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问学发表于 2007-7-9 11:16:17

您的孩子在什么环境下成长?

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wqing5127 发表于 2007-7-9 13:45:56

孩子成长的环境能决定他的将来

dzqiang 发表于 2007-7-9 16:58:44

<p>生长的环境只是造就孩子性格的一部分因素哈</p><p>不能过分夸大环境的力量，还有其他的很多因素与孩子的成长有关哈！</p><p></p>

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