today688 发表于 2007-11-15 17:19:13

立戒十二 深恶痛绝 誓做强者

<p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">立戒十二</span></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt;"><font face="">
                                </font></span></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">深恶痛绝</span></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt;"><font face="">
                                </font></span></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">誓做强者</span></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt;"><p></p></span></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 21.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face="">一.<span style="FONT: 7pt &quot;&quot;;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></font></span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">焦躁:</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">容易焦躁,在面对复杂或者不如意的事情的时候缺乏很好的接受心态,有逃避的想法,甚至迁怒别人;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 21.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face="">二.<span style="FONT: 7pt &quot;&quot;;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></font></span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">拖延:</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">潜意识里希望把事情做好,希望有个好的开始、过程和结果,但实际上总是停留在猜测的阶段,不敢马上行动或者提不起状态马上行动。在事情因为拖延而变得糟糕的时候,开始焦虑和逃避;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 21.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face="">三.<span style="FONT: 7pt &quot;&quot;;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></font></span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">懦弱:</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">害怕强势,害怕受伤(特别是无法愈合的伤),所以在面对强势的时候表现出懦弱。但心底里有复仇的冲动,希望能通过非公明正大的方法报复;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 21.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face="">四.<span style="FONT: 7pt &quot;&quot;;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></font></span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">懒惰:</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">羡慕别人在运动和勤奋的状态,但自己确比较难勤奋起来,以致于逐步变得更加懒惰;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 21.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face="">五.<span style="FONT: 7pt &quot;&quot;;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></font></span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">心态不稳定</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">心态好的时候表现非常出色,但是心态不好的时候毛病也比较多,以致体现出比较多的两面性;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 21.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face="">六.<span style="FONT: 7pt &quot;&quot;;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></font></span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">沉溺网络</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">网络是个工具,在网络和电脑上的优势应该用来解决问题,提高效率,但是,偏偏这变成了坏的习惯,大量的时间和精力浪费在网络上,对身体也造成了很坏的影响!</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 21.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face="">七.<span style="FONT: 7pt &quot;&quot;;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></font></span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">吸烟</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">非常坏的习惯,严重影响自己的形象,严重损害自己的身体,经常搞坏自己的心态,口气昏浊,感觉痛苦。所以誓要戒掉并深恶痛绝!</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 21.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face="">八.<span style="FONT: 7pt &quot;&quot;;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></font></span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">晚上不愿意睡,早晨不愿意起,作息不规律</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">身体状态不是很好,精力不够充沛,但是总是晚上不愿意睡觉,想干点别的,早上又不愿意起床,经常在起床的时候感觉十分痛苦,影响白天和精神状态,影响身体,影响心态!</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 21.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face="">九.<span style="FONT: 7pt &quot;&quot;;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></font></span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">暴食</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">深知饭吃七分饱最好,但是每次总是不能节制,造成体性变差,身体变差,口气混浊,精神不好,并影响自信;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 21.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face="">十.<span style="FONT: 7pt &quot;&quot;;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></font></span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">抱怨、找借口</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">其实上天对自己非常好了,自己也非常幸运了,自己没有办法克服困难却总是抱怨,总是找借口,以致让人小看,没有威望,丧失自信!</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 21.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face="">十一.<span style="FONT: 7pt &quot;&quot;;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></font></span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">没有勇气和魄力</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">心中有好的想法却不敢去实施,或者害怕失败而谨小慎微,不敢前行。想把事情做好却没有勇气去面对困难和挫折,害怕未知的事物;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">想树立自信却不敢管别人,害怕被人顶撞,害怕被人拒绝,以致威望殆失,管理松散,害怕重来,恶性循环;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 21.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face="">十二.<span style="FONT: 7pt &quot;&quot;;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></font></span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">好为人师,穷于表现</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">生怕被人看扁,以致不懂装懂,强词夺理,虚构乱造,反而降低说服力,自毁形象,让人觉得不愿靠近,“敬而远之”。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">缺点不是本性!它不是与人共存的,现在因为种种原因被它牵制,但是在发现它的那一刻起,它注定被我抛弃!强者,是与生俱来的强者,拥有无数的优点和优良的品质,这些缺点必将消失!</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"><p></p></span></p>

出家在路上 发表于 2007-11-20 18:03:15

<p>t天啊</p><p>怎么这些毛病我都有啊?<br/></p><p>竟然一个不漏?</p>
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