[原创]感受《追寻生命的意义》
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: red; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">人所拥有的任何东西，都可以被剥夺，惟独人性最后的自由，——也就是在任何境遇中选择一己态度和生活方式的自由——不能被剥夺。（奥）</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: red; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma;">维克多</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: red; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: "Tahoma","sans-serif";">.E.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: red; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma;">弗兰克尔</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: red; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><h2 style="MARGIN: 13pt 0cm;"><span style="COLOR: #c00000; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: major-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: major-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: major-latin;">背景</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: #c00000;"><p></p></span></h2><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #31849b; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-themecolor: accent5; mso-themeshade: 191;">床板上挤得只能侧身睡觉，偷偷摸摸地用污秽的、发臭的鞋作为枕头。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #31849b; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; mso-themecolor: accent5; mso-themeshade: 191;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #31849b; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-themecolor: accent5; mso-themeshade: 191;">为了让自己看上去很精神，用玻璃刮脸。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #31849b; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; mso-themecolor: accent5; mso-themeshade: 191;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #31849b; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-themecolor: accent5; mso-themeshade: 191;">冬天洗完澡，赤裸站立在操场上。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #31849b; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; mso-themecolor: accent5; mso-themeshade: 191;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #31849b; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-themecolor: accent5; mso-themeshade: 191;">粪水溅到脸上不能擦洗，不能露出嫌恶的表情。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #31849b; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; mso-themecolor: accent5; mso-themeshade: 191;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #31849b; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-themecolor: accent5; mso-themeshade: 191;">……</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #31849b; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; mso-themecolor: accent5; mso-themeshade: 191;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma;">这些都是纳粹集中营中每天都发生的事情，也是《追寻生命的意义》的作者维克多</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: "Tahoma","sans-serif";">.E.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma;">弗兰克尔在三年的囚徒生涯中，每天经历的事情。在这样的生存条件下：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: "Tahoma","sans-serif";"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #31849b; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-themecolor: accent5; mso-themeshade: 191;">为什么有的人能够生存下来？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #31849b; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; mso-themecolor: accent5; mso-themeshade: 191;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #31849b; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-themecolor: accent5; mso-themeshade: 191;">为什么有的人能够把维系自己生命的面包给别人？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #31849b; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; mso-themecolor: accent5; mso-themeshade: 191;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #31849b; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-themecolor: accent5; mso-themeshade: 191;">为什么有的人虽然有强壮的躯体却趟在自己的排泄物中慢慢地等待死亡？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #31849b; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; mso-themecolor: accent5; mso-themeshade: 191;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #31849b; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-themecolor: accent5; mso-themeshade: 191;">……</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #31849b; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; mso-themecolor: accent5; mso-themeshade: 191;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma;">太多的为什么，促使我看了三遍《追寻生命的意义》。现在写一些体会和大家一起探讨。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: "Tahoma","sans-serif";"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><h2 style="MARGIN: 13pt 0cm;"><span style="COLOR: #c00000; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: major-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: major-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: major-latin;">快乐和意义</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: #c00000;"><p></p></span></h2><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt;">我们所有人都在追求快乐，但是快乐不是说快乐就会快乐，我们需要快乐的理由。每天对着相机喊“茄子”那不是快乐。生命的意义就是在寻找快乐的理由，有了这个理由自然而然就会快乐。如果没有这个“理由”，就像集中营中失去意义的囚徒，早晨五点，拒绝起床干活，留在窝棚里，躺在沾满着自己粪便的草垫上。大约</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt;">48</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt;">小时候，看着他慢慢死去。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-size: 9.0pt;">西方文化主张快乐，鄙视痛苦。事实上有的痛苦并不应该被鄙视。比如有人为了搭救亲人，献出自己的器官。虽然这是一个痛苦的过程，但是捐献者<span style="COLOR: red;">乐意</span>去这样做。捐献者在痛苦中感受到生命的意义。这样的痛苦不应该受到鄙视。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-bidi-font-size: 9.0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-size: 9.0pt;">人主要关心的并不在于获得快乐或避免痛苦，而是要了解生命中的意义。这就是为什么人在某些情况下，宁愿受苦，只要他确定自己的苦难具有意义即可。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-bidi-font-size: 9.0pt;"><font face="Calibri"><br/> <span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></font></span></p><p></p><p><img src="attachments/dvbbs/2008-8/20088289461211820.jpg" border="0" onclick="zoom(this)" onload="if(this.width>document.body.clientWidth*0.5) {this.resized=true;this.width=document.body.clientWidth*0.5;this.style.cursor='pointer';} else {this.onclick=null}" alt="" /></p> <h2 style="MARGIN: 13pt 0cm;"><span style="COLOR: #c00000; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: major-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: major-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: major-latin;">意义是什么？