人生致命的八个经典问题
<p><span class="ArticleTitleText">人生致命的八个经典问题，越看越经典</span></p><p><span>问题一</span><span lang="EN-US">, <br/></span><span> 如果你家附近有一家餐厅</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>东西又贵又难吃</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>桌上还爬着蟑螂</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>你会因为它很近很方便</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>就一而再、再而三地光临吗？</span><span lang="EN-US"><br/></span><span> 回答：你一定会说</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>这是什么烂问题</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>谁那么笨</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>花钱买罪受？</span><span>
</span></p><p><span lang="EN-US"> </span></p><p><span> 可同样的情况换个场合</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>自己或许就做类似的蠢事。</span><span lang="EN-US">
<br/></span><span> 不少男女都曾经抱怨过他们的情人或配偶品性不端</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>三心二意</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>不负责任。明知在一起没什么好的结果</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>怨恨已经比爱还多</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>但却</span><span lang="EN-US">“</span><span>不知道为什么</span><span lang="EN-US">”</span><span>还是要和他搅和下去</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>分不了手。说穿了</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>只是为了不甘</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>为了习惯</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>这不也和光临餐厅一样？</span><span>
</span></p><p><span lang="EN-US"> </span></p><p><span lang="EN-US">――</span><span>做人</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>为什么要过于执著？！</span><span>
</span></p><p><span lang="EN-US"> </span></p><p><span>问题二</span><span lang="EN-US">, <br/></span><span> 如果你不小心丢掉</span><span lang="EN-US">100</span><span>块钱</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>只知道它好像丢在某个你走过的地方</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>你会花</span><span lang="EN-US">200</span><span>块钱的车费去把那</span><span lang="EN-US">100</span><span>块找回来吗？</span><span lang="EN-US">
<br/></span><span> 回答：一个超级愚蠢的问题。</span><span>
</span></p><p><span lang="EN-US"> </span></p><p><span> 可是</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>相似的事情却在人生中不断发生。做错了一件事</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>明知自己有问题</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>却</span><span lang="EN-US">*</span><span>也不肯认错</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>反而花加倍的时间来找藉口</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>让别人对自己的印象大打折扣。被人骂了一句话</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>却花了无数时间难过</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>道理相同。为一件事情发火</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>不惜损人不利已</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>不惜血本</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>不惜时间</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>只为报复</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>不也一样无聊？失去一个人的感情</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>明知一切已无法挽回</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>却还是那么伤心</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>而且一伤心就是好几年</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>还要借酒浇愁</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>形销骨立。其实这样一点用也没有</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>只是损失更多。</span><span>
</span></p><p><span lang="EN-US"> </span></p><p><span lang="EN-US">――</span><span>做人</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>干吗为难自己？！</span><span>
</span></p><p><span lang="EN-US"> </span></p><p><span>问题三</span><span lang="EN-US">, <br/></span><span> 你会因为打开报纸发现每天都有车祸</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>就不敢出门吗？</span><span lang="EN-US">
<br/></span><span> 回答：这是个什么烂问题？当然不会</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>那叫因噎废食。</span><span>
</span></p><p><span lang="EN-US"> </span></p><p><span> 然而</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>有不少人却曾说：现在的离婚率那么高</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>让我都不敢谈恋爱了。说得还挺理所当然。也有不少女人看到有关的诸多报道</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>就对自己的另一半忧心忡忡</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>这不也是类似的反应？所谓乐观</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>就是得相信：虽然道路多艰险</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>我还是那个会平安过马路的人</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>只要我小心点</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>不必害怕过马路。</span><span>
</span></p><p><span lang="EN-US"> </span></p><p><span lang="EN-US">――</span><span>做人</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>先要相信自己。</span><span>
</span></p><p><span lang="EN-US"> </span></p><p><span>问题四</span><span lang="EN-US">, <br/></span><span> 你相信每个人随便都可以成功立业吗？</span><span lang="EN-US">
<br/></span><span> 回答：当然不会相信。</span><span lang="EN-US">
<br/></span><span> 但据观察</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>有人总是在听完成功人士绞尽脑汁的建议</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>比如说</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>多读书</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>多练习之后</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>问了另一个问题？那不是很难？</span><span lang="EN-US">
<br/></span><span> 我们都想在</span><span lang="EN-US">3</span><span>分钟内学好英文</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>在</span><span lang="EN-US">5</span><span>分钟内解决所有难题</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>难道成功是那么容易的吗？改变当然是难的。成功只因不怕困难</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>所以才能出类拔萃。</span><span lang="EN-US">
