先螺猫 发表于 2008-11-1 09:33:20

[原创]内部客户最难伺候

<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 17.95pt; mso-char-indent-count: 1.71;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">客户是广义的甚至是虚拟的概念,就我的职位而言,直线经理,组内同事,公司内所有同事是我的客户,我没有外部客户。应对外部客户时你的感觉是给公司打工,有</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">FIGURE</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">压着的职位做起来更像是给自己打工,比如销售。应对内部客户听起来容易,但是恰恰是最难的,因为你大不了可以放弃一个外部客户,但你不可能永远不搭理你的同事</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">---</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">内部客户们,为同事们服务的感觉使我感觉我是在伺候人,而不是在工作,尤其过去所在的团队给我的感觉是尤其地自私自利,欺软怕硬,如果你帮她忙,她们会认为我是该她欠她的,而且我这个助理的职位要为所有的人单方面的服务,所有的人都有权利指责我,这种感觉十分不好。是我辞职一个很重要的原因。做过助理会发现,越是内部的客户越容易翻脸,距离越远的客户对你越客气。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 17.95pt; mso-char-indent-count: 1.71;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">不得不提及助理</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">/</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">秘书这一角色的地位,其实也是有可能做到位高权重的。但是我没能做到,首先是我的能力不足,我确实没有那种让经理委以重任的能力;其次我的性格不适合,我是不愿意狐假虎威,甚至欺上瞒下的,也不会俯首帖耳或者机关算尽地提高自己;最后就是我的机遇了,我的经理谁都不信任,她这个中年未婚女性的性格特征多少是有别于大多人的,她几乎怀疑一切包括我,而且我伤心的一点就是,她从来没有从我的角度想过问题,名义上身为她的个人助理,为了方便组内她人做某种数据报告,她让我做最基层的数据统计整理工作;为了方便让某</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">TEAM</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">看到更清晰的数据,她让我把大家手写的记录誊写到</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">EXCEL</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">表中;为了方便让某组将文件柜整理一下,她让我亲手把一个旧柜子修理一下;为了陪她的客人,我要花工作时间陪其溜达;为了所谓的流程优化,她让我承担原来每个人每天</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">5</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">分钟而集中到我这里就要每天占据我一个小时的纯登记的工作;为了安抚某同事告状说我旅游组织的不好,她在全体大会上批评我旅游组织的不好。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 17.95pt; mso-char-indent-count: 1.71;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">如此种种,数不胜数,其他同事看到经理把打杂的,不重要的,琐碎的,别人不愿意做的事情给我做,她们自然而然地知道我的低等的地位。自然而然地,当经理让我吩咐大家做事情的时候,同事们的拖拖拉拉,不合作也就是很自然的事情,但是经理只会批评我能力不强,</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">FOLLOW</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">得不紧,从来不会问一问是谁为什么总是不配合。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 17.95pt; mso-char-indent-count: 1.71;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">要提及的是,我们公司确实给每个小组甚至</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">3</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">人</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">5</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">人的小组都设了一个专门打杂的职位,叫做</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">TEAM ASSISTANT</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">,一般学历不高,基本能力符合且比较漂亮的女孩子占据着</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">TA</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">这个职位,她们虽然不满意地位,薪水在公司内最低,甚至不是正式员工的这种处境,但是都觉得</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">XYZ</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">公司不错,大多都在等待机会或者酝酿跳槽的时机。但是我不同,我的心态调不了那么低,名牌大学硕士毕业毁约</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">TYQ</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">同样世界</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">500</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">强</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">BUYER</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">的职位来这里做所谓的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">“</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">总经理助理</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">”</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">,我是怎么调整心态都不甘心这么打杂下去的,有时候我真想大胆问一下经理,为什么我是被当作您的高级私人助理招来的,但是现在却拿我当低级团队助理来用。于是矛盾就越来越深,最激化是在一次谈话中</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 17.95pt; mso-char-indent-count: 1.71;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">BOSS</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">:</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">……</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">你接手业务也有一段时间,我觉得还是不行,你做事情没有把握住要点,有些该会的事情还是不懂</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 17.95pt; mso-char-indent-count: 1.71;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">ASSISTANT</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">:经理,我一身兼三职,很难做得哪样都好</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 17.95pt; mso-char-indent-count: 1.71;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">BOSS</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">:(惊讶)哪三职?</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 17.95pt; mso-char-indent-count: 1.71;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">ASSISTANT</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">:您的私人助理,商务,还有咱们组的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">TEAM ASSISTANT</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">。我的时间是有限的,而且做助理经常要花很多时间做很多琐碎杂乱的事情。其实有很多时间看起来很简单,但是很占时间的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">……<p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 17.95pt; mso-char-indent-count: 1.71;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">BOSS</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">:其他人也建议我招个</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">TEAM ASSISTANT</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">,但是我觉得没必要,我不喜欢招个人让大家吆五喝六的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 17.95pt; mso-char-indent-count: 1.71;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">ASSISTANT</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">:(伤心,那我就配让大家吆五喝六的),经理但是我确实很努力了,我手里的业务比其他商务要简单些,有些事情我接触不到,理解得不深,请您能够理解。还有,我认为我没有其他人的学习环境好,咱们商务部每个</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">TEAM</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">来人,您都让</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">LEADER</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">给设定一个详细的培训及学习计划,唯独我没有,我现在所会的都是自己摸索理解的,没有像其他新人那样受过系统的培训,再者,我坐在您门口这个位置,听大家说工作的机会很少,而且问问题也不方便</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 17.95pt; mso-char-indent-count: 1.71;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">BOSS</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">:怎么不方便呢,你可以打电话,或者是亲自去问呢</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 17.95pt; mso-char-indent-count: 1.71;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">ASSISTANT</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">:经理,其实很多信息都是从非正式渠道得来的,比如从其他同事对某件事情的谈论中,我就能了解来龙去脉,并且知道怎么处理,但是我没有这个机会,比如我和商务</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">CONTROLLING</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">做一样的工作,其他人大家坐得那么近,对于有些任务,老同事把关键点和难点都口头说了,大家就都能把握住做这件事情的要点,但是对于我来说,我做事情却只能依靠长篇大论的英文</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">EMAIL</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">,有时候不是不愿意去问,而是压根自己不知道自己哪里不会,有时候打电话,老同事忙线,有时候去座位,人家又去上厕所了,而事情又不能等不能拖,我只能按照自己的方式去做,难免没有大家做得好,请您多理解一下</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">……<p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 17.95pt; mso-char-indent-count: 1.71;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">BOSS</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">:讲求客观原因是没有出息的表现,我觉得她们也不怎么讨论啊</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 17.95pt; mso-char-indent-count: 1.71;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">ASSISTANT</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">:经理,人的精力和时间毕竟是有限的,您认为我同时做助理还要做</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">CONTROLLING</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">工作,要和专业做</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">CONTROLLING</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">一样好是吗?</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 17.95pt; mso-char-indent-count: 1.71;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">BOSS</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">:是的啊,再说我觉得你做助理也没花多少时间</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 17.95pt; mso-char-indent-count: 1.71;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">ASSISTANT</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">:(彻底无言,伤心</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">ing</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">)</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial;"><p></p></span></p>
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