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: #c00000;"><p></p></span></h2><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma;">我们无时无刻不在接受生命的追问，完成生命不断安排给自己的使命。这个使命就是我们自己生命的意义。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: "Tahoma","sans-serif";"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">对于不同的人，生命的意义是不同的；同一个人在不同地点和时间意义也是不同的，所以我们的生命就在于寻求每时每刻的意义。<span style="COLOR: red;">意义的根本在于人与人之间的责任和爱。</span></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: red; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma;">对意义的寻求是人的基本需要，是人的原始力量。当这种需要找不到明确的指向时，人就会感到精神空虚，弗兰克尔称之为“存在的空虚”，这种情形普遍地存在于当今西方的“富裕社会”。当这种需要有明确的指向却不可能实现时，人就会有受挫之感，弗兰克尔称之谓“存在的挫折”。这种情形发生在人生的各种逆境或困境中。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: "Tahoma","sans-serif";"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma;">“存在的空虚”：当一个人失去明确的指向后，人就会迷茫、空虚。很容易堕落，追寻生理的快感，性欲猖獗泛滥，所谓</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">饱暖思淫欲。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: "Tahoma","sans-serif";"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma;">“存在的挫折”：当一个人明确的指向不能实现时，人就会有很大的挫败感，于是自我怀疑，自我否定。也很容易堕落。很多人年轻时有一个远大的报复，到后来就一点点，一点点变小，最后什么都没有实现。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">无论是“存在的空虚”还是“存在的挫折”，一个明确的意义致为重要。为“存在的空虚”指明方向，为“存在的挫折”明确痛苦的意义。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><p></p></span></p><h2 style="MARGIN: 13pt 0cm;"><span style="COLOR: #c00000; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: major-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: major-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: major-latin;">什么是有意义的事</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: #c00000;"><p></p></span></h2><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">人获得意义的三条大道</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt;"><p></p></span></p><h3 style="MARGIN: 13pt 0cm;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><font size="5">第一条：</font></span></h3><p class="MsoListParagraph" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; TEXT-INDENT: 0cm; mso-char-indent-count: 0;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ;">通过创造一件作品或做一件实事。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ;"><p></p></span></p><h3 style="MARGIN: 13pt 0cm;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><font size="5">第二条：</font></span></h3><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ;">通过经历某些事或遇到某些人，换言之，意义不仅可以在工作中发现而且可以在爱中发现。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #404040; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: "Tahoma","sans-serif";"></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoListParagraph" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: 0cm; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-char-indent-count: 0;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: red; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ;">爱是进入另一个人最深人格核心的唯一方法。没有一个人能完全了解另一个</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: red; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: red; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ;">人的本质精髓，除非爱他。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ;">这句话说出了知彼解己、双赢、客户意识、共情感等概念的本质。也让我懂得<span style="COLOR: red;">幸福的前提是能为他人着想</span>，这样才会理解别人的付出，才会懂得珍惜这种付出。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: red; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ;"><p></p></span></p><p></p> <h3 style="MARGIN: 13pt 0cm;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><font size="5">第三条：</font></span></h3><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma;">甚至某一绝望场合的无助受难者，在面对他不能改变的命运时，也可能超越他自我，超越式地成长，由此来改变自己。注意这里说的是超越自我，而不是自我实现或自我表现。因为生命的意义是针对自己的，并不是别人来评价的，而自我实现或自我表现都是外界来评价自己。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: "Tahoma","sans-serif";"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma;">人的苦难：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: "Tahoma","sans-serif";"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoListParagraph" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 36pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-char-indent-count: 0; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">1、<span style="FONT: 7pt "";"> </span></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma;">痛苦</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: "Tahoma","sans-serif";"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoListParagraph" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 36pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-char-indent-count: 0; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">2、<span style="FONT: 7pt "";"> </span></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma;">内疚</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: "Tahoma","sans-serif";"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoListParagraph" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 36pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-char-indent-count: 0; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">3、<span style="FONT: 7pt "";"> </span></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma;">死亡。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: "Tahoma","sans-serif";"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 35.4pt; TEXT-INDENT: -35.4pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-char-indent-count: -2.94;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #00b050; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma;">痛苦：</span></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #00b050; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: "Tahoma","sans-serif";"><p></p></span></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 14.3pt; TEXT-INDENT: 6.7pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma;">痛苦是快速理解人生意义的一种手段。经历痛苦后可以让自己无可畏惧。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">陀</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">斯妥耶夫斯基曾说：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: red; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><font face="Calibri">“</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: red; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">我只害怕一件事：我怕我配不上自己所受的痛苦。