咏恩 发表于 2008-11-25 16:20:25

[转帖]请避免这26个经常犯的错误~

<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><font face="">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">以下</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">26</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">条错误是我们经常会犯的,如果你认为这些都是一些小缺点的话,那就错了。因为这些缺点的混合速度是非常快的!你愿意和平常就显示出其中三种缺点的人交往吗?这些缺点会使人对你的智慧和能力产生怀疑,任何想要培养个人魅力的人,都应远离这些缺点。</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">
                        </font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">    </span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">1</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">、不注意自己说话的语气,经常以不悦而且对立的语气说话。</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">
                        </font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">    </span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">2</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">、应该保持沉默的时候偏偏爱说话。</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">
                        </font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">    </span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">3</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">、打断别人的话。</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">
                        </font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">    </span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">4</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">、滥用人称代词。</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">
                        </font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">    </span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">5</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">、以傲慢的态度提出问题,给人一种只有他最重要的印象。</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">
                        </font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">    </span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">6</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">、在谈话中插入一些和自己有亲密关系,但却会使别人感到不好意思的话题。</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">
                        </font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">    </span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">7</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">、不请自来。</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">
                        </font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">    </span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">8</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">、自吹自擂。</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">
                        </font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">    </span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">9</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">、嘲笑社会上的穿着规范。</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">
                        </font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">    </span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">10</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">、在不适当时刻打电话。</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">
                        </font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">    </span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">11</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">、在电话中谈一些别人不想听的无聊话。</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">
                        </font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">    </span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">12</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">、对不熟悉的人写一封内容过分亲密的信。</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">
                        </font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">    </span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">13</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">、不管自己了不了解,而任意对任何事情发表意见。</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">
                        </font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';"> </span><span lang="EN-US"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><font face="">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';"> &nbsp; </span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">14</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">、公然质问他人意见的可靠性。</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">
                        </font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">    </span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">15</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">、以傲慢的态度拒绝他人的要求。</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">
                        </font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">    </span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">16</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">、在别人的朋友面前说一些瞧不起他的话。</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">
                        </font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">    </span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">17</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">、指责和自己意见不同的人。</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">
                        </font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">    </span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">18</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">、评论别人的无能力。</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">
                        </font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">    </span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">19</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">、当着他人的面,指正部属和同事的错误。</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">
                        </font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">    </span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">20</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">、请求别人帮忙被拒绝后心生抱怨。</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">
                        </font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">    </span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">21</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">、利用友谊请求帮助。</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">
                        </font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">    </span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">22</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">、措词不当或具有攻击性。</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">
                        </font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">    </span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">23</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">、当场表示不喜欢。</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">
                        </font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">    </span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">24</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">、老是想着不幸或痛苦的事情。</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">
                        </font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">    </span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">25</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">、对政治或宗教发出抱怨。</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">
                        </font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">    </span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="">26</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">、表现过于亲密的行为。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';"></span>&nbsp;</p>

wolfwork 发表于 2008-11-27 11:31:11

<p>具体问题具体分析,也不能一概而论吧!!!</p>

kesine 发表于 2008-11-27 12:04:47

能找到一些自己需要注意的地方
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