塑性文化之五――生命核心
<p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 16pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center;"><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 15pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 黑体;"><p><font face=""> </font></p></span></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 16pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center;"><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-FAMILY: 黑体; mso-ascii-font-family: '';">塑性文化之五――生命核心</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 15pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 黑体;"><p></p></span></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 16pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center;"><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 15pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 黑体;"><p><font face=""> </font></p></span></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 23.85pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 23pt; mso-char-indent-count: 1.98; mso-line-height-rule: exactly;"><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">我们做任何事情，都是先在心中构思，然后付诸实现。认定使命后，着手做任何事情前，先认清方向。确立个人使命，必须从影响生命核心开始，因为一切观念的根源都源自于生命核心。也是安全感、人生方向、智慧、力量的源泉。</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt;"><p></p></span></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 23.6pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 23pt; mso-char-indent-count: 1.96; mso-line-height-rule: exactly;"><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">一．生命核心</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt;"><p></p></span></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 23pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt;"><font face="">1</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">、 <b>安全感</b>是代表价值观、认同、自尊自重与归属感。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 23pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt;"><font face="">2</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">、 <b>人生方向</b>是追求的方向及决断所依据的原则：（</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt;"><font face="">1</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">）以我是责任的主体、我是一切问题的根源为基础，把自己所能控制的事圈起来就形成影响圈，个人关注的问题有些无能为力归于关注圈。着重于“影响圈”的人，脚踏实地，不好高骛远，把心力投注于自己能力有所作为的事情；所获成就将使影响圈逐步扩大，影响圈扩大时，客观条件（关注圈）缩小，表现为一种积极思想心态</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt;"><font face="">---</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">即是正确的人生方向。（</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt;"><font face="">2</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">）反之，消极被动的人全神贯注在“关注圈”，时刻不忘环境的种种限制，他人的种种缺失，徒为无法改变的状况担忧，受迫害的感觉日益强烈，着力方向错误。人的内心世界越来越脆弱，影响越来越小，则会导致人际关系破裂，表现为一种消极思想</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt;"><font face="">---</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">即是错误的人生方向。（</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt;"><font face="">3</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">）当两圈平衡时，则是人生方向发展最快的。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 23pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt;"><font face="">3</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">、 <b>智慧</b>是对事物的认识、理解与判断能力。个人因素控制因素增加，外界影响因素则减少。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 23pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt;"><font face="">4</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">、<b> 力量</b>是指采取行动达成目标的能耐。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 23pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly;"><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">生命的核心以什么为重心？以原则为重心，原则是恒久不变值得信赖，可以增加安全感，原则可以助人披荆斩棘，克服人生困难，在逆境中能清明的内省，也教人处于顺境中以立已达人为重心，让人不迷失方向带来智慧。人本质的核心是礼貌、仁慈、信任</span></b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 23pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly;"><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 黑体; mso-ascii-font-family: '';">二．有本事与有能力关系（能力是因，本事是果）</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 黑体;"><p></p></span></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 23pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">本事的六种内涵界定：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 36pt; TEXT-INDENT: -36pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 23pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: '';"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face="">1、<span style="FONT: 7pt "";"> </span></font></span></span><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">合理的态度</span></b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">。凡事都是自动自发的，合理平衡得与失之关的关系。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 36pt; TEXT-INDENT: -36pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 23pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: '';"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face="">2、<span style="FONT: 7pt "";"> </span></font></span></span><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">自我定位</span></b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">。站稳自己应有的立场。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 36pt; TEXT-INDENT: -36pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 23pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: '';"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face="">3、<span style="FONT: 7pt "";"> </span></font></span></span><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">人际关系的技巧</span></b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">。既会做事又能兼顾做人。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 36pt; TEXT-INDENT: -36pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 23pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: '';"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face="">4、<span style="FONT: 7pt "";"> </span></font></span></span><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">专业技能</span></b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">。保证做好人又做好事。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 36pt; TEXT-INDENT: -36pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 23pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: '';"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face="">5、<span style="FONT: 7pt "";"> </span></font></span></span><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">合作心理</span></b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">。在专业分工中向共同目标前进。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 36pt; TEXT-INDENT: -36pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 23pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: '';"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face="">6、<span style="FONT: 7pt "";"> </span></font></span></span><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">素养</span></b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ''; mso-hansi-font-family: '';">。具备以上素养达到相当程度，便是有本事的人。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 35.4pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 23pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.94; mso-line-height-rule: exactly;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 黑体; mso-ascii-font-family: '';">有本事的人一定有能力，但有能力的人不一定有本事。</span></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 黑体;"><p></p></span></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 23pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 黑体;"><p><font face=""> </font></p></span></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 23pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt;"><p><font face=""> </font></p></span></p>
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