</span><font face="Calibri"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: red; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;">”</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: "Tahoma","sans-serif";"><p></p></span></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 35.4pt; TEXT-INDENT: -35.4pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-char-indent-count: -2.94;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #00b050; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma;">内疚：</span></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #00b050; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: "Tahoma","sans-serif";"><p></p></span></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma;">让自己变得更好的机会。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: "Tahoma","sans-serif";"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 35.4pt; TEXT-INDENT: -35.4pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-char-indent-count: -2.94;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #00b050; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma;">死亡：</span></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #00b050; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: "Tahoma","sans-serif";"><p></p></span></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma;">如果生命是无限的，那么任何事情都有反悔的机会。正因为生命是有限的，所以每个人每时每刻都要过得有意义。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: "Tahoma","sans-serif";"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: "Tahoma","sans-serif";"><p> </p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma;">我们有选择心灵自由的权利，对于苦难，我们只有选择悲剧的乐观主义。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: "Tahoma","sans-serif";"><p></p></span></p><h2 style="MARGIN: 13pt 0cm;"><span style="COLOR: #c00000; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: major-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: major-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: major-latin;">如何生活得有意义</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: #c00000;"><p></p></span></h2><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">了解意义的方法：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><font face="Calibri">1</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">、假设现在你已经</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><font face="Calibri">80</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">岁了，回顾自己的一生，你期望是怎么样的？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><font face="Calibri">2</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">、假如你现在有</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><font face="Calibri">10</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">亿，你还会做现在手上的事情吗？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><font face="Calibri">3</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">、</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma;">如果你已经死了一回，你现在还会像今天一样过吗？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><font face="Calibri">4</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">、迷茫的时候问问自己“为什么不自杀？”</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><p><font face="Calibri"> </font></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">注意事项：</span></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><p></p></span></b></p><p class="MsoListParagraph" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-char-indent-count: 0; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">1、<span style="FONT: 7pt "";">
</span></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma;">不知道做什么的时候，千万不要随便做一件事情，停下来好好想想：现在做</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">什么事情对自己是有意义的？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: "Tahoma","sans-serif";"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoListParagraph" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-char-indent-count: 0; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">2、<span style="FONT: 7pt "";">
</span></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma;">如果一定要做一件事情，那么就为这件事寻找一个意义。</span></p> <h2 style="MARGIN: 13pt 0cm;"><span style="COLOR: #c00000; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: major-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: major-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: major-latin;">总结</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: #c00000;"><p></p></span></h2><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">追寻生命的意义，意味着为我们找到持续快乐的理由。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">追寻生命的意义，意味着只要我们懂得为什么活着，就能承受如何活的任何问题。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">追寻生命的意义，意味着每时每刻我们心理都是<span style="COLOR: red;">乐意</span>做手上的事情，即使是在承受痛苦。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">追寻生命的意义，意味着</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ;">每时每刻都明确意识到自己能做什么。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma;">每天清清楚楚地活着。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: "Tahoma","sans-serif";"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: "Tahoma","sans-serif";"><p> </p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ;">过得有意义的评判标准：<span style="COLOR: #c00000;">自己觉得每天过得有意义。不断在超越自己。</span></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%;"><p><font face="Calibri"> </font></p></span></p><h2 style="MARGIN: 13pt 0cm;"><span style="COLOR: #c00000; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: major-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: major-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: major-latin;">附录</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: #c00000;"><p></p></span></h2><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ;">《追寻生命的意义》电子书下载地址：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><a href="http://www.21manager.com/dispbbs.asp?n=151,156026,0,0,0,0,0,0"><span style="mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ;"><font face="Calibri">http://www.21manager.com/dispbbs.asp?n=151,156026,0,0,0,0,0,0</font></span></a></span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-hansi-font-family: ˎ;"><p></p></span></p> 非常感谢楼主的推荐，已经看过此书，有醍醐灌顶之感<br/>有生以来，能够给我如此震撼的书只有3本：《聪明的谈话》、《定位》和这本《活出意义来》<br/> <p>已下载，正打算看，谢谢楼主的分享。</p> <p>已经下载，正在看……</p> 总结的很精辟，应该是这本书的精髓吧。带着这些领悟，再去读这本书，相信大家会有更多的悟道，谢谢分享 <span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 12pt; font-family: SimSun;">谢谢楼主﹗</span> <p>还没有看完,但已被震撼</p>