得不到和已失去
<DIV style="WORD-BREAK: break-all" align=center><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312"><SPAN style="COLOR: #0000ff"><STRONG><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: #800080">得不到和已失去</SPAN></STRONG></SPAN></SPAN></DIV><DIV style="WORD-BREAK: break-all"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312"><SPAN style="COLOR: #0000ff"></SPAN></SPAN> </DIV>
<DIV style="WORD-BREAK: break-all"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312"><SPAN style="COLOR: #0000ff">这不是一个神话故事，而是为了使你领悟一个道理</SPAN> <SPAN lang=EN-US><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></DIV>
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<P style="WORD-BREAK: break-all"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: #333399; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312">从前，有一座圆音寺，每天都有许多人上香拜佛，香火很旺。在圆音寺庙前的横梁上有个蜘蛛结了张网，由于每天都受到香火和虔诚的祭拜的熏托，蛛蛛便有了佛性。经过了一千多年的修炼，蛛蛛佛性增加了不少。<SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></P>
<P style="WORD-BREAK: break-all"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: #333399; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312">忽然有一天，佛祖光临了圆音寺，看见这里香火甚旺，十分高兴。离开寺庙的时候，不轻易间地抬头，看见了横梁上的蛛蛛。佛祖停下来，问这只蜘蛛：<SPAN lang=EN-US>“你我相见总算是有缘，我来问你个问题，看你修炼了这一千多年来，有什么真知灼见。怎么样？”<o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></P>
<P style="WORD-BREAK: break-all"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: #333399; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312">蜘蛛遇见佛祖很是高兴，连忙答应了。佛祖问到：<SPAN lang=EN-US>“世间什么才是最珍贵的？”蜘蛛想了想，回答到：“世间最珍贵的是‘得不到’和‘已失去’。”<o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></P>
<P style="WORD-BREAK: break-all"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: #333399; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312">佛祖点了点头，离开了。 <SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></P>
<P style="WORD-BREAK: break-all"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: #333399; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312">就这样又过了一千年的光景，蜘蛛依旧在圆音寺的横梁上修炼，它的佛性大增。一日，佛祖又来到寺前，对蜘蛛说道：<SPAN lang=EN-US>“你可还好，一千年前的那个问题，你可有什么更深的认识吗？”<o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></P>
<P style="WORD-BREAK: break-all"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: #333399; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312">蜘蛛说：<SPAN lang=EN-US>“我觉得世间最珍贵的是‘得不到’和‘已失去’。 <o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></P>
<P style="WORD-BREAK: break-all"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: #333399; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312">”佛祖说：“你再好好想想，我会再来找你的。” <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P style="WORD-BREAK: break-all"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: #333399; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312">又过了一千年，有一天，刮起了大风，风将一滴甘露吹到了蜘蛛网上。蜘蛛望着甘露，见它晶莹透亮，很漂亮，顿生喜爱之意。蜘蛛每天看着甘露很开心，它觉得这是三千年来最开心的几天。突然，又刮起了一阵大风，将甘露吹走了。蜘蛛一下子觉得失去了什么，感到很寂寞和难过。这时佛祖又来了，问蜘蛛：<SPAN lang=EN-US>“蜘蛛这一千年，你可好好想过这个问题：世间什么才是最珍贵的？”<o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></P>
<P style="WORD-BREAK: break-all"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: #333399; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312">蜘蛛想到了甘露，对佛祖说：<SPAN lang=EN-US>“世间最珍贵的是‘得不到’和‘已失去’。”佛祖说：“好，既然你有这样的认识，我让你到人间走一朝吧。” <o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></P>
<P style="WORD-BREAK: break-all"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: #333399; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312">就这样，蜘蛛投胎到了一个官宦家庭，成了一个富家小姐，父母为她取了个名字叫蛛儿。一晃，蛛儿到了十六岁了，已经成了个婀娜多姿的少女，长的十分漂亮，楚楚动人。<SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></P>
<P style="WORD-BREAK: break-all"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: #333399; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312">这一日，新科状元郎甘鹿中士，皇帝决定在后花园为他举行庆功宴席。来了许多妙龄少女，包括蛛儿，还有皇帝的小公主长风公主。状元郎在席间表演诗词歌赋，大献才艺，在场的少女无一不被他折倒。但蛛儿一点也不紧张和吃醋，因为她知道，这是佛祖赐予她的姻缘。<SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></P>
