项王遗风 发表于 2007-8-25 16:43:32

大人物天生不凡的人格特质

<p><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;"><font face="楷体_GB2312"><font size="3"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">&nbsp;</span>看看大人物天生不凡的人格特质,你具备吗?<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></font></font></span></p><p><font size="3"><font face="仿宋_GB2312"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; mso-fareast-font-family: 隶书;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">
                                </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">谈到领导艺术<span lang="EN-US">,</span>越来越多的人主张重视领导者的平凡一面<span lang="EN-US">.</span>目前主流认为领导艺术是可以学习的<span lang="EN-US">,</span>领导力存在于组织任何层面并非一把手的专利<span lang="EN-US">,</span>领导的核心是服务和无私等等<span lang="EN-US">.</span>我想这些研究结论都是正确的<span lang="EN-US">,</span>但并非真相的全部!我既不完全赞同马基雅维里的观点<span lang="EN-US">,</span>也不完全支持关于领导的英雄观<span lang="EN-US">,</span>也不简单同意领导者的平民化观点<span lang="EN-US">.</span>有一点今天我要说说的<span lang="EN-US">,</span>是从亲身实践和对历史的感悟中可以确信的:成就大事者与一般人才确有不同“味道”!这可能对泛民主主义者是个打击<span lang="EN-US">,</span>但这的确是事实<span lang="EN-US">.</span>世界上的确有英雄存在!<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></font></font></p><p><font face="楷体_GB2312"><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; mso-fareast-font-family: 隶书;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">
                                </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">关于这般英雄<span lang="EN-US">,</span>从他们与一般庸才的比较中我更愿意用一个相对“模糊”和更中国化的概念表述<span lang="EN-US">,</span>那就是一个“大”字!他们的思想、胸怀、理想以及处世的态度都体现出“大”家风范<span lang="EN-US">.</span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">虽然这些特质是在与阅历一起成长</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">,</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">但也不是像人们说的那样只是时势造就<span lang="EN-US">,</span>英雄与时势的相互作用才是关键!<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></font></font></p><p><font face="楷体_GB2312"><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; mso-fareast-font-family: 隶书;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">
                                </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">这与西方特质研究本质类似<span lang="EN-US">,</span>但是我们发现中国概念的范畴对于把握这份“大气”更加有效。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></font></font></p><p><font face="楷体_GB2312"><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; mso-fareast-font-family: 隶书;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">
                                </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">大人物之“大”有三个方面:涵养、气度和魄力。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></font></font></p><p><font face="楷体_GB2312"><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; mso-fareast-font-family: 隶书;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">
                                </span><strong><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: normal; FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">涵养</span></strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;"><p></p></span></font></font></p><p><font face="楷体_GB2312"><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; mso-fareast-font-family: 隶书;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">
                                </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">涵养是决定人格“大小”的内在也是首要因素<span lang="EN-US">.</span>涵养的修成取决很多东西<span lang="EN-US">,</span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">但涵养最终表现为人的内涵、包容力和坚定高远的信念。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;"><p></p></span></font></font></p><p><font face="楷体_GB2312"><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; mso-fareast-font-family: 隶书;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">
                                </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">从外部观察一个人的涵养主要是看他<span lang="EN-US">,</span>对待环境和他人所采用的策略、对身边正在发展着的事态做出如何的反应、对各种事件以及利害所持的态度。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></font></font></p><p><font face="楷体_GB2312"><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; mso-fareast-font-family: 隶书;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">
                                </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">首先<span lang="EN-US">,</span>大人物把自我与事业融在了一起。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></font></font></p><p><font face="楷体_GB2312"><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; mso-fareast-font-family: 隶书;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">
