一1 或和密码
<DIV class=articleContent id=articleBody><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN-LEFT: 91.8pt; TEXT-INDENT: -72pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 91.8pt"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体" XML:LANG="EN-US"><SPAN style="mso-list: Ignore">第一章<SPAN style="FONT: 7pt ''"> <WBR> <WBR></SPAN></SPAN></SPAN></B> <B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">快乐密码</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt" XML:LANG="EN-US">1</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">—或和密码</SPAN></B></P>
<P class=MsoNormal><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt" XML:LANG="EN-US"><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> <WBR> <WBR> <WBR> <WBR> <WBR> <WBR> <WBR> <WBR> <WBR> <WBR> <WBR> <WBR> <WBR> <WBR> <WBR> <WBR> <WBR></SPAN></SPAN> <B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">第一节</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt" XML:LANG="EN-US"><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> <WBR></SPAN></SPAN></B> <B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">或与和的选择</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt" XML:LANG="EN-US"><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> <WBR> <WBR></SPAN></SPAN></B></P>
<P class=MsoNormal><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt" XML:LANG="EN-US"><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> <WBR> <WBR> <WBR></SPAN></SPAN> <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">大千世界，芸芸众生，人有很多种性格，千差万别。关于性格的分类也有很多种，比如</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt" XML:LANG="EN-US">NLP</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">的视觉型，听觉型，感觉型；比如</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt" XML:LANG="EN-US">DISC</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">完美型，力量型，活泼型，和平型的分类；比如古老的的九型人格</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt" XML:LANG="EN-US">……</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">（见书后附录）</SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="TEXT-INDENT: 27.45pt; mso-char-indent-count: 1.96"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">得抑郁症的人完美型的占大多数，追求完美的人往往会等到“和”时才快乐，而真正快乐的人会用“或”。这就是快乐的第一个密码</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt" XML:LANG="EN-US">-</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">或和密码，不是和稀泥，搅和的意思。</SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="TEXT-INDENT: 27.45pt; mso-char-indent-count: 1.96"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">举例，比如健康，一般人会说我要每餐吃的有营养</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt" XML:LANG="EN-US">+</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">健身肌肉</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt" XML:LANG="EN-US">+</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">百分之五比例的脂肪</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt" XML:LANG="EN-US">+</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">高兴的事</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt" XML:LANG="EN-US">……</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">他们用的都是“和”，而快乐的人会说，我要健康，但现在我喝了一杯牛奶，那有益健康，就很快乐。所有快乐的人的公式是：吃的一顿饭有营养，或今天健身了，或脂肪今天有减少了，离目标又近了，或今天有件很小的事很开心。。。</SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="TEXT-INDENT: 20.6pt; mso-char-indent-count: 1.47; tab-stops: 63.9pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">和：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt" XML:LANG="EN-US">5%</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">的脂肪</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt" XML:LANG="EN-US">+</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">高兴的事</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt" XML:LANG="EN-US">+</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">有营养</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt" XML:LANG="EN-US">+</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">健身肌肉</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt" XML:LANG="EN-US">+……=</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">健康快乐</SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="tab-stops: 63.9pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">或：喝一杯牛奶</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt" XML:LANG="EN-US">=</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">健康快乐</SPAN> <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">高兴的事</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt" XML:LANG="EN-US">=</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">健康快乐</SPAN> <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">健一次身</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt" XML:LANG="EN-US">=</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">健康快乐</SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt" XML:LANG="EN-US"><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> <WBR> <WBR></SPAN> <SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> <WBR></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">看似很简单的或和，却能改变你的状态。</SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt" XML:LANG="EN-US"><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> <WBR> <WBR></SPAN> <SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> <WBR></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">有人会问：老师，如果我要健康，只是喝一杯牛奶就感觉健康了，快乐了，是不是要求太低了？俺可是个有追求有理想的人，不想糊弄自己。</SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt" XML:LANG="EN-US"><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> <WBR> <WBR></SPAN> <SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> <WBR></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">这让我想起了有人在课程中问我另外的一个问题</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt" XML:LANG="EN-US">:</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">“佛道教讲的是无欲则刚和无为，而成功学讲我一定要，老师我信谁啊</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt" XML:LANG="EN-US">?</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">”我说：听过毛主席的一句话吗</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt" XML:LANG="EN-US">-</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">战略上要藐视敌人；战术上要重视敌人。所以，战略上要荣辱不惊闲看庭前花开花落，去留无意漫随天外云卷云舒。具体战术上，要有我一定要的决心</SPAN> <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">。知胜而与之战，淡泊名利而后求之。做人要知足，做事不知足，做学问知不足。知足不满足，做人知足才能常乐</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt" XML:LANG="EN-US">;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">做事不满足才能奋进。</SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="TEXT-INDENT: 28.5pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">让我们飞的更高些，把星星当作目标；让我们走得更远些，把天空当做终点。梦想的翅膀尽可以高飞，坚韧的双脚一定要落地。</SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="TEXT-INDENT: 28.5pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">志在高远，重在眼前。</SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="TEXT-INDENT: 28.5pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">所以，从现在起，善用或和密码，看看你否会常乐，常乐和心态有关，常乐和常喝可乐无关。</SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="TEXT-INDENT: 28.5pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''">南无可口可乐。</SPAN></P></DIV>
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