<br/></span><span> 有一次坐在出租车上</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>听见司机看到自己前后都是高档车</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>兀自感叹：</span><span lang="EN-US">“</span><span>唉</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>为什么别人那么有钱</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>我的钱这么难赚？</span><span lang="EN-US">”</span><span>我心血来潮</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>问他：</span><span lang="EN-US">“</span><span>你认为世上有什么钱是好赚的？</span><span lang="EN-US">”</span><span>他答不出来</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>过了半晌才说：好像都是别人的钱比较好赚。</span><span lang="EN-US">
<br/></span><span> 其实任何一个成功者都是艰辛取得。我们实在不该抱怨命运。</span><span>
</span></p><p><span lang="EN-US"> </span></p><p><span lang="EN-US">――</span><span>做人</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>依靠自己！</span><span>
</span></p><p><span lang="EN-US"> </span></p><p><span>问题五</span><span lang="EN-US">, <br/></span><span> 你认为完全没有打过篮球的人</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>可以当很好的篮球教练吗？</span><span lang="EN-US">
<br/></span><span> 回答：当然不可能</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>外行不可能领导内行。</span><span>
</span></p><p><span lang="EN-US"> </span></p><p><span> 可是</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>有许多人</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>对某个行业完全不了解</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>只听到那个行业好</span><span lang="EN-US">**,</span><span>就马上开起业来了。我看过对穿着没有任何口味、或根本不在乎穿着的人</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>梦想却是开间服装店；不知道电脑怎么开机的人</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>却想在网上</span><span lang="EN-US">**,</span><span>结果道听途说</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>却不反省自己是否专业能力不足</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>只抱怨时不我与。</span><span>
</span></p><p><span lang="EN-US"> </span></p><p><span lang="EN-US">――</span><span>做人</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>量力而行。</span><span>
</span></p><p><span lang="EN-US"> </span></p><p><span>问题六</span><span lang="EN-US">, <br/></span><span> 相似但不相同的问题：你是否认为</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>篮球教练不上篮球场</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>闭着眼睛也可以主导一场完美的胜利？回答：有病啊</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>当然是不可能的。</span><span lang="EN-US">
<br/></span><span> 可是却有不少朋友</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>自己没有时间打理</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>却拼命投资去开咖啡馆</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>开餐厅</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>开自己根本不懂的公司</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>火烧屁股一样急着把辛苦积攒的积蓄花掉</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>去当一个稀里糊涂的投资人。亏的总是比赚的多</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>却觉得自己是因为运气不好</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>而不是想法出了问题。</span><span>
</span></p><p><span lang="EN-US"> </span></p><p><span lang="EN-US">――</span><span>做人</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>记得反省自己。</span><span>
</span></p><p><span lang="EN-US"> </span></p><p><span>问题七</span><span lang="EN-US">, <br/></span><span> 你宁可永远后悔</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>也不愿意试一试自己能否转败为胜？</span><span lang="EN-US">
<br/></span><span> 解答：恐怕没有人会说：</span><span lang="EN-US">“</span><span>对</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>我就是这样的孬种</span><span lang="EN-US">”</span><span>吧。</span><span lang="EN-US">
<br/></span><span> 然而</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>我们却常常在不该打退堂鼓时拼命打退堂鼓</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>为了恐惧失败而不敢尝试成功。以关颖珊赢得</span><span lang="EN-US">2000</span><span>年世界花样滑冰冠军时的精彩表现为例：她一心想赢得第一名</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>然而在最后一场比赛前</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>她的总积分只排名第三位</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>在最后的自选曲项目上</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>她选择了突破</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>而不是少出错。在</span><span lang="EN-US">4</span><span>分钟的长曲中</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>结合了最高难度的三周跳</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>并且还大胆地连跳了两次。她也可能会败得很难看</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>但是她毕竟成功了。</span><span lang="EN-US">
<br/></span><span> 她说：</span><span lang="EN-US">“</span><span>因为我不想等到失败</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>才后悔自己还有潜力没发挥。</span><span lang="EN-US">” <br/></span><span> 一个中国伟人曾说；胜利的希望和有利情况的恢复</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>往往产生于再坚持一下的努力之中。</span><span>
</span></p><p><span lang="EN-US"> </span></p><p><span lang="EN-US">――</span><span>做人</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>何妨放手一搏。</span><span>
</span></p><p><span lang="EN-US"> </span></p><p><span>问题八</span><span lang="EN-US">, <br/></span><span> 你的时间无限</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>长生不老</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>所以最想做的事</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>应该无限延期？</span><span lang="EN-US">
<br/></span><span> 回答：不</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>傻瓜才会这样认为。</span><span>
</span></p><p><span lang="EN-US"> </span></p><p><span> 然而我们却常说</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>等我老了</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>要去环游世界；等我退休</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>就要去做想做的事情；等孩子长大了</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>我就可以</span><span lang="EN-US">…… </span><span>我们都以为自己有无限的时间与精力。其实我们可以一步一步实现理想</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>不必在等待中徒耗生命。如果现在就能一步一步努力接近</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>我们就不会活了半生</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>却出现自己最不想看到的结局。</span><span>
</span></p><p><span lang="EN-US"> </span></p><p><span lang="EN-US">――</span><span>做人</span><span lang="EN-US">,</span><span>要活在当下。</span></p>
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