                                </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">这是一条重要特征<span lang="EN-US">,</span>即所谓“天人合一”<span lang="EN-US">.</span>大人物考虑问题不是从小我出发<span lang="EN-US">,</span>而是着眼整个事业(不仅是界域范围还有时间跨度)<span lang="EN-US">.</span>因而他与他人的分歧总是集中在工作的改善<span lang="EN-US">,</span>而不是人际冲突<span lang="EN-US">.</span>他与他人的关系变成了事业与他人的关系<span lang="EN-US">,</span>而非人际的彼此<span lang="EN-US">.</span>因此</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">大人物给人印象总是冷静客观、顾全大局、公而忘私、胸襟宽大。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></font></font></p><p><font face="楷体_GB2312"><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; mso-fareast-font-family: 隶书;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">
                                </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">其次<span lang="EN-US">,</span>就策略风格来讲<span lang="EN-US">,</span>他对待环境和他人(竞争对手、客户、同事)</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">讲求和谐<span lang="EN-US">,</span>明道就势</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">(远见洞察未来<span lang="EN-US">,</span>把握潮流)<span lang="EN-US">,</span>绝不借巧诈之谋逆势(损人利己、破坏行规)以图短利<span lang="EN-US">,</span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">与人共事注重双赢<span lang="EN-US">,</span>不搞自欺欺人、自作聪明<span lang="EN-US">,</span>一看就穿的把戏。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;"><p></p></span></font></font></p><p><font face="楷体_GB2312"><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; mso-fareast-font-family: 隶书;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">
                                </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">“夫唯不争<span lang="EN-US">.</span>莫能与之争<span lang="EN-US">.</span>”</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">他代表了事业(使命)<span lang="EN-US">,</span>站在了原则一边(面对现实尊重规律)<span lang="EN-US">,</span>与人共赢<span lang="EN-US">,</span>仁者无敌故成其大。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></font></font></p><p><font face="楷体_GB2312"><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; mso-fareast-font-family: 隶书;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">
                                </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">这一点体现在企业领袖(比如李嘉诚)身上就表现为真正的战略家精神<span lang="EN-US">,</span>无论是合作还是竞争都会导向持久的结构性(非偶然、非投机性、非侥幸)胜利<span lang="EN-US">.</span>长虹(显像管事件)、电讯盈科(投机炙烈)当是反例。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></font></font></p><p><font face="楷体_GB2312"><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; mso-fareast-font-family: 隶书;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">
                                </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">再有<span lang="EN-US">,</span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">大人物对待危机事态<span lang="EN-US">,</span>从容不迫<span lang="EN-US">,</span>不因小利动容<span lang="EN-US">,</span>能够看淡一时得失<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></font></font></p><p><font face="楷体_GB2312"><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: red; mso-fareast-font-family: 隶书;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">
                                </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">人算不如天算<span lang="EN-US">,</span>成就一番事业经历周折。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></font></font></p><p><font face="楷体_GB2312"><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; mso-fareast-font-family: 隶书;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">
                                </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">大领导者责于势而不责于人<span lang="EN-US">,</span>自信乐观的信念与策略同来<span lang="EN-US">,</span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">立足大势的必然就可超越一时的得失<span lang="EN-US">.</span>于是大人物通常可以越挫越勇<span lang="EN-US">.</span>泰山崩于前而不惊慌<span lang="EN-US">,</span>大荣大冤加于身而燕处超然。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></font></font></p><p><font face="楷体_GB2312"><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; mso-fareast-font-family: 隶书;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">
                                </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">惠达陶瓷王惠文、国丰钢铁张震当属此列<span lang="EN-US">.</span>一直令我敬佩的是<span lang="EN-US">,</span>尽管那些人物他们性格并非一定属于沉稳<span lang="EN-US">,</span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">但遇事却出奇冷静<span lang="EN-US">,</span>为人低调看淡荣辱<span lang="EN-US">,</span>直面现实、独立担责。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;"><p></p></span></font></font></p><p><font face="楷体_GB2312"><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; mso-fareast-font-family: 隶书;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">
                                </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">成就大事的有哪个不是几死几活过来的<span lang="EN-US">,</span>虽说“无智名无勇功”<span lang="EN-US">,</span>但也没谁是一帆风顺的。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></font></font></p><p><font face="楷体_GB2312"><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; mso-fareast-font-family: 隶书;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">
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项王遗风 发表于 2007-8-25 16:44:14