<P style="WORD-BREAK: break-all"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: #333399; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312">过了些日子，说来很巧，蛛儿陪同母亲上香拜佛的时候，正好甘鹿也陪同母亲而来。上完香拜过佛，二位长者在一边说上了话。蛛儿和甘鹿便来到走廊上聊天，蛛儿很开心，终于可以和喜欢的人在一起了，但是甘鹿并没有表现出对她的喜爱。蛛儿对甘鹿说：<SPAN lang=EN-US>“你难道不曾记得十六年前，圆音寺的蜘蛛网上的事情了吗？”甘鹿很诧异，说：“蛛儿姑娘，你漂亮，也很讨人喜欢，但你想象力未免丰富了一点吧。”说罢，和母亲离开了。<o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></P>
<P style="WORD-BREAK: break-all"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: #333399; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312">蛛儿回到家，心想，佛祖既然安排了这场姻缘，为何不让他记得那件事，甘鹿为何对我没有一点的感觉？ <SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></P>
<P style="WORD-BREAK: break-all"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: #333399; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312">几天后，皇帝下召，命新科状元甘鹿和长风公主完婚；蛛儿和太子芝草完婚。这一消息对蛛儿如同晴空霹雳，她怎么也想不同，佛祖竟然这样对她。几日来，她不吃不喝，穷究急思，灵魂就将出壳，生命危在旦夕。太子芝草知道了，急忙赶来，扑倒在床边，对奄奄一息的蛛儿说道：<SPAN lang=EN-US>“那日，在后花园众姑娘中，我对你一见钟情，我苦求父皇，他才答应。如果你死了，那么我也就不活了。”说着就拿起了宝剑准备自刎。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></P>
<P style="WORD-BREAK: break-all"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: #333399; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312">就在这时，佛祖来了，他对快要出壳的蛛儿灵魂说：<SPAN lang=EN-US>“蜘蛛，你可曾想过，甘露（甘鹿）是由谁带到你这里来的呢？是风（长风公主）带来的，最后也是风将它带走的。甘鹿是属于长风公主的，他对你不过是生命中的一段插曲。而太子芝草是当年圆音寺门前的一棵小草，他看了你三千年，爱慕了你三千年，但你却从没有低下头看过它。蜘蛛，我再来问你，世间什么才是最珍贵的？”蜘蛛听了这些真相之后，好象一下子大彻大悟了，她对佛祖说：“世间最珍贵的不是‘得不到’和‘已失去’，而是现在能把握的幸福。”</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></P>
<P style="WORD-BREAK: break-all"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: #333399; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312">刚说完，佛祖就离开了，蛛儿的灵魂也回位了，睁开眼睛，看到正要自刎的太子芝草，她马上打落宝剑，和太子深深的抱着<SPAN lang=EN-US>…… <o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></P>
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<P><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #000080; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">故事结束了，你能领会蛛儿最后一刻的所说的话吗？</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">世间最珍贵的不是</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">‘</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">得不到</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">’</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">和</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">‘</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">已失去</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">’</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">，而是现在能把握的幸福。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">”</SPAN></SPAN></P> <p><font color="#000080"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;"><font face="楷体_GB2312">“</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">世间最珍贵的不是</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;"><font face="楷体_GB2312">‘</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">得不到</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;"><font face="楷体_GB2312">’</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">和</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;"><font face="楷体_GB2312">‘</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">已失去</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;"><font face="楷体_GB2312">’</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''; mso-bidi-font-family: ''; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">，而是现在能把握的幸福。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;"><font face="楷体_GB2312">”</font></span></font></p><p><font color="#000080"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;"><strong>把握好自己的幸福吧！</strong></span></font></p> <p> 看过林清玄的《快乐活在当下》，很是震撼。</p><p> 很多人都明白这个道理，但是真正能做到的太少。</p><p> 在绝大数人眼里，风景永远在别处。</p><p></p> <p>精辟，事实也是如此。得不到和已失去的确实没什么可珍惜和挽留的，只有眼前的东西是可以把握的。有时候未免感觉有点阿Q精神，但是，在生活中，多一点阿Q精神，不会这么累</p><p></p> <p>人总是等到失去时才懂得珍惜....</p> 恩，珍惜，但当两者之间都是你所想要的，又有着不可调和的矛盾的时候应当如何处理呢 <p>真正做到时，..却又是那么不容易.</p> 是的，好故事！！ <p>嗯要尽力珍惜现在的生活，幸福来之不易</p> 把握现在的幸福!