; mso-char-indent-count: 7.02"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">是为自己还是为更多的人</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt" XML:LANG="EN-US"><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;<WBR></SPAN></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="TEXT-INDENT: 98.3pt; mso-char-indent-count: 7.02"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">是宏观还是微观的</SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="TEXT-INDENT: 28.5pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">明白了这个道理,你就知道自己的世界是怎么样的了。脚踏实地,</SPAN> <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">心怀高远。</SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="TEXT-INDENT: 28.5pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">所以,请从现在开始,用“或”代替“和”吧,快乐是要知足常乐的。</SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="TEXT-INDENT: 28.5pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">你是在等待“和“的结果出现吗,那时才快乐?还是很小的“或”就能够知足?</SPAN></P>
<DIV><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">&nbsp;<WBR>&nbsp;<WBR>&nbsp;<WBR> 这就是快乐密码之一:或和密码。大道至简,而人们往往因为简<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">单忽略了这些最本质的东西。张瑞敏说什么叫做不简单?能够把简单的事情天天做好,就是不简单;什么叫做不容易?大家公认的、非常容易的事情。非常认真地做好它,就是不容易。</SPAN></SPAN></DIV>
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<DIV><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">或和密码,只要你去做,乐网恢恢,疏而不漏。</SPAN></DIV>
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