<p><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;"><font face="楷体_GB2312"><font size="3"><font color="#3c3cc4"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">&nbsp;</span>看看大人物天生不凡的人格特质,你具备吗?<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></font></font></font></span></p><p><font size="3"><font face="仿宋_GB2312"><font color="#3c3cc4"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; mso-fareast-font-family: 隶书;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">
                                        </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">谈到领导艺术<span lang="EN-US">,</span>越来越多的人主张重视领导者的平凡一面<span lang="EN-US">.</span>目前主流认为领导艺术是可以学习的<span lang="EN-US">,</span>领导力存在于组织任何层面并非一把手的专利<span lang="EN-US">,</span>领导的核心是服务和无私等等<span lang="EN-US">.</span>我想这些研究结论都是正确的<span lang="EN-US">,</span>但并非真相的全部!我既不完全赞同马基雅维里的观点<span lang="EN-US">,</span>也不完全支持关于领导的英雄观<span lang="EN-US">,</span>也不简单同意领导者的平民化观点<span lang="EN-US">.</span>有一点今天我要说说的<span lang="EN-US">,</span>是从亲身实践和对历史的感悟中可以确信的:成就大事者与一般人才确有不同“味道”!这可能对泛民主主义者是个打击<span lang="EN-US">,</span>但这的确是事实<span lang="EN-US">.</span>世界上的确有英雄存在!<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></font></font></font></p><p><font face="楷体_GB2312"><font size="3"><font color="#3c3cc4"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; mso-fareast-font-family: 隶书;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">
                                        </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">关于这般英雄<span lang="EN-US">,</span>从他们与一般庸才的比较中我更愿意用一个相对“模糊”和更中国化的概念表述<span lang="EN-US">,</span>那就是一个“大”字!他们的思想、胸怀、理想以及处世的态度都体现出“大”家风范<span lang="EN-US">.</span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">虽然这些特质是在与阅历一起成长</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">,</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">但也不是像人们说的那样只是时势造就<span lang="EN-US">,</span>英雄与时势的相互作用才是关键!<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></font></font></font></p><p><font face="楷体_GB2312"><font size="3"><font color="#3c3cc4"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; mso-fareast-font-family: 隶书;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">
                                        </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">这与西方特质研究本质类似<span lang="EN-US">,</span>但是我们发现中国概念的范畴对于把握这份“大气”更加有效。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></font></font></font></p><p><font face="楷体_GB2312"><font size="3"><font color="#3c3cc4"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; mso-fareast-font-family: 隶书;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">
                                        </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">大人物之“大”有三个方面:涵养、气度和魄力。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></font></font></font></p><p><font face="楷体_GB2312"><font size="3"><font color="#3c3cc4"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; mso-fareast-font-family: 隶书;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">
                                        </span><strong><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: normal; FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">涵养</span></strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;"><p></p></span></font></font></font></p><p><font face="楷体_GB2312"><font size="3"><font color="#3c3cc4"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; mso-fareast-font-family: 隶书;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">
                                        </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">涵养是决定人格“大小”的内在也是首要因素<span lang="EN-US">.</span>涵养的修成取决很多东西<span lang="EN-US">,</span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">但涵养最终表现为人的内涵、包容力和坚定高远的信念。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;"><p></p></span></font></font></font></p><p><font face="楷体_GB2312"><font size="3"><font color="#3c3cc4"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; mso-fareast-font-family: 隶书;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">
                                        </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">从外部观察一个人的涵养主要是看他<span lang="EN-US">,</span>对待环境和他人所采用的策略、对身边正在发展着的事态做出如何的反应、对各种事件以及利害所持的态度。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></font></font></font></p><p><font face="楷体_GB2312"><font size="3"><font color="#3c3cc4"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; mso-fareast-font-family: 隶书;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">
                                        </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">首先<span lang="EN-US">,</span>大人物把自我与事业融在了一起。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></font></font></font></p><p><font face="楷体_GB2312"><font size="3"><font color="#3c3cc4"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; mso-fareast-font-family: 隶书;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">
                                        </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">这是一条重要特征<span lang="EN-US">,</span>即所谓“天人合一”<span lang="EN-US">.</span>大人物考虑问题不是从小我出发<span lang="EN-US">,</span>而是着眼整个事业(不仅是界域范围还有时间跨度)<span lang="EN-US">.</span>因而他与他人的分歧总是集中在工作的改善<span lang="EN-US">,</span>而不是人际冲突<span lang="EN-US">.</span>他与他人的关系变成了事业与他人的关系<span lang="EN-US">,</span>而非人际的彼此<span lang="EN-US">.</span>因此</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">大人物给人印象总是冷静客观、顾全大局、公而忘私、胸襟宽大。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></font></font></font></p><p><font face="楷体_GB2312"><font size="3"><font color="#3c3cc4"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; mso-fareast-font-family: 隶书;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">
                                        </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">其次<span lang="EN-US">,</span>就策略风格来讲<span lang="EN-US">,</span>他对待环境和他人(竞争对手、客户、同事)</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">讲求和谐<span lang="EN-US">,</span>明道就势</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">(远见洞察未来<span lang="EN-US">,</span>把握潮流)<span lang="EN-US">,</span>绝不借巧诈之谋逆势(损人利己、破坏行规)以图短利<span lang="EN-US">,</span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">与人共事注重双赢<span lang="EN-US">,</span>不搞自欺欺人、自作聪明<span lang="EN-US">,</span>一看就穿的把戏。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;"><p></p></span></font></font></font></p><p><font face="楷体_GB2312"><font size="3"><font color="#3c3cc4"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; mso-fareast-font-family: 隶书;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">
                                        </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">“夫唯不争<span lang="EN-US">.</span>莫能与之争<span lang="EN-US">.</span>”</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">他代表了事业(使命)<span lang="EN-US">,</span>站在了原则一边(面对现实尊重规律)<span lang="EN-US">,</span>与人共赢<span lang="EN-US">,</span>仁者无敌故成其大。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></font></font></font></p><p><font face="楷体_GB2312"><font size="3"><font color="#3c3cc4"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; mso-fareast-font-family: 隶书;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">
                                        </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">这一点体现在企业领袖(比如李嘉诚)身上就表现为真正的战略家精神<span lang="EN-US">,</span>无论是合作还是竞争都会导向持久的结构性(非偶然、非投机性、非侥幸)胜利<span lang="EN-US">.</span>长虹(显像管事件)、电讯盈科(投机炙烈)当是反例。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></font></font></font></p><p><font face="楷体_GB2312"><font size="3"><font color="#3c3cc4"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; mso-fareast-font-family: 隶书;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">
                                        </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">再有<span lang="EN-US">,</span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">大人物对待危机事态<span lang="EN-US">,</span>从容不迫<span lang="EN-US">,</span>不因小利动容<span lang="EN-US">,</span>能够看淡一时得失<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></font></font></font></p><p><font face="楷体_GB2312"><font size="3"><font color="#3c3cc4"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: red; mso-fareast-font-family: 隶书;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">
                                        </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">人算不如天算<span lang="EN-US">,</span>成就一番事业经历周折。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></font></font></font></p><p><font face="楷体_GB2312"><font size="3"><font color="#3c3cc4"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; mso-fareast-font-family: 隶书;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">
                                        </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">大领导者责于势而不责于人<span lang="EN-US">,</span>自信乐观的信念与策略同来<span lang="EN-US">,</span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">立足大势的必然就可超越一时的得失<span lang="EN-US">.</span>于是大人物通常可以越挫越勇<span lang="EN-US">.</span>泰山崩于前而不惊慌<span lang="EN-US">,</span>大荣大冤加于身而燕处超然。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></font></font></font></p><p><font face="楷体_GB2312"><font size="3"><font color="#3c3cc4"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; mso-fareast-font-family: 隶书;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">
                                        </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">惠达陶瓷王惠文、国丰钢铁张震当属此列<span lang="EN-US">.</span>一直令我敬佩的是<span lang="EN-US">,</span>尽管那些人物他们性格并非一定属于沉稳<span lang="EN-US">,</span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">但遇事却出奇冷静<span lang="EN-US">,</span>为人低调看淡荣辱<span lang="EN-US">,</span>直面现实、独立担责。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;"><p></p></span></font></font></font></p><p><font face="楷体_GB2312"><font size="3"><font color="#3c3cc4"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; mso-fareast-font-family: 隶书;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">
                                        </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">成就大事的有哪个不是几死几活过来的<span lang="EN-US">,</span>虽说“无智名无勇功”<span lang="EN-US">,</span>但也没谁是一帆风顺的。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></font></font></font></p><p><font face="楷体_GB2312"><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; mso-fareast-font-family: 隶书;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: #ffcc99; FONT-FAMILY: 隶书;">
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wangyanlei 发表于 2007-8-26 10:29:13

好文章!

ecommander 发表于 2007-8-26 11:43:30

<p>道出了些许道理!</p>

寻秦记 发表于 2007-8-26 12:19:21

<p>看不清,这个字体</p>

dqsvictor 发表于 2007-8-26 14:51:54

<p>有道理.</p><p></p>

dqsvictor 发表于 2007-8-26 14:52:15

我还差很远呀

南华学童 发表于 2007-8-26 15:46:50

不服失败,哪怕流血牺牲,我一定要得到认同。

carver_xie 发表于 2007-8-26 17:16:41

说的不错,不过太晃眼了看不清啊

Gaviny 发表于 2007-8-26 21:48:20

字体太淡了,看不清楚<br/>不过我同意搂住的观点,非凡人物却是具备不同一般人的特点<